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I guess this question is going out to the moderators more than to anyone. I was wondering about the possibility of forum being started that deals specifically with Christians that struggle with same sex attraction. Contrary to popular belief, there are many such people siting in America's churches suffering in silence.
As a bi-sexual male who has struggled with such temptations all my life, I know the stigma attached to Christians with gay feelings. I believe part of the reason why the gay movement is thriving today is partly because of our unwillingness to lovingly address the issues with those suffering. Many well-meaning Christians believe that the thing to do is push gay/lesbian peoples out of the church and into the social periphery. In fact, I can imagine many Christians reading this now and thinking, "Eek! Theres a homo in our mists!"
I renounced the gay lifestyle long ago to follow Christ and reach out to others lost to this sinful way of living. Gay/lesbian peoples need to know that they are deeply loved by God, that salvation is available to them, and that the Church cares for them. I would love to see such a forum started, although I can understand the controversy it would generate from both sides. The subject of same-sex relationships is still hot button issue in both the Christian and secular world.
Just a thought, though.
 
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We've had plenty enough debates on this forum with homosexuals who refuse to turn away from the sin and insist that living as a participating homosexual is okay because "they think" that salvation is some thing other than going to sin no more, but that they think being "saved" is just a so called key to heaven, as if they have an open door without having to stop sinning. They think if they just accept Jesus into their lives that their sins are forgiven, BUT, they forget that sins are only forgiven if repentance is included. In other words they think they don't have to stop sinning.

And what would you suppose to say to someone who refuses to turn away from that sin, but insists it's okay to continue in that life-style because they "think" they are saved? But in actuality, saved from committing to continue in that sin, is what they do not understand. They don't understand the long-suffering of discipline, (taking up their own cross "daily" and following Jesus, so as to "Go and sin no more".

Many people here have told them we love them, but the sin is what we as Christians hate. We have encouraged them to go and sin no more, but they just retaliate and come back with words accusing us of being homophobic (as if we are afraid of what they love? :o ) , and being offended by the mere mention of anything being of a perverse nature. The word perversion offends them, and they refuse to listen to the facts that the Holy Spirit's job is to convict a person of their sins and to teach them to "Go and sin no more". They just don't get it, but would rather dwell on the excuse that they were "oriented" that way at birth. They refuse to see it as a birth defect if the fact is being that of a chemical composition in their bodies are off balance that can be corrected. But they insist that it is a thing they cannot change and refuse to change. They refuse to understand the principalities that come to steal kill and destroy the spirit of a person, They don't understand that a mind-set is what makes all the difference and that discipline is crucial in overcoming the things of this world that are destructive to them. They think they are perfectly situated in their homosexual mind-set and life-style, and that Jesus accepts them even if they refuse to give up the life-style and mind-set of the homosexual.

And by the way... being bi-sexual is just being a part time homosexual, so what's the excuse there? Does having sex with women and sometimes men make you any less of a homosexual mindset just because you do it part time? :o

Also, when we point out that fornication is a promiscuousness that is forbidden for good reason , they ignore it and think that living in a monogamous homosexual relationship is just fine. And they insist that marriage should be for them also. What do you propose to say to those that insist they are just fine in their homosexual and bi lifestyle, and think it is the so called "Christians" who are the ones who don't know what they are talking about? :crying: What do you say to people who love their sin too much to be willing to give it up and to Go and sin no more? What do you say to people who refuse to understand that temptations will come, but that it is in the overcoming and hard word of discipline of resisting and fleeing those temptations in which we find the Holy spirit at work? What do you say to those who refuse to learn the principals of self discipline but only continually give into the temptations that come? They refuse to see the things that come to invade their thought life, but only see it as some urge that is inbred. :-? They refuse to see that the things of the spirit are what is the catalyst of all actions, of all thing made manifest. They refuse to see that the things of the spirit are what are at the root of all things made manifest. :sad What do you propose to say to those who refuse the knowledge of the Holy Spirit at work only when reception is taking place, not rejection by way of succombing to the things which tempt to act upon what is deemed as being sin against the holy spirit of God. In essence, when they reject this type of discipline they reject the things of the holy spirit. They grieve the holy spirit, instead of obeying the holy spirit. And that.... is a crying shame. We can only pray they come to see and hear the truth of obedience and the value of obedience of Godly principals which are only of the Holy Spirit. they need to learn how to receive the change even if it "feels" like they are being pulled by the ear and they must experience this long-suffering that comes with self discipline.

Prayer is all that can be done once the truth has been given by way of the input of the word. Pray that God give them the awareness of how self discipline/obedience works only by walking in it through the Holy Spirit living in them, not some other perverse spirit. They refuse to decern the spirit that resides in themselves and others who come in front of them. They refuse to see the truth of what is influencing the spirit. They refuse to live by the holiness of God. Instead, they live by another god that is come to deceive them. And they refuse to wake up from out of their stupors because they love the sin, but refuse to see the consequences of any sin. They are foreign to the Holy/Sanctified things of God which protect us from falling into the ungodly things of this world. Those ungodly things which only eventually destroy and grieve the holy spirit.


