My son in law is a principle/teacher at a church school. The other day he was needing something that brought together the message of the cross with the children's weekly virtue and Bible study topic, which that week happened to be patience. He was sharing this with me just today, and the following is what God showed him.
He asked the children what would they do if they witnessed bullying at school. Well the boys of course got all tough and promised to intervene, while the girls would do likewise.
When asked what they would do if there was an actual fight, the boys got tougher and promised to get involved and give the offender a hiding, The girls weren't quite so forward, but would certainly inform the teacher.
What would they do if there was a possibility of someone getting hurt, or maybe even killed? Well, of course, everyone would absolutely get involved, would intervene physically, both boys and girls, and do whatever they could to stop it.
My SIL then asked, "then why did God not intervene when Jesus was crying and struggling in Gethsemane? Why did He not intervene when His only Son was being beaten, abused, whipped, insulted, and murdered? "
There was deathly silence for a long time as the children pondered this question. What was the Father doing when His Son was being so shamelessly treated? Weeping Himself? Probably. Head in His hands and grief-stricken and sorrowing over what He was witnessing? Very likely. I can also imagine Gabriel pacing backwards and forwards up and down the streets of New Jerusalem just itching to fly and deal to whoever was daring to touch his beloved Master. And the rest of the angels no doubt would have been but a split second behind. Just waiting for a word from the Boss. Just a nod would have sent them all to the earth and history would have been rewritten in an instant. But no. No word or command from the Father, or even the Son......
..... Now that is patience.
Patience born of love.
Job 7:17 What is man, that thou shouldest magnify him? and that thou shouldest set thine heart upon him?
Job 15:14 What is man, that he should be clean? and he which is born of a woman, that he should be righteous?
Ps 8:4 What is man, that thou art mindful of him? and the son of man, that thou visitest him?
1Jo 3:1 Behold, what manner of love the Father hath bestowed upon us, that we should be called the sons of God: