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I don't feel loved and I'm just a burden

DoaWK1992

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I feel like no one cares about me and the world would be better off without me everyday people tell me how I'm a loser and my parents hate me and I'm just a waste of air
 
God loves you. The Bottom line is we All are losers because we are sinful. Personally I find it better being a loser than trying to be superior and trying to be a god. But you are NOT A loser. We are failures because of going too far and falling too short. This is because of sin. Because of Christ our sins are covered and we are acceptable and a victory.

To Accept Christ:
(Say it and mean it genuinely)
Lord Jesus
I repent of my sins
Come in my heart
Be my Lord and Savior

Do your best to be faithful, obedient, and avoid sin and I believe you will be alright.

Have a blessed day (-: <3
 
Hey All,
Please read this and I will comment on it afterwards:

John 3:16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.

Mark 12:28-31 And one of the scribes came, and having heard them reasoning together, and perceiving that he had answered them well, asked him, Which is the first commandment of all?
And Jesus answered him, The first of all the commandments is, Hear, O Israel; The Lord our God is one Lord:
And thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind, and with all thy strength: this is the first commandment.
And the second is like, namely this, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself. There is none other commandment greater than these.

Four main points:
1. God loves you.
2. Love God back completely.
3. Love your neighbor.
4. Love yourself.
(That last one gets overlooked sometimes.) Because God loves us, we can love ourselves. And I don't mean in some vane way. Self love without God is worthless. But the love of God, through Christ's sacrifice on the cross, makes us worthy. God loves you. So love yourself.

Bring a believer is not for the weak of heart.

Matthew 5:11-12 Blessed are ye, when men shall revile you, and persecute you, and shall say all manner of evil against you falsely, for my sake.
Rejoice, and be exceeding glad: for great is your reward in heaven: for so persecuted they the prophets which were before you.

It is hard to imagine parents treating their child this way. And truthfully we are only getting your perspective. Do you still live with them? Do they still provide for you? If so , they must care for you on some level. If so, I have to question if you are exaggerating your side DoaWK1992? What would be their justification? Why would a parent "hate" their child?
However, let's say, for whatever reason, they do. Try doing the opposite of their actions.
If they hate you, tell them you love them.
If they persecute you because you are a believer, rejoice and thank them for their guidance in your life. (Just to be clear, I mean verbal abuse. We are not talking about physical child abuse here, correct? If you are a child being abused physically, call the police. You can be protected against that. No child deserves that.) Show them that they are not just hating you but the Holy Spirit who is within you.
Lastly, sometimes life is tough. Sometimes, as believers, we just have to suck it up, take the abuse, and walk through the valley. If we are wearing the full armor of God, we'll make it through. It may not be fun, but we will make it. Plus, we show the love of God through it. Our hardship, and how we handle it, becomes our witness. I hope this helps. Keep walking everybody. May God bless,
Taz
 
Hey All,
Please read this and I will comment on it afterwards:

John 3:16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.

Mark 12:28-31 And one of the scribes came, and having heard them reasoning together, and perceiving that he had answered them well, asked him, Which is the first commandment of all?
And Jesus answered him, The first of all the commandments is, Hear, O Israel; The Lord our God is one Lord:
And thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind, and with all thy strength: this is the first commandment.
And the second is like, namely this, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself. There is none other commandment greater than these.

Four main points:
1. God loves you.
2. Love God back completely.
3. Love your neighbor.
4. Love yourself.
(That last one gets overlooked sometimes.) Because God loves us, we can love ourselves. And I don't mean in some vane way. Self love without God is worthless. But the love of God, through Christ's sacrifice on the cross, makes us worthy. God loves you. So love yourself.

Bring a believer is not for the weak of heart.

Matthew 5:11-12 Blessed are ye, when men shall revile you, and persecute you, and shall say all manner of evil against you falsely, for my sake.
Rejoice, and be exceeding glad: for great is your reward in heaven: for so persecuted they the prophets which were before you.

It is hard to imagine parents treating their child this way. And truthfully we are only getting your perspective. Do you still live with them? Do they still provide for you? If so , they must care for you on some level. If so, I have to question if you are exaggerating your side DoaWK1992? What would be their justification? Why would a parent "hate" their child?
However, let's say, for whatever reason, they do. Try doing the opposite of their actions.
If they hate you, tell them you love them.
If they persecute you because you are a believer, rejoice and thank them for their guidance in your life. (Just to be clear, I mean verbal abuse. We are not talking about physical child abuse here, correct? If you are a child being abused physically, call the police. You can be protected against that. No child deserves that.) Show them that they are not just hating you but the Holy Spirit who is within you.
Lastly, sometimes life is tough. Sometimes, as believers, we just have to suck it up, take the abuse, and walk through the valley. If we are wearing the full armor of God, we'll make it through. It may not be fun, but we will make it. Plus, we show the love of God through it. Our hardship, and how we handle it, becomes our witness. I hope this helps. Keep walking everybody. May God bless,
Taz
My parents don't hate me they love me its just people keep telling me that they hate me also my parents are believers also but I just feel down being told I'm not loved even tho I am
 
DoaWK1992 My Advice would be to stay close to those people that truly love you. Stay away from people that are against you. You deserve to be around people that are on your team. Pray to God that those that are so negative to you are out of your life and no longer influence you at all whatsoever. Pray to God to take away the hurtful comments others have said to you and realize that you have: God, your loved ones, your friends, and yourself. You are not alone buddy. Keep trying. Peace - Ignacio
 
My parents don't hate me they love me its just people keep telling me that they hate me also my parents are believers also but I just feel down being told I'm not loved even tho I am
Please talk to your parents about how you feel.
What you describe sounds to me like a form of depression, and this needs to be properly diagnosed and treated.
 
Satan is the loser, and the wicked.
Psalm chapter 109:6. Set thou a wicked man over him: and let satan stand at his right hand.
109:7. When he shall be judged, let him be condemned: and let his prayer become sin.
The wicked have no future. They follow satan.

The children of darkness hate the children of light. Unless the wicked repent and conform to God's standard. Thier going to hell.
The world will hate you. It hates Christian people.
You have brethren like me that care. I'm rooting for you to run the race and receive crown of eternal life.
Most important my friend. Jesus loves you. Don't forget to repent and love the body of christ. God created you for His pleasure. He wants you in His kingdom.
Theirs some ignorant people who lack faith. Ignore them and focus on Jesus.
John chapter 15:18. IF THE WORLD HATE YOU, YE KNOW THAT IT HATED ME BEFORE IT HATED YOU.

Focus on Jesus and strive to win your crown. Forget about neighbor who is going to hell. Peace.
 
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