Walk away from sin to Go and sin no more, even it it comes back to haunt, we all must flee from sin. They need to learn of the transforming power that comes only through the accepting of the Holy Spirit. If they don't accept the ways of the Holy Spirit to be their new walk, their born again experience, then where is the glory to glory walk? What is in the heart is what is made manifest. We all must accept the Holy Spirit into our hearts to come out from us. And homosexuality is NOT of the Holy Spirit. When we live by the spirit we find ourselves transformed by the Holy Spirit. To dwell on the perverse is NOT of the Holy Spirit. We must flee from all perverse thoughts to cast them behind us. To stamp them underfoot, instead of allowing them to strike at our achilles heal! why are they unwilling to let God be God? Why are they unwilling to give up their sins? Why do they love their sins more than they love the righteousness of God? Why do they reject God's truth about moral behavior by insisting on perverting it? Why do the insist on believing a lie instead of obeying the truth of God? They make gods out of their own idols of perverted sex which is an assault on the heterosexuality created by God that is meant for us all. :sad


We all need to pray for each other and encourage each other to flee from sin, to resist the devil and to seek after the heart of God.

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It's a shame when people are forced into accepting sin as if it were not sin :sad

Isaiah 3:9 The shew of their countenance doth witness against them; and they declare their sin as Sodom, they hide it not. Woe unto their soul! for they have rewarded evil unto themselves.

Isaiah 5:20
Woe unto them that call evil good, and good evil; that put darkness for light, and light for darkness; that put bitter for sweet, and sweet for bitter!

Isaiah Washington - His sentence for using tacky slang.
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I agree with what you say. But, you missed my point by focusing exclusively on those trying to hold on to their homosexuality. My reference was to those who wish to successfully leave the homosexual lifestyle through God's grace. I am not advocating that the homosexual lifestyle is biblically valid. I am not pro-gay.
Also, homosexuality is not a choice. It can't be willed away or altered with positive thinking. It is SIN, therefore it can only be purged by God's miraculous healing power. Think about it, if people had the inherent ability to deal with their own sin-natures, they wouldn't need a savior. As far as falling back into sin, how many of us have repented of the same sin over and over again? Why should homosexuality be any different? In fact, without a Christian support system, same-sex attracted people are far more likely to backslide. That's all I'm suggesting: a Christian support system.
Incidently, I'm 38 years old and I've managed to maintain my virginity (through God's power). Not too many guys can make such a claim. Not all same-sex attracted people are "perverts".
 
Peacesearch said:
I agree with what you say. But, you missed my point by focusing exclusively on those trying to hold on to their homosexuality. My reference was to those who wish to successfully leave the homosexual lifestyle through God's grace. I am not advocating that the homosexual lifestyle is biblically valid. I am not pro-gay.
Also, homosexuality is not a choice. It can't be willed away or altered with positive thinking. It is SIN, therefore it can only be purged by God's miraculous healing power. Think about it, if people had the inherent ability to deal with their own sin-natures, they wouldn't need a savior. As far as falling back into sin, how many of us have repented of the same sin over and over again? Why should homosexuality be any different? In fact, without a Christian support system, same-sex attracted people are far more likely to backslide. That's all I'm suggesting: a Christian support system.
Incidently, I'm 38 years old and I've managed to maintain my virginity (through God's power). Not too many guys can make such a claim. Not all same-sex attracted people are "perverts".

Could not be said better! This is the problem that I have with the 'anti-gay' agenda of the fundmental-religious-right - they as so focused on the sin that they forget the person dealing with the sin.

I wonder how many Christians find themselves in bars, casinos, buying lottery tickets, smoking a cigarette, gossiping to their neighbors, etc, etc. Do we approarch them with the same vitriol? No.

Yes, I will admit there is a "militant" wing of the gay community - however, Peace is not talking about them - but rather HIS struggle as a believer. The same struggle WE ALL have with sin as a believer.

I wonder if Dobson made that same speech to Haggard?
 
How many forums would we have if we listed a single forum for every single sin that is a stronghold in the lives of individuals?

The strongholds that are in place within believers are defeated by transforming the mind via the word of God, prayer and fasting, and accountability support from other Christians within ones circle of relationship. A forum is not the place for such support.
 
Heck, we tried specific forums for the Catholic faith. That didn't work out. And the Catholic faith is much less of a "hot button" than homosexuality.
I'm a realist. I lost the idealist views some time ago. I'm not a young man with a cause any longer. Ideally it all sounds good but the practicality of the idea leaves much to be desired.
 
PotLuck said:
Heck, we tried specific forums for the Catholic faith. That didn't work out. And the Catholic faith is much less of a "hot button" than homosexuality.
I'm a realist. I lost the idealist views some time ago. I'm not a young man with a cause any longer. Ideally it all sounds good but the practicality of the idea leaves much to be desired.

The cause of Christ is no longer worth fighting? We are 'worried' about the practicality of it? Gee... I could only imagine the Church saying such a thing - "I am sorry, we are realists here, but because of practicality we cannot help you or minister to you." Oh wait... maybe that IS the problem with the church today - they have lost the cause and are too worried about the practicality of living out their faith!

Solo said:
How many forums would we have if we listed a single forum for every single sin that is a stronghold in the lives of individuals?

The strongholds that are in place within believers are defeated by transforming the mind via the word of God, prayer and fasting, and accountability support from other Christians within ones circle of relationship. A forum is not the place for such support.

Yes - let's look at how many forums we do have here:

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And yet nowhere in this long list of forums do we have a place for a believer who struggles. And seeks out help with his struggles. Perhaps for a time the anonymity that a forum provides would be the sort of thing he needs.

