With all due respect, I just want to understand your perspective.
You are correct, we don't follow Paul, but we do follow Paul's instruction if it is in agreement with Scripture as a whole. I think it is a dangerous prospect to start with the idea that Paul is wrong in what he says. You would be better off saying, "I simply disagree with Paul".
You said earlier,
Grazer said:
Paul was addressing a specific situation at a specific time. We don't know exactly what that was so I think its a little unwise to take that and universally apply it.
We don't know exactly what what was? The Culture? Actually, we know exactly what situation Paul was writing about because he starts his letter out to Timothy with his purpose.
NIV 1 Timothy 1:3 As I urged you when I went into Macedonia, stay there in Ephesus so that you may command certain people not to teach false doctrines any longer
Now then, what filter does Paul use for correct doctrine? He tells us that too.
NIV 1 Timothy 1:11 that conforms to the gospel concerning the glory of the blessed God,
We see here that all doctrines should conform to the gospel concerning the glory of God.
Obviously there were those who were trying to teach that women could take the role of Bishop. This is contrary to Scripture and Paul is very clear on why and references Creation.
Grazer said:
Women were the first evangelists, Jesus was all about gender equality...
According to Paul, it was Woman who was first deceived.
We do, however see an example where Aquila and Priscilla both take Apollos aside and teach him about Jesus. But this is not the role of Bishop. Yes, women are to teach and evangelize. Nobody is saying they shouldn't and nobody is saying women shouldn't learn. Paul expressly states, "A woman should learn in quietness" and this is in relation to corporate worship.
Can I ask why you have a problem with what Paul clearly writes? I mean, do you think it belittles a woman? I'm just trying to understand your world view.
Thanks,.