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Christ_empowered

Christ_empowered

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So, I had a pleasant conversation with a friend. Then, I stepped out on the front porch to have a cigarette. Some dude pulled up to the neighbor's place, and he and some neighbor dude started yelling real loud about how I'm going to prison soon.

I have an attorney already. This has been going on for a while. People keep talking about warrants, jail, and prison. I'm already on misdemeanor probation, at least for a little while longer. I don't know what's going on. I told my dad, and he said "It doesn't really matter what they say."

Ugh.
 
Are they still riding that horse?! If the police wanted you, they'd have picked you up a long time ago. They obviously do not so have some fun with it. When they say it, tell them the pressure is too much when hiding from the law so you want to turn yourself in and go quietly if they call them. I'll just wait here for them...:lol

Then everytime you see them ask them, so where are they? I'm ready to go, and smile real big at them.
They'll look mighty stupid continuing to repeat that crap when they never come, lol.

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I doubt it. CE would know if it had any merit, and it doesn't appear to be so from what I've heard.
 
I just don't get it. I mean, my dad hired a good attorney. The misdemeanor I pled guilty to was filed in another part of the state, so the attorney isn't local. Despite having a good attorney (when I was at the sentencing hearing, the judge told me "You have an excellent attorney"), people keep talking about warrants and such, and I'm thinking...

...what gives? I make my ex-shrinks angry (I was labeled a "trouble maker"), so I'm just a little...paranoid, maybe...because "trouble makers" always get the worst treatment from mental health people. Its like the 1950s or something, I swear.
 
I brought your situation before a particular member of my family who is in law enforcement. If there was a warrant lingering out there somewhere with your name on it, your local law enforcement department would have served it by now. They know where you live and how to reach you, so it would be a simple enough task to clear up one more warrant from their list of "to-do's".

Your neighbors nonsense is harassing and uncomfortable for you, but at least you've identified the fact they are bullies. Continue to pray for them, and give this entire matter to our Lord. Don't let even one lingering bit of anger about neighbors remain in your thoughts; give it all to our Lord!
 
Don't waste your time worrying about what a bunch of sickos say. There are real people out there who you will be able to relate to; who can be inspired by your faith; who maybe need you as much as you need them. You need to go out and find them. I know you find church difficult (been in that situation too!) But ask God for courage and try a bit of church-hopping till you find somewhere that feels right. if you're not comfortable with talking to the people there yet, then arrive 10 minutes late and leave a few minutes early - that way you can sneak in and out without anyone paying attention to you. When you find one you like, and when you're ready, you can start attending normally. Prayingg for you as always.
 
Edward said:
Are they still riding that horse?! If the police wanted you, they'd have picked you up a long time ago. They obviously do not so have some fun with it. When they say it, tell them the pressure is too much when hiding from the law so you want to turn yourself in and go quietly if they call them. I'll just wait here for them...:lol

Then everytime you see them ask them, so where are they? I'm ready to go, and smile real big at them.
They'll look mighty stupid continuing to repeat that crap when they never come, lol.

:horse:lol
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Use this idea CE!! This is great Edward.
 
What I like to do when I'm being bullied is find a way to laugh about it.
Hope this brightens your day:
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The neighbors have been quiet today, thank goodness. I get it, I do...I was wretched, I was a loser, people projected their issues on to me. I mean, the truth about my shady backstory is/was bad enough, but seriously: people projected things onto me. Happens when you're very, very low on the totem pole.

I'm assuming that my (apparently, "excellent") attorney would know if there was some kind of warrant hanging over my head. And I would assume that my probation officer would have said something by now (she's put in for early discharge from misdemeanor probation). People in this neighborhood, in particular, despise me. Here's a direct quote from one of the neighbor dudes: "He's gonna kill himself when I get through with him." Awesome.
 
Christ_empowered said:
Here's a direct quote from one of the neighbor dudes: "He's gonna kill himself when I get through with him." Awesome.
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That's only if you buy what they're trying to sell. And, nope, you're not going to give them the time of day by giving any heed to their nonsense.

Instead, you're going to listen to what our Lord has to tell you. And He continues to say He loves you and that He has plans for your future.
 
AirDancer said:
That's only if you buy what they're trying to sell. And, nope, you're not going to give them the time of day by giving any heed to their nonsense.

Instead, you're going to listen to what our Lord has to tell you. And He continues to say He loves you and that He has plans for your future.
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Well said Air.
 
You have come a long way and has grown as a individual.

I have learnt that people who are always negative, quick to judge people, never has something good to say are really unhappy people even though it might not appear like it. It makes them feel so much better about themselves and less time to reflect on themselves and their own weaknesses. Just think about it logically, how pathetic and immature it is to pass on comments like that? The bully's need real help.
Sometimes it can hurt what people say however they really not worth the time and the energy.
 
I am really sorry that the neighbors have hurt you. I am proud of you for the way that you are handling things! I would imagine that they are not saved, so if you can find it in your heart to forgive them, and everytime you think of them forgive them. And the next time they say something tell them that you forgive them. As you walk in God's total forgiveness and love towards them, God will be rallying in your corner, going before you to prepare the way for some mighty things to happen on your behalf. The kind of things that only by walking in love and forgiveness, can open. The devil has them blinded to the wonderful love of God, that He has chosen to pour out on you. As you have come to love and forgive your parents, release God to work in their behalf, opening their eyes to His wonderful love for them. May the Lord richly bless you!
 
I keep thinking about you Christ empowered. I haven't read everything you have put in different posts but seen enough to want to pray for you, in the hope things get better for you. Wishing you joy and peace and I will pray for you.
 
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