[__ Prayer __] Need prayers a bad break up.

[bushygrunty]

Im probably just a kid to you guys but im 17 and i just split with my girlfriend after a year and a half. This was my first relationship where i felt love and she was also a very strong christian who showed me a lot about god. I do believe that God will have a plan for me and he will give me an even better significant other later on in my life, but for me to have true peace its always going to take time. I have to admit that without this break up i wouldn't have been as close to God as i am now if i was still with her. But she is still someone constantly that is on my mind, ive been trying to get my mind off by hanging with friends and reading lord of the rings ( which is the best!). Were on good terms but when i try to text her she ignores my messages, all of them. I also see many pictures of her on facebook and that lead me to delete my facebook. I know that i will get over her but if you get the time, please pray for me for a faster recovery, please help me find something else to think about and help me get over her. I also at times fall into lust and all i think about is hooking up with girls so i can get my mind off her, and i feel ashamed of even trying to do that, i never did but i just need to stop giving into lust. I thank you all for taking the time to read this and i thank you for the prayers. God bless

 

[sealed servant]

I aint young any more by a long shot, LOL, but I remember young love all to well. My first two beautiful girlfriends like to tore my heart plum out of my chest. 30 some odd years later I still think of them from time to time. My first wife was a beauty too. She did tear my heart out and then stomped on it and fed it to the dog. My second wife decided she was a lesbian after twenty years of marriage. That kinda left me cold too.

I started dating girls out of bars after that. I Lived with Maggie for a while, who owned her own bar and was good looking on top of that, but she was a mean drunk and she was always drunk. I give up on her and let Katsue, a stripper I knew, move in with me. I tell you that if you got any jealousy in you at all living with a stripper 15 years younger than you will sure bring it out in a big way.

By then I was in my mid 40's and I decided I'd had enough of bar whores so I quit drinking and drugging and give my life to Jesus, (still ride my harley though), and let The Lord pick me my new wife. He sure done a better job of it than I ever did. Now I'm in my mid fifties and I can count every agument we have had in the last ten years on the fingers of one hand. Two words. Christian Mingle.

The point of this little recount of running disaster is this. Life at best is hard, and it is damn near impossible without Jesus. When Debra and I got married we married ourselves to The Lord also in public ceremony, and he said I do. When you go looking for a new girl remember that Marriage done properly is not a two party thing.

P.S. That lust thing don't never go away, you just got to learn to control it. Prayer sure helps.

 

[jasoncran]

lovely. Lord, as you have scolded me for remembering my hurts in my love life's past and now have put them in the past. so I ask that you help this boy. in your name amen

 

[Eugene]

Dear Father, You have heard the heart of bushygrunty, and I ask with him that You heal the hurt, and take care of damage control as it were as You work in his life to have Your very best fo him. Please help him to make choices that will benefit him forever. Thank You Father and I ask this in Jesus' name. Amen.

 

[AirDancer]

You're in my prayers, bushygrunty. The trials and tribulations of young love ... the hurt you're experiencing isn't at all fun. Now is a great time to focus on reading & studying our Lord's Word, and allowing Him to guide you through the healing time you face. Our Lord loves you dearly and does indeed have a sound & special plan for you. Trust Him!

Blessings!