What exactly is the purpose of this forum if not to provide Christian support to believers via the internet?

Noone is asking for a single forum for everything jot ant tittle, yet it seems that we can have a forum for Business? Web Design? Tech Talk, Sports, Gaming?!? Heaven forbid a believer come to a "Christian" forum seeking Christian support.
 
1 It is reported commonly that there is fornication among you, and such fornication as is not so much as named among the Gentiles, that one should have his father's wife. 2 And ye are puffed up, and have not rather mourned, that he that hath done this deed might be taken away from among you. 3 For I verily, as absent in body, but present in spirit, have judged already, as though I were present, concerning him that hath so done this deed, 4 In the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, when ye are gathered together, and my spirit, with the power of our Lord Jesus Christ, 5 To deliver such an one unto Satan for the destruction of the flesh, that the spirit may be saved in the day of the Lord Jesus. 6 Your glorying is not good. Know ye not that a little leaven leaveneth the whole lump?

7 Purge out therefore the old leaven, that ye may be a new lump, as ye are unleavened. For even Christ our passover is sacrificed for us: 8 Therefore let us keep the feast, F16 not with old leaven, neither with the leaven of malice and wickedness; but with the unleavened bread of sincerity and truth.

9 I wrote unto you in an epistle not to company with fornicators: 10 Yet not altogether with the fornicators of this world, or with the covetous, or extortioners, or with idolaters; for then must ye needs go out of the world. 11 But now I have written unto you not to keep company, if any man that is called a brother be a fornicator, or covetous, or an idolater, or a railer, or a drunkard, or an extortioner; with such an one no not to eat. 12 For what have I to do to judge them also that are without? do not ye judge them that are within? 13 But them that are without God judgeth. Therefore put away from among yourselves that wicked person.
1 Corinthians 5:1-13
 
We have forums already in place to discuss areas of personal support/help/advice for anything that people find they may need. There are christian only forums available to discuss sensitive matters for and with other believers.
While some struggle with one thing others struggle with another. The fight against temptation is wide and varied. Addictions to pornography, alcohol, drugs or any one specific subject of conflict with one's walk with Christ are not broken down into individual forums to address each type of problem one is struggling with.

Prayer Requests & Praises
Christian Talk & Advice
Ministries/Outreach Discussion

Christian Talk & Advice is a great place to start. I just don't see the need for one specific forum centered on one specific problem when there are other forums already in place to handle these situations.
 
PotLuck said:
We have forums already in place to discuss areas of personal support/help/advice for anything that people find they may need. There are christian only forums available to discuss sensitive matters for and with other believers.
While some struggle with one thing others struggle with another. The fight against temptation is wide and varied. Addictions to pornography, alcohol, drugs or any one specific subject of conflict with one's walk with Christ are not broken down into individual forums to address each type of problem one is struggling with.

Prayer Requests & Praises
Christian Talk & Advice
Ministries/Outreach Discussion

Christian Talk & Advice
is a great place to start. I just don't see the need for one specific forum centered on one specific problem when there are other forums already in place to handle these situations.

This was my thought...There is no debating there just biblical sound advice by its members or the post will get deleted....
 
stranger said:
The gay and lesbian folk seem to think that the cause of Christ is worth fighting against.

That is true of some, sure - those that are not believers.

Is Ted Haggard fighting for Christ or against Christ? Cause it would seem that he is one of those "gay and lesbian folk".
 
PotLuck said:
We have forums already in place to discuss areas of personal support/help/advice for anything that people find they may need. There are christian only forums available to discuss sensitive matters for and with other believers.
While some struggle with one thing others struggle with another. The fight against temptation is wide and varied. Addictions to pornography, alcohol, drugs or any one specific subject of conflict with one's walk with Christ are not broken down into individual forums to address each type of problem one is struggling with.

Prayer Requests & Praises
Christian Talk & Advice
Ministries/Outreach Discussion

Christian Talk & Advice is a great place to start. I just don't see the need for one specific forum centered on one specific problem when there are other forums already in place to handle these situations.

That is great adivce, let's help this brother by directing him to the correct forum that already exists - and hopefully it will work and be a blessing in this brothers life.

or, perhaps just be a 'realist' and not help - because it just not worth fighting for! - maybe it's just 'not practical' to help.

Gee. I wonder which one a Christian should follow?
 
Solo said:
1 It is reported commonly that there is fornication among you, and such fornication as is not so much as named among the Gentiles, that one should have his father's wife. 2 And ye are puffed up, and have not rather mourned, that he that hath done this deed might be taken away from among you. 3 For I verily, as absent in body, but present in spirit, have judged already, as though I were present, concerning him that hath so done this deed, 4 In the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, when ye are gathered together, and my spirit, with the power of our Lord Jesus Christ, 5 To deliver such an one unto Satan for the destruction of the flesh, that the spirit may be saved in the day of the Lord Jesus. 6 Your glorying is not good. Know ye not that a little leaven leaveneth the whole lump?

7 Purge out therefore the old leaven, that ye may be a new lump, as ye are unleavened. For even Christ our passover is sacrificed for us: 8 Therefore let us keep the feast, F16 not with old leaven, neither with the leaven of malice and wickedness; but with the unleavened bread of sincerity and truth.

