Eptopic Pregnancy

[Jasmin husin]

Hi all , i am 31 female with a husband and two children . We are an evangelical christian family and recently has a traumatic experience with our third pregnancy. After surgery 8 weeks ago to remove a partially ruptured eptopic pregnancy we are now trying to deal with the emotional trauma and what is the right and wrong christian approach on how to understand process and heal . Any help advice opinions are welcome . From a struggling grieving mama !
Jasmin x

 

[BibleStudent100]

I express my deep condolences for your loss of the baby. Indeed, all your families grieve along with you as a loss of a child affects many more than just the parents. As individuals with inherited sin, we know that the health of our children and unborn children is always at risk, just as adults suffer the "risk" of finding out about a grievous disease that could impact us at any time.

Sadly, there are doctors who encourage women to have "therapeutic abortion" because of a danger to her health or life, or to her child; a possible or potential danger, even a grave one, does not justify taking matters into one’s own hands and deliberately cutting off the life of the child in the womb. Deciding according to the Scriptural view will take real faith and courage, but it assuredly will be the proper decision, and one that God will approve of forever.

However, in your case, the embryo in an ectopic pregnancy has a 0% survival rate and needs to be removed from its temporary place of residence so that the mother can live. In these cases, one reasons according to Biblical precepts that removing the embryo is an unavoidable side effect of the treatment; abortion is neither the treatment itself nor the objective.

Warm Christian greetings to you and to your lovely family

 

[for_his_glory]

Ectopic pregnancies are just about the same thing as a miscarriage that we have no control over and it does affect us very emotionally. I feel for you and your family having to go through that. My husband and I went through a miscarriage and never could get pregnant again. What helped me through it was knowing that someday I will see our baby healthy and in the arms of Jesus.

We may never know why these things happen, but to know God has His reasons. My heart goes out to you

 

[Who Me]

we are now trying to deal with the emotional trauma and what is the right and wrong christian approach on how to understand process and heal

As you know pregnancy is an emotional time, normally a joyous time, but yours was traumatic lly cut short.
Do take the time to grieve and Mourne for your loss.

God knows your pain.

Yes a life was lost but the consequences of not having that loss would have been far greater.
The loss of your life, the loss of the child, the windowing of your husband and of your children loosing their mother.

Your pain is great, take time to mourne and rejoice in what you have.