Ephesians 1:17-20 KJV
17 That the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of glory, may give unto you the spirit of wisdom and revelation in the knowledge of him:
18 The eyes of your understanding being enlightened; that ye may know what is the hope of his calling, and what the riches of the glory of his inheritance in the saints,
19 And what is the exceeding greatness of his power to us-ward who believe, according to the working of his mighty power,
20 Which he wrought in Christ, when he raised him from the dead, and set him at his own right hand in the heavenly places,
I think in this verse that what God wants is not always done, at least not when He would. Sometimes when man "would not" God did not force but is long-suffering. What a loving Lord we have.
Matthew 23:37
O Jerusalem, Jerusalem, thou that killest the prophets, and stonest them which are sent unto thee,
how often would I have gathered thy children together, even as a hen gathereth her chickens under her wings,
and ye would not!
Luke 13:34 O Jerusalem, Jerusalem,
the city that kills the prophets and stones those sent to her!
How often I wanted to gather your children together, just as a
hen gathers her brood under her wings, and
you would not have it!