me (again). Personally, I've found that I remind myself that I am a creature, much loved by The Creator. Our relationship with God is anything but equal. He loves us, and He (agape) loves us in a way that makes allowances for our sins, flaws, imperfections, etc. Following along that line of thought...He loves me (and you, too, just as much....) --despise-- the same-sex lusts, the inclinations towards sodomy, and all the other flaws, imperfections, sins+sin patterns we bring to The Cross.
Which isn't to say that we remain the same during our Walk with The Lord. Far from it; "Know Jesus, Know Change." Still, no one--not even the most pious, devoted, season Christian--is 100% perfect this side of Heaven. We're sinful creatures, born into a Fallen World. The way I see it, I'm going to commit sins, struggle with sin-patterns, and, in general...deal with the grit and grime of the world until The Lord calls me home. Once we get to Heaven, we'll be made into perfect creatures. Still creatures, of course; we'll be in Heaven to adore and cherish The Lord, for all of eternity, our Savior, Redeemer, etc.
Point is...personally, I may deal with same-sex lusts+an incllincation towards sodomy for years to come. I find that The Lord has already changed my heart of hearts so that I deal with same-sex lusts, but I'm not in the world+of the world, living as an unrepentant sodomite and dealing with the fall out from all that, as I did in years past. Jesus saw fit to save me when I was who and what I was. He forgave me then, He's forgiving me now, living in my heart now, changing me now...despite who I was, what I did, all my problems, etc.
The same is true of you and any other Christian. He loves us even though we're scarred and marred by sin, satan, self, death, and the world.