Care to share your specific story?
(PK) I could not select any of you options on the poll because they don't fit. I'm willing to bet many will have a hard time narrowing their Christian faith or understandings to any of those options when it comes to answering the question of "How did you reach your standpoint?" Which I take to mean, how did you reach your philosophical, or theological position.
I think there are basically three types of people when it comes to Christianity. Those who reject Christ, those who want to accept Christ, and those who have accepted Christ.
I can say that I was raised in a christian home, although I tend to say I was raised in a religious home. My upbringing had nothing to do with my relationship with Christianity. In fact it probably had more to do with my rejection of it.
I spent the first half of my life as an agnostic and part-time atheist.
Those who reject Christ are pretty easy to spot, in fact they are quite honest about it. I don't have to explain that, but let me dive into the other two types.
The church is full of people who are seeking God, want to know God, and profess a faith for God, but are not really Christians at all. (
When I say Church I mean that in the broadest sense, all proclaiming Christ following, Christian God worshiping churches) I don't have to explain these types either because these are the types that those who reject Christ can't stand. We see them all over the place. They are in the news, they tell us to eat our veges and be good like them ect, ect, ect....(I'm being a little facetious for your benefit. can describe these people in many ways, but let's just call them "Said Christians". I'll get back to them in a bit, but let's look at the third type.
The third type are those who have accepted Christ. This is where it get's very sticky because the said Christians will say they have accepted Christ and those who reject Christ can't tell them apart. But, here is the difference from a practical "Standpoint"
1. Those who reject Christ do not trust God.
2. Those who say they accept Christ may or may not trust God. Many are still seeking asking the question, "What can God do for me?" Some are saved and some are not. This is a said faith, a desire to have faith.
3. Those who have accepted Christ trust God. They ask the question, "What can I do for God". This is what true faith is.
The first two types have a lot to do with how someone was raised. The last type has little to do with how someone was raised. It might be a part of it, but it's not the glue of it.
I came to Christ at age 25 when I finally realized I am not in control of my life. This is not to say I was "out of control", by all appearances I had it made, but what others could not see is that I had a void in my life that caused me to try and fulfill that void with things I thought would comfort, save and protect me from the world.
Everyone has this. their is not a man alive who does not, and we all try to fill our lives with things other than God to comfort, save and protect us from the world. Sex, Money, drugs, are some of the more common. Other people lash out at the world in violent ways. Some people seek direct power and control, but everyone does this to an extent.
Once I realized I had no power or control and that life was going to happen no matter what, I decided to turn my trust in myself over to God. There are a couple of philosophies in the Christian faith regarding this process. Some say we choose it, some say God just does it to some. Both are acceptable although some will say not, but it does not matter. He gave me a measure of faith in this, and that has been building ever since as that faith gets exercised in me by God. This is nothing I do, but something he does.