I have no interest in wrath. I seek what is true.
Having said that, this thread is mostly for those with the theology that "there are those who cannot be saved because god made them for destruction".
With all due respect, we simply can't have one sided arguments... and while you have no interest in wrath, you sure talk much about it... so while we're talking about wrath, scripture is clear that we bring wrath upon ourselves. This is a true statement and can be seen by the many who have chosen prison by romanticizing and living out a particular lifestyle. They've gotten what they've sought after.
Besides, you're issue is more than what you've stated in you're opening OP. Here, let me post what you've posted in this thread yourself, and as such, I was only responding.
I completely reject the doctrine of people "choosing hell". No one "chooses" to go to everlasting punishment. It is forced upon them because of it being the only other choice. Someone who is unable to be dishonest about what they feel about the god of the bible, in other words, finding no evidence for believing THIS religion to somehow be THE only religion amongst thousands of others, . . . only having the words of other people telling you that THEY are right. Not being able to believe other PEOPLE is not the same as "choosing hell over Jesus". If I was able to experience the person of Jesus, that would go a long way to [and here's the key] making a decision of this magnatude. "Faith" is an unethical way for people's future to be determined by.
I disagree that wrath is forced upon anyone and your argument tells me that you've ran into some not so friendly Christians that didn't have the understanding or patience to share the gospel with you.
Simply put my friend, being a Christian entails a way of life and a way of living your life. It's not so much about where we are going when we die, though we do have the assurance of a wonderful place, but it's as much about bringing God's glory to earth, and to live the way we were intended to live.
This doesn't mean that as Christians that we don't make mistakes, or that we don't sin, or that we always live the way of Jesus, but it simply means that when we slip or fall, we have somebody there to help us up, and we always have somebody to turn to just to name a few.
Like yourself, I disagree with those that make the argument, "Accept Jesus or burn in hell". That's based on fear and control, not love and acceptance. Furthermore, it's not the way Jesus preached the good news, nor was it the way Paul preached the good news because simply put, "Accept Jesus or burn in Hell" isn't good news...