9 I wrote unto you in an epistle not to company with fornicators: 10 Yet not altogether with the fornicators of this world, or with the covetous, or extortioners, or with idolaters; for then must ye needs go out of the world. 11 But now I have written unto you not to keep company, if any man that is called a brother be a fornicator, or covetous, or an idolater, or a railer, or a drunkard, or an extortioner; with such an one no not to eat. 12 For what have I to do to judge them also that are without? do not ye judge them that are within? 13 But them that are without God judgeth. Therefore put away from among yourselves that wicked person.
1 Corinthians 5:1-13

When does the purge begin Solo? Hopefully you haven't had a lustful thought, or desired something a neighbor has....

Be careful when one misuses Scripture.
 
Do you not know that the wicked will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be decieved: Neither the sexually immoral ...nor homosexual offenders...will inherit the kingdom of God.
And that is what some of you were. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the spirit of our God.

I Corinthians 6:9-11 (NIV)



For those of you here who believe that homosexuals are beyond reach, can't be saved, or have no place in the church please read carefully verse 11. I love you all in Christ.
 
Do you not know that the wicked will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be decieved: Neither the sexually immoral ...nor homosexual offenders...will inherit the kingdom of God.

And that is what some of you were. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the spirit of our God.

1Corinthians 6:9-11 (NIV)

For those of you here who believe that homosexuals are beyond reach, can't be saved, or have no place in the church please read carefully verse 11. I love you all in Christ.


Of course all homosexuals are redeemable! But only the repentant are worthy of redemption from sin. Meaning that anyone that was found in sin, no matter what type of sin they are found in (convicted of) , must repent (turn away from) of their sin to go and sin that sin no more.

the key word in the above scripture you quoted is this: "were"


were wicked,

BUT .... now being that you

were washed
were sanctified
were justified

that means you are made a new creature in Christ Jesus. Doesn't mean you are to continue to walk into committing the act of your old sins over and over again. No, that is then indicative of an unrepentant person. A person who deliberately commits their old sin, one who walks in their old sin nature is not saved at all. So do not be deceived into thinking that your sins are forgiven if you are continually working iniquity! As Jesus says in Luke 13:23-27
23 Then said one unto him, Lord, are there few that be saved? And he said unto them, 24 Strive to enter in at the strait gate: for many, I say unto you, will seek to enter in, and shall not be able. 25 When once the master of the house is risen up, and hath shut to the door, and ye begin to stand without, and to knock at the door, saying, Lord, Lord, open unto us; and he shall answer and say unto you, I know you not whence ye are: 26 Then shall ye begin to say, We have eaten and drunk in thy presence, and thou hast taught in our streets. 27 But he shall say, I tell you, I know you not whence ye are; depart from me, all ye workers of iniquity.



Read the rest of the the chapter in 1 Corinthians 6 . It clearly states to NOT use your body for immoral purposes. And that includes to NOT commit to the act of physical immorality.


1 Corinthians 6:12-20
12 All things are lawful for me, but not all things are profitable. All things are lawful for me, but I will not be mastered by anything. 13 Food is for the stomach and the stomach is for food, but God will do away with both of them. Yet the body is not for immorality, but for the Lord, and the Lord is for the body. 14 Now God has not only raised the Lord, but will also raise us up through His power. 15 Do you not know that your bodies are members of Christ? Shall I then take away the members of Christ and make them members of a prostitute? May it never be! 16 Or do you not know that the one who joins himself to a prostitute is one body with her? For He says, "THE TWO SHALL BECOME ONE FLESH." 17 But the one who joins himself to the Lord is one spirit with Him. 18 Flee immorality. Every other sin that a man commits is outside the body, but the immoral man sins against his own body. 19 Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God, and that you are not your own? 20 For you have been bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body.




Clearly, anyone who is come to the Lord Jesus Christ for salvation from sin no longer commences to performing the sins they were found in. And so, Being IN the Holy Spirit of Christ Jesus, they no longer commit to sin, they don't commit to sin, they don't act on sin, they no longer fornicate, they no longer do immoral acts with their bodies.

They have the will of Christ to help them through when the temptation to sin comes to lure them. Therefore, they overcome it! Meaning they Do not do it anymore, they FLEE From Sin. Homosexuality is NOT acted upon any longer. And to call oneself a homosexual after they have taken claim to being saved by the Holy Spirit of Christ Jesus is telling a lie. Homosexuality is NO MORE in them because the HOLY Spirit of Christ Jesus has come to take over instead of the evil spirit of homosexuality. So the, they have no business calling themselves homosexuals any longer. They are EX-communicated from that life style. They are no longer homosexual, but are purified Holy. Sin is purged from out of them.

That's what being cleansed does, it wipes all that filth off of you and you no longer allow yourself to be ruled by it, mastered by sin. The Holy Spirit is there to give the grace to overcome. Grace does not mean you continue in your sins. NO, you flee from all sin! The grace is in the power the Holy Spirit gives to you to flee from immorality. IF you choose to ignore that God given authority, that God given grace to act upon NOT giving into the temptation then you are not living in the power of the Holy Spirit but are in fact grieving the holy spirit! We have choice to abide by the Holy Spirit. God is not going to force us, but is going to give us the choice to run TO HIM as the source for us to be able to flee. We need to LOOK TO HIM. If we take our eyes off of HIM and His Word, we are leaving an open door for the lure of the devil.

