Walpole , you bring up some good points and questions in light of Paul’s instructions to Timothy here in this passage about these later days where many are indeed attempting to re-define (depart from) the Biblical teaching concerning “
marriage” (or eating cereal foods for that matter). I’ll repost Paul’s two examples of what it is to “
depart from the faith” and discuss its application to the church in these days, addressing your questions:
But the Spirit explicitly says that in later times some will depart from the faith, paying-attention-to deceitful spirits and teachings of demons by means of the hypocrisy of liars having been seared as to their own conscience— forbidding to marry, commanding to abstain from foods which God created for a receiving with thanksgiving by the ones who are believers and know the truth. Because every creature of God is good. And nothing being received with thanksgiving is to be rejected, for it is sanctified by the word of God and prayer.
1 Timothy 4:1-5 -
https://www.biblegateway.com/passage?search=1 Timothy 4:1-5&version=DLNT
Only if he is forbidding what God has sanctified as good would this be an example of “departing from the faith”. God has sanctified marriage (not forbidden it) as being a monogamous, whole body, and sacrificial union between one man and one woman for one lifetime as “good”. Any departure from God’s sanctification concerning marriage (or food or any other teaching to include salvation) is just what it says it is; a departure from the faith. In the case of marriage, if a priest is forbidden or forbidding other to marry (and by that I mean God sanctified marriage), he (or she) has departed from the faith. Period!
No. My pastors have always insured (to the best of his ability anyway) they are requesting a God sanctified marriage. If he determines their request in not sanctified by God for whatever reason (two men, two women, unequally yoked, etc.) he will not marry them in my church.
No, because it is sanctified by God for a man to leave his father and mother (his family) to become married. It’s always been this way. If they are brother/sister, i.e. have the same parents, he’s not leaving his parents to marry her.
and said, ‘On account of this a man will leave his father and his mother and will be joined to his wife, and the two will become one flesh’?
Matthew 19:5 -
https://www.biblegateway.com/passage?search=Matthew 19:5&version=LEB
No. It’s only a marriage if it’s a God sanctified marriage. Anything else is a departure from what God had made good.
Make sense?
Now, a question for you; Are priests forbidden to marry according to Biblical teaching?