Hum.......
Been a wile since I've had to think along these things, but when I met my wife I knew I'd met her.
Not sure if I had a list, but aside from non-smoker, Christian I wanted someone I could love by way of respect. Some times we don't always know with just the comparisons.
My wife is a good conversationalist. She's funny, adventurous and cute, but as we where dating I would see things about her that impressed me. One of things that I love about her is her compassion and generosity for others, and her heart for mission.
My wife will go out of her way to help someone. She will make a meal and deliver it to people who have a loved one in the hospital, or just had a baby. She will send someone a card or note just because she thinks they need it and they usually do. She is a hands on care giver and a fantastic mother. I am in awe of her. She has taught me, and given me many great reasons to be the best man I can be, to be worthy of her life long companionship.