We use the masculine gender when referring to God because of the rules of Grammar.
But God is not male or female.
Father in heaven is also used because of the ways God watches over us....it's not as in direct contact as a mother has of Children.
The female gender is used with a variety of pagan gods.
Grouping God inadvertently with the pagan gods as if God is just another religion... well it's a bit insulting for something that we hold most dear.
That being said.
God is a person. God relates to us each on a personal level.
This is a subject that can bring about a passionate response from some, because it’s something that we hold most dear.
I hope we can discuss this in a way that is fruitful.
God may or may not be male or female.
I see that the scriptures indicate to us that God is male as well as female.
When you say, “it’s a bit insulting for something that we hold most dear”, that statement works both ways, because I for one hold family most dear, and God is presented in scripture as family.
Father and Son is an indication of family.
Family includes male and female.
So God created man in His own image; in the image of God He created him; male and female He created them. Genesis 1:27
What other religions have or do not have has no bearing on the truth.
Many strange things are being promoted these days about the Holy Spirit, on this we probably agree.
When a subject is as controversial as this one, it’s good to stay close to what the scriptures say.
This would probably make for an interesting thread, as you indicated to jasonc.
I don’t know how fruitful it would be, but it would be interesting.
JLB