LOOK TO CHRIST JESUS for our salvation from sin. He helps us through the temptation to sin. He gives us a way to overcome sin. Not to fall into it! or continue in it. Grace of God does not mean we are to continue on in that old sin behavior. So don't think you can still be homosexual and be IN Christ Jesus. Jesus says to GO and sin no more. That means to stop the sin and BE Holy in Spirit. To Sanctify means to be set aside as holy.

We are to strive towards the Holy Spirit.... not the wicked ways of the immoral.






Ex-Homosexual


Resources for Families Struggling with Homosexuality

Exodus International

Stephen Bennett Ministries

International Healing Foundation (Richard Cohen)

Mission: America (Linda Harvey)

Parents and Friends of Ex-Gays


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Peacesearch wrote:
I renounced the gay lifestyle long ago to follow Christ and reach out to others lost to this sinful way of living. Gay/lesbian peoples need to know that they are deeply loved by God, that salvation is available to them, and that the Church cares for them. I would love to see such a forum started, although I can understand the controversy it would generate from both sides.

It's wonderful to hear you've found a relationship with God. If your idea is not well recieved here I think you should think about starting a ministry/forum yourself. It sounds like you could offer alot of help to people struggling with homosexuality. Are you good with computers?

Also, homosexuality is not a choice. It can't be willed away or altered with positive thinking. It is SIN, therefore it can only be purged by God's miraculous healing power.

I can understand what you say about homosexuality not being a choice. We are all inherently sinful. I have lustful temptations (although towards the opposite sex) that are innate to my being as well, and sometimes I fall. And when I do, I feel bad, repent, and recieve the wonderful gift of forgiveness from God. I believe this assurance of forgiveness can be true for any kind of sinner. I think temptations will always be there, but I believe with the power of God, we can overcome any temptation!

That said, I have a friend right now who is struggling with homsexuality. He is angry because he doesn't believe he has a choice in it. So, in a way he blaims God. He also is an agnostic of sorts but I know that God is working heavily on him.

I don't know much about homosexuality because I don't struggle with it. I wish I could help him, but I don't know how other than praying for him. When he first "came out" to me I just said "Oh" and "Whatever". I was struggling with my own faith at the time so I didn't really think it was wrong either.

Now that I've given up my battle with God, and accepted Jesus as my Lord and Savior, I wish I knew what I could do to be of good outreach for my friend. A forum or ministry like you have in mind could be of great help for people like him. I can't fully relate with his temptation so I think he'd be much less accepting of any advice I could offer.
 
Relic said:
Of course all homosexuals are redeemable! But only the repentant are worthy of redemption from sin. Meaning that anyone that was found in sin, no matter what type of sin they are found in (convicted of) , must repent (turn away from) of their sin to go and sin that sin no more.

the key word in the above scripture you quoted is this: "were"


were wicked,

BUT .... now being that you

were washed
were sanctified
were justified

that means you are made a new creature in Christ Jesus. Doesn't mean you are to continue to walk into committing the act of your old sins over and over again. No, that is then indicative of an unrepentant person. A person who deliberately commits their old sin, one who walks in their old sin nature is not saved at all. So do not be deceived into thinking that your sins are forgiven if you are continually working iniquity! As Jesus says in Luke 13:23-27
23 Then said one unto him, Lord, are there few that be saved? And he said unto them, 24 Strive to enter in at the strait gate: for many, I say unto you, will seek to enter in, and shall not be able. 25 When once the master of the house is risen up, and hath shut to the door, and ye begin to stand without, and to knock at the door, saying, Lord, Lord, open unto us; and he shall answer and say unto you, I know you not whence ye are: 26 Then shall ye begin to say, We have eaten and drunk in thy presence, and thou hast taught in our streets. 27 But he shall say, I tell you, I know you not whence ye are; depart from me, all ye workers of iniquity.



Read the rest of the the chapter in 1 Corinthians 6 . It clearly states to NOT use your body for immoral purposes. And that includes to NOT commit to the act of physical immorality.


1 Corinthians 6:12-20
12 All things are lawful for me, but not all things are profitable. All things are lawful for me, but I will not be mastered by anything. 13 Food is for the stomach and the stomach is for food, but God will do away with both of them. Yet the body is not for immorality, but for the Lord, and the Lord is for the body. 14 Now God has not only raised the Lord, but will also raise us up through His power. 15 Do you not know that your bodies are members of Christ? Shall I then take away the members of Christ and make them members of a prostitute? May it never be! 16 Or do you not know that the one who joins himself to a prostitute is one body with her? For He says, "THE TWO SHALL BECOME ONE FLESH." 17 But the one who joins himself to the Lord is one spirit with Him. 18 Flee immorality. Every other sin that a man commits is outside the body, but the immoral man sins against his own body. 19 Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God, and that you are not your own? 20 For you have been bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body.




Clearly, anyone who is come to the Lord Jesus Christ for salvation from sin no longer commences to performing the sins they were found in. And so, Being IN the Holy Spirit of Christ Jesus, they no longer commit to sin, they don't commit to sin, they don't act on sin, they no longer fornicate, they no longer do immoral acts with their bodies.

They have the will of Christ to help them through when the temptation to sin comes to lure them. Therefore, they overcome it! Meaning they Do not do it anymore, they FLEE From Sin. Homosexuality is NOT acted upon any longer. And to call oneself a homosexual after they have taken claim to being saved by the Holy Spirit of Christ Jesus is telling a lie. Homosexuality is NO MORE in them because the HOLY Spirit of Christ Jesus has come to take over instead of the evil spirit of homosexuality. So the, they have no business calling themselves homosexuals any longer. They are EX-communicated from that life style. They are no longer homosexual, but are purified Holy. Sin is purged from out of them.

