Hebrews 6:4 For it is impossible for those who were once enlightened, and have tasted of the heavenly gift, and were made partakers of the Ho'ly Ghost,
5 And have tasted the good word of God, and the powers of the world to come,
6 If they shall fall away, to renew them again unto repentance; seeing they crucify to themselves the Son of God afresh, and put him to an open shame.
Since there is 1.repentance, 2.accepting Jesus's work, 3.receiving the Holy Spirit; let us not think that we should be too free in thinking that we can run back to step 1 at all times. I do not totally understand all the aspects of this, but there are times that tough love may be needed to bring about restoration. It is sometimes poplular to easily use the presentation of repentance in all situations.
Jude 22,23 And some have compassion, making a difference:
23 And others save with fear, pulling them out of the fire; hating even the garment spotted by the flesh.
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