I am sorry Kefka but I just can not agree at all. For one thing, you mentioned going door to door. Door to door anything usually makes people skeptical and is often a big turn off. Is it worth turning one person off so the youth can go on a trip? Is it worth risking one soul going to hell so someone can go down a waterslide? I don't think so. I do believe we need to work, but if the youth want to go on a trip, they should work at McDonalds, mow lawns (but not in the name of the church), clean houses, babysit, and save their own money to go but do not link that money with sales from the church. In other words, they should get a regular job like the rest of society that wants to go on a trip or the parents could just pay for it out of their own pockets, but raising money in the church is just plain wrong.
"So as long as it has to do with a church, people can't help financially if they get something in return?" My point is, Christians should give without expecting anything in return. We should not let our left hand know what our right hand is doing. If we put money in the offering plate, do we expect to receive a nice hotel stay if we give a lot or a bag of candy if we give a little? Should we expect to get our picture in the paper and a ribbon of recognition if we give to a Christian charity? No, we just give and expect nothing in return other than the blessing and joy of being able to give. I think this is what we should teach our children.
"Doesn't it teach christians that if they want results, they'll have to work for them?" Yes in a way it does, but as Christians we really must carefully guide our youth in knowing the right things to work for and the proper way to work for them. As I said in my last posting, there are too many reasons that a church should not be teaching the youth to be fundraising in the name of GOD for the purpose of a trip. The youth can still go on a trip but the money should come out of their own pockets or the pockets of their parents or anyone else that just wants to pay but has not been pressured or solicited. I am not against Christian retreats of any kind. I am just against fundraising in the church.
"when the youth have a fundraiser... it's more like a party. People come, they enjoy themselves and they buy things (proceeds go towards said trip) and they have the oppotunity to donate freely. Tell me, does that sound sinister to you? "
No, it does not sound sinister, but nor did it sound sinister for Eve to eat from the fruit of knowledge. Satan made it sound quite enticing. Most sin does not sound sinister. Most sin can be painted and packaged to look rather innocent, but the fact is sin is sin no matter how it looks or sounds. And if fundraising gives the wrong impression to anyone inside or outside the church, then it is wrong, and I can assure that fundraising has the potential to make the motive of Christians and the church questionable. Let's rise above this and not ask people to buy things from us or give us money. Lets just pay for our trips out of our own pockets and give the love of Christ freely, then no one can find any cause to accuse us and this is where we called to be "blameless".
""Some church that is, they're supposed to be God's children and look at them asking for money!" That's looking at it religiously. In my opinion, when God looks down and sees the youth not only working together, but working with christians and non-christians in order to get done what needs to be done, he probably smiles."
No, I don't think He smiles when people use His name to sale things to buy a carpet or more commonly go on a trip. Especially when Christians go to nonChristians and ask them to help fund their trip. This is not looking at it religiously. This is looking at it just the way it looks, and that is a church is asking for money so some kids can go on a trip. If they are having financial problems, this might make them bitter. If they have experienced a hardship like the loss of a loved one to an expensive disease, experienced a national disaster, or have travelled and have seen poverty, they may wonder why you are raising money for yourself rather than raising it for those in real need. These are legitimate questions to ask. And as Christians we must remember that we are being watched and our behaviors are being more carefully scrutinized than the rest of society so we have an obligation to God to be as blameless as possible. Finally I am not convinced that raising money for a fun trip is something that Christians and nonChristians need to work together on "in order to get done what needs to be done". I am not convinced that that is what "needs to be done". And I certainly don't think you can convince the majority of nonChristians that it is. So I don't think fundraising is making God smile nor do I think it is something that when we get to Heaven He will say "well done My good and faithful servant, well done".