That's what being cleansed does, it wipes all that filth off of you and you no longer allow yourself to be ruled by it, mastered by sin. The Holy Spirit is there to give the grace to overcome. Grace does not mean you continue in your sins. NO, you flee from all sin! The grace is in the power the Holy Spirit gives to you to flee from immorality. IF you choose to ignore that God given authority, that God given grace to act upon NOT giving into the temptation then you are not living in the power of the Holy Spirit but are in fact grieving the holy spirit! We have choice to abide by the Holy Spirit. God is not going to force us, but is going to give us the choice to run TO HIM as the source for us to be able to flee. We need to LOOK TO HIM. If we take our eyes off of HIM and His Word, we are leaving an open door for the lure of the devil.

LOOK TO CHRIST JESUS for our salvation from sin. He helps us through the temptation to sin. He gives us a way to overcome sin. Not to fall into it! or continue in it. Grace of God does not mean we are to continue on in that old sin behavior. So don't think you can still be homosexual and be IN Christ Jesus. Jesus says to GO and sin no more. That means to stop the sin and BE Holy in Spirit. To Sanctify means to be set aside as holy.

We are to strive towards the Holy Spirit.... not the wicked ways of the immoral.






Ex-Homosexual


Resources for Families Struggling with Homosexuality

Exodus International

Stephen Bennett Ministries

International Healing Foundation (Richard Cohen)

Mission: America (Linda Harvey)

Parents and Friends of Ex-Gays


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Relic, where does Peace say that he wants to continue in his sin? Perhaps you missed his OP, allow me to repeat it here:

Peacesearch said:
guess this question is going out to the moderators more than to anyone. I was wondering about the possibility of forum being started that deals specifically with Christians that struggle with same sex attraction. Contrary to popular belief, there are many such people siting in America's churches suffering in silence.
As a bi-sexual male who has struggled with such temptations all my life, I know the stigma attached to Christians with gay feelings. I believe part of the reason why the gay movement is thriving today is partly because of our unwillingness to lovingly address the issues with those suffering. Many well-meaning Christians believe that the thing to do is push gay/lesbian peoples out of the church and into the social periphery. In fact, I can imagine many Christians reading this now and thinking, "Eek! Theres a homo in our mists!"
I renounced the gay lifestyle long ago to follow Christ and reach out to others lost to this sinful way of living. Gay/lesbian peoples need to know that they are deeply loved by God, that salvation is available to them, and that the Church cares for them. I would love to see such a forum started, although I can understand the controversy it would generate from both sides. The subject of same-sex relationships is still hot button issue in both the Christian and secular world.
Just a thought, though.

I bolded the important parts.

I would suggest Relic, that you are so focused on fighting the 'gay agenda' that you are causing 'friendly fire' and hurting those that need our support, strength, and encouragement. Like Peacesearch - a believer that struggles with the temptations of sin - Gee... what believer doesn't? Or perhaps, you do not sin anymore Relic?
 
aLoneVoice said:
Relic, where does Peace say that he wants to continue in his sin? Perhaps you missed his OP, allow me to repeat it here:
No, I did not miss the OP.

aLoneVoice said:
I bolded the important parts.

I would suggest Relic, that you are so focused on fighting the 'gay agenda' that you are causing 'friendly fire' and hurting those that need our support, strength, and encouragement. Like Peacesearch - a believer that struggles with the temptations of sin - Gee... what believer doesn't? Or perhaps, you do not sin anymore Relic?

I am not hurting anyone who is truly looking for support. To give someone support does not mean to ignore scripture that is useful for overcoming sin. Giving support to someone who needs help with a struggle also means to help them find ways of overcoming through relying on the Holy Word of God. And yes, the word of God is a sharp double edged sword that cuts through sin. Cutting through sin is not without pain to the one who wants to hold onto the sin. The one who refuses to give up the sin is offended by the very suggestion to give it up. We are called to repentance, Alonevoice, Not to unrepentance. Who said giving up sin is easy? No one! I know all too well what a struggle it is to hold onto a sin one is in love with because of deceptive spirits telling you to not give it up because of the "pleasure" you see in it! All sin is attractive until you are caught in the clutches of it.

Perhaps you are looking at my posts from the wrong perspective. And perhaps you are drawing at straws that do not exist, Mr. Alonevoice. :-?

Again, it appears you are having a very difficult time with my postings. If you don't like the fact that I am using the truth of scripture in relaying the message then I'm sorry.

Alonevoice, If you are not struggling with homosexual thoughts then the messages are not for you. Also, they are not intended for a person who has already overcome homosex-uality or has no problem with the struggles they have. So what is your problem? You want me to sugar coat everything I present. I am sorry you think I am not gentle enough. Some people don't want prissy fixes for serious problems. Go be gentle in your own way and leave the scripture speak for itself without you coming on board giving the impressison that sinners are okay staying in sin because they have a stuggle with it. :-? Anyone knows the stuggle is refusal to give it up. and the struggle is because of refusal to submit to obedience to God. If you think that is too not gentle enough, then you have a problem with the truth in scripture, not me.

