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Dave Slayer
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Do pick up lines work when picking up chicks?
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Dave, where do you get these questions?
No, pick up lines never worked with me neither did flattery, but they do with some girls. I think the easier the girl the easier it works. I think Christian men should be very careful with pickup lines because there are some girls who really desparately just want and need to hear something nice said to them so they will latch on to anything, will do almost anything to please and keep you, but often these girls will also be quick to leave a marriage when the going gets tough. I think Christian men should save their lines and just find a girl they really are interested in, spend some time getting to know her to make sure she is really who she first appeared to be, get to know about her family, spiritual, and social life and if it all still appears appealing THEN make a move indicating you are interested in her as more than just a friend, by this stage, pick up lines are unnecessary. I think of pick up lines as rather cheap where a man just tries to pick up a girl he probably doesn`t even know. I think pick up lines are most suitable for bars, clubs, and bikini beaches. Now that you mention it, I am going to make a mental note to tell my daughter when she gets older to disregard any man that throws a cheap pick up line at her.
No, pick up lines never worked with me neither did flattery, but they do with some girls. I think the easier the girl the easier it works. I think Christian men should be very careful with pickup lines because there are some girls who really desparately just want and need to hear something nice said to them so they will latch on to anything, will do almost anything to please and keep you, but often these girls will also be quick to leave a marriage when the going gets tough. I think Christian men should save their lines and just find a girl they really are interested in, spend some time getting to know her to make sure she is really who she first appeared to be, get to know about her family, spiritual, and social life and if it all still appears appealing THEN make a move indicating you are interested in her as more than just a friend, by this stage, pick up lines are unnecessary. I think of pick up lines as rather cheap where a man just tries to pick up a girl he probably doesn`t even know. I think pick up lines are most suitable for bars, clubs, and bikini beaches. Now that you mention it, I am going to make a mental note to tell my daughter when she gets older to disregard any man that throws a cheap pick up line at her.
Caroline H
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What does that mean??Adullam said:
ProphetMark
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Here's some good ones:
"You are a Galatians 5 fruit salad."
"When I read Philippians 4 verse 8, I think of you."
"Hey good-looking! Ecclesiastes 4 verse 11."
"You are a Galatians 5 fruit salad."
"When I read Philippians 4 verse 8, I think of you."
"Hey good-looking! Ecclesiastes 4 verse 11."
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Giving a sincere compliment is one thing, but a fake approach can't stand a chance!
Because, in the long run the true personality comes to the surface anyway. Yup, even the wolves in sheeps clothing, in the process of, and in the end of it all, are exposed for what was the truth behind the motive .... Nothing but a fake.
Here's what I think about 'Pick up lines' : :verysick
I used to be an 'insecure chick' and I too would use flirting to get a guy to like me. It doesn't work. In the long run even the person who flirts for the wrong reasons will end up hurt when the motives of either person are not in line with Godly virtues. I've long since given up flirting AND dating. I just go about my daily living and not worry about whether I meet someone or not. I know the Lord provides in due time. And I don't need to flirt in order to make a certain type of impression on anyone.
Besides, I've learned that "friendship" is the only way to start out relating to anyone. Flirting only complicates and/or compromises what could turn out to be a life long frienship, which, by the way, just might turn out to be the one who the Lord sent to you as your mate! So figure.... Don't blow it by stupid flirting. Sincere compliments are one thing and if said from the heart in truth then there is nothing wrong with that. But pick up lines.... flirting insincerely just to impress? That's nothing but being a faker! Thumbs down to that!!!
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Giving a sincere compliment is one thing, but a fake approach can't stand a chance!
Because, in the long run the true personality comes to the surface anyway. Yup, even the wolves in sheeps clothing, in the process of, and in the end of it all, are exposed for what was the truth behind the motive .... Nothing but a fake.
Here's what I think about 'Pick up lines' : :verysick
I used to be an 'insecure chick' and I too would use flirting to get a guy to like me. It doesn't work. In the long run even the person who flirts for the wrong reasons will end up hurt when the motives of either person are not in line with Godly virtues. I've long since given up flirting AND dating. I just go about my daily living and not worry about whether I meet someone or not. I know the Lord provides in due time. And I don't need to flirt in order to make a certain type of impression on anyone.
Besides, I've learned that "friendship" is the only way to start out relating to anyone. Flirting only complicates and/or compromises what could turn out to be a life long frienship, which, by the way, just might turn out to be the one who the Lord sent to you as your mate! So figure.... Don't blow it by stupid flirting. Sincere compliments are one thing and if said from the heart in truth then there is nothing wrong with that. But pick up lines.... flirting insincerely just to impress? That's nothing but being a faker! Thumbs down to that!!!
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"Here's what I think about 'Pick up lines' : "
Relic, I couldn`t have expressed it any better. That is exactly how I feel about pick up lines. There is NOTHING sincere about a pick line. They are used to pick up a girl, ANY girl and multiple girls. Pick up lines should be considered an insult to any decent Christian girl. Our Christian sisters deserve better than that, and shame on any Christian brother who treats a girl so cheaply as to throw a pick up line at her. Disgusting!
And dear brother ProphetMark, if you want to call a dear sister a "Galatians 5 fruit salad", then you deserve to have that "fruit salad" dumped on your head! Treat a girl with respect by getting to know her rather than throwing "fruit salad" lines at her. Girls deserve better than that.
Relic, I couldn`t have expressed it any better. That is exactly how I feel about pick up lines. There is NOTHING sincere about a pick line. They are used to pick up a girl, ANY girl and multiple girls. Pick up lines should be considered an insult to any decent Christian girl. Our Christian sisters deserve better than that, and shame on any Christian brother who treats a girl so cheaply as to throw a pick up line at her. Disgusting!
And dear brother ProphetMark, if you want to call a dear sister a "Galatians 5 fruit salad", then you deserve to have that "fruit salad" dumped on your head! Treat a girl with respect by getting to know her rather than throwing "fruit salad" lines at her. Girls deserve better than that.
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Lewis
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Some girls they work on, and some they don't. Some girls hate pickup lines, because they consider them common, and not specifically tailored for them, but common sayings by men that are passed down from other men. And some pickup lines are really corny, and some girls will tell you, that they are corny.