Scriptures that show that the body must not be used for immorality are useful in bringing the truth to the front. There is nothing wrong with showing scripture to that effect. And indeed, they are not offensive to anyone who is seeking the truth that is more than enough to free from sin. Of course the struggle comes from resistance to the truth. There is nothing gentle about fighting an addiction to any particular sin, be it the sin of homosexuality or any other type of sin. So your idea of what is gentle can also be ineffective for some who need more meat rather than milk. You obviously don't know the many ways in which the Holy Spirit works through people. For some the way in which my postings are epresented my just be what they were looking for.

To me, you sound like Goldy locks in search of that porage that is just right, and that bed that is just right, and that chair that is just right. Well, what's right for one person isn't always right for all, Mr. Alone voice. Especially if the truth is in it. So you just hand out your ministering and leave me do mine. If you think you have good minitry to homosexuals then post it. instead of complaining how you think I'm too harsh on others.

Where are your words of encouragement to anyone who is looking to overcome a struggle? I see nothing, from you but nit picking on me about how I present the truth in scriptures, you saying it's not gentle enough and I'm missing out on ministering. Well, that again is your opinion. And that's all it is Mr. Alonevoice! Go preach in your own way and give your own example in this thread rather than complaining to me about how I am not gentle enough. :-?

My Lord and Savior has helped me overcome many of my sins by way of conviction of particular sins. I do not return those sins in which the Holy Spirit has already dealt with In me. I do not return to them because the power of the Holy Spirit is at work keeping them out of my life. The power of the Holy Spirit is the only thing that gives me the grace to overcome the temptations that are thrown at me by the devil, the wicked, the evil, the unclean spirits that roam this earth to devour whomever they find without the Holy Spirit living in them.

Alonevoice, Why do you come to pick on me as if I don't know that all those who LOOK to the Lord God for Salvation from sin are a work in progress?
My messages do not fall short of the truth in how the Holy Spirit manifests in the faith of a person by way of giving us the grace to overcome sin. The repentant heart is crucial.

I never said anything to the effect that Peacesource was not recovered from homosexuality. I know exactly what he is getting at. I've even provided links of useful resources for anyone who is concerned with homosexual tendencies and/or has overcome. and I am not condemning anyone nor am addressing this in an unloving manner. What do you want.... sugar coated lies that tell them they are okay staying in that sin? :o NO, it is not okay to Stay in a sin, when the Holy Spirit has already revealed a sin to you. That would not be serving anyone justice if I told them it was okay to stay in the sin of homosexuality or any other sin for that matter. A person turns to Christ for a means to OVERCOME any sin that they are finding themselves in. Some scriptures are not always easy to accept when one insists on staying in their sin refusing to give it up to the working power of the Holy Sprit.

Alonevoice, Don't misunderstand. Professing to candy coating the truth is NOT the way to show someone how to OVERCOME Sin. Even Peacesource knows that! Because anyone who has overcome temptation knows it is a very difficult path. No one ever said being a Christian is easy and that we are to continue in a sin. That's not what Christianity is about, Alonevoice!


It is evident you are NOT reading my postings thoroughly enough. :-?

Scripture is clear about once we overcome a sin that we are not to return to that particular sin. Mature Christians are NOT like dogs who return to their vomit! Once you have matured from out of a particular sin, you do not return to it. The Holy Spirit is NOT a Wimp! and once you learn the power of submitting to the Holy Spirit you won't return to that particular sin which you have been convicted of by the Holy Spirit.

We are to NOT grieve the Holy Spirit. If you are continually struggling with the same sin then you need to learn submission to the Holy Spirit. If you refuse to submit the the Holiness of God, you are in essence not of God. Self discipline is not easy. The bible "TEACHES" us HOW TO OVERCOME. If you are not willing to be taught, you will remain the same. IN order to overcome sin, you must be willing to work. Faith without works is dead. You must allow your "self" to be replaced with the "holy". Fair enough trade for me. I never said I don't sin anymore. I do however look to the Holy Spirit of Christ to convict me of whatever sin is found in me and to show me where I must submit to His Spirit in order to overcome that particular sin that has been revealed to me. Christians, as long as we are in this earth, we will be a work in progress. Whatever sins are revealed we all must be willing to give it up and not return to it. Total Submission to the HOLY SPIRIT is how we mature from babes to adults. No man can grow IN Christ Jesus if they are constantly returning to the sin that was already revealed by the Holy Spirit. It is by the power of the Holy Spirit that we are given the authority to overcome that sin. And if you refuse to give the Holy Spirit a place in your life then you are missing the calling. Not me, because I know what bondages to sins I had in my life that I have already been freed from, and I know which sins are in my life at present that I am being freed from. NOT DOUBT, that once I finally set them free to not be master over me, I will NOT return to them. My prayers are answered. I have to receive the exorcising of that sin from out of my life! And the more I mature in the Holy Spirit of Christ Jesus, the easier it is to give up a sin that is revealed to me, immediately! The only reason many people don't overcome sins immediately is because of their unwillingness to give it to Christ Jesus to be nailed on that cross. We are called to give up our sins, not to hold onto them once they have been revealed. The Holy Spirit is a spirit of conviction. If we don't listen to the conviction, then we are working in iniquity instead of striving for the freedom from that sin.

It's all a matter between the repentant and the unrepentant heart. A heart that strives towards God... that is the difference between an unrepentant sinner and one who seeks to overcome sin. Christians are a work in progress , Alonevoice. If you are not striving to overcome, but are constantly giving into a sin, repeating the offense over and over again, what are you doing? Surely you are NOT living by Grace! you are in fact refusing the grace of God to receive His power to overcome sin.


I am not out to condemn anyone. If the truth in scripture I have presented in that previous post is too hard for you to accept as example then that's your problem. And if you think it is a hurtful way of ministering, then I suggest you listen to the truth and not be fooled by the lies of the devil who says you can go on living IN your sins without cause for repentance of them. :-? That is NOT grace of God at work in you if you think you can continually be a repeat offender of that very same sin over and over and over again without allowing the Holy Spirit to come into your life so you have a means to overcome it, once and for all! The Holy Spirit is not an enabler of sin! It is a means to an end! It shows you how to overcome sin.

2 Timothy 3:16-17
16 All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness: 17 That the man of God may be perfect, throughly furnished unto all good works.


Christians are to be repentant once a sin is revealed by the conviction of the Holy Spirit to them. they are not to remain in an unrepentant stance! We have victory in His Word, not failure in His word. USE HIS WORD and you too will find sin is no longer master over you.
Don't get me wrong , Alonevoice! We all have the authority to use the power of His Word to overcome sin. We are freed FROM sins by the Word. We are not held in bondage to be repeat offenders IF we give the Holy Spirit a way into our heart to do His Holy work in us.

If you are a repeat offender, you need to look at why you are not giving your sin over to the cross to be nailed to it so as to not go back to it! You are not a dog that returns to it's vomit! are you? :o Then don't return to that sin! Anyone who has the glory of God to overcome those sins that vexed them knows that much. Are you so addicted to your sin that you think there is not way out of any particular one? :o Then you do not know the power of the Holy Spirit to do a good work in you!

This posting is not meant to condemn anyone! It is meant as assistance in understanding the power of the Word of God that is there for us to utilize in our lives. IF only they are willing to receive, instead of resist and remain a repeat offender of the Holy Spirit. Do not grieve the Holy Spirit, is up to us by our own free will. I choose to grow in the Holy Spirit, not to resist the authority that has been given to me by Him, Christ Jesus living in me. Walk away from Jesus, and what have you left? A sinner who is hardhearted. Insensitive to the calling of redemption through our Savior. He comes to save us FROM sin, not to enable us to live in sin. Get it right alone voice! We have the power through the Holy Spirit who comes to live IN us, to overcome, to not be repeat offenders! If the Holy Spirit lives in you then that sin that has been revealed is no longer possible! The Holy Spirit is continually working in you to reveal those sins you knew not you had to you. IT is up to you to obey and receive that power to overcome that sin which has now been revealed. It doesn't take rocket science to know that you are to not continue in a sin once it has been revealed to you. If you do, then you have not given it to the Holy Spirit of Christ Jesus to cleanse it from OUT OF your life. You have not allowed the Holy Spirit of Christ Jesus to wash your sin away. Stop holding onto it. Give it up. Obey.

Alonevoice, Where in the bible does it say to disobey or to not stop living in a sin? :o I never said that Peacesearch was looking to continue in sin. however, I did give provide scriptures that reinforce the fact that our bodies are to not be used immorally. And THAT reinforcement IS something to hold onto to help one overcome the temptations that come.

When attacked by the firey darts of the devil we are to re-iterate scripture to sheild us from them. To resist the devil. To overcome. To go and sin no more.



Peacesearch, God Bless you in your endeavors. I hope the links I provided in my previous post are of use to you and others who have concern over homosex-uality.

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Relic - where have I said that sin should be sugar-coated?

Or where have I suggested that:
Sinners are okay staying in sin because they have a struggle with it

Perhaps it comes from the Anabaptist practice and the history of being perscuted by the "church" for our practice. Anabaptists were persecuted by both the Catholic church and the Protestant church for teaching 're-baptism'.

As I look across the evangelical community I hear more condemnation that ministering to homosexuals.

The role of the Holy Spirit is to convict us our sins. I agree that this comes from the reading of the Scriptures and through the use of others. However, I believe that we have at times taken over the role of conviction and attempt to justify our actions by saying "It is the Holy Spirit using me".

As a sinner, saved by the grace of God, I have been transformed, and continue each day - and yet, I am still in this human flesh that struggles daily with temptation. It is only on the realiance of the Holy Spirit, prayer, daily devotion that we are able to overcome those struggles.

I would suggest that one of the main things a homosexual deals with - in fact anyone with sexual tempations be them homo or hetro - is acceptance. Please understand, I am not suggesting acceptance on the sin, but acceptance of who they are as a person. By accepting them, for who they are, someone who was fearfully and wonderfully made by our Creator, someone who those an enemy of God, was loved by God so much that God sent his Son Jesus Christ to pay the price for his sin - all of his sins. However, until the Holy Spirit convicts, our words are seen as condemnation and judgement - roles that are left to God.

They, we, need to hear that we have worth in the eyes of God. And that we can be made righteous through faith in Jesus Christ by confessing Him as Lord in our lives.

I have not attacked you personally, if my words have offended you - then I apologize. But keep in mind that your words are not the only ones that can bring conviction. And even when we feel that we are doing the Lord's work - it is possible that we focus on the self, and less on God - then we are no longer effective or ministering through the Holy Spirit - but rather we operating out of our sinful nature.
 
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