ArtGuy said:
Wow, it'd be really difficult raising a child when you can never tell him that he misbehaved. It must also be difficult to know that your friend has done something to hurt you, but you can't bring it up. Because that would be pointing out the faults of others, and that would be bad.
First of all, I would ask that you refrain from your sarcastic comments. We are having a discussion, not hurling condescending statements at one another. Outside of this argument, you are nothing but a brother in christ to me. Second, I simply worded it wrong, I meant that I wouldn't condemn another for their sins (well, I'd prefer not to... we all do it.) Telling a child that he's misbehaving is not condemning him, it's letting him know.
On the contrary, the wordly view of sin is highly relevant. God tells us that we must obey the laws of man in addition to the laws of God, to the extent that they don't conflict. This does just mean to obey laws that are written down in the law books, but also social mores, customs, and general notions of goodness and decency. While we're on this Earth, we must pay attention to the our own notions of good and bad in addition to those of God. According to God, we're all sinners. According to men, though, there is good and bad, and these notions should be respected.
Perhaps, but then think about all the worldly customs that completely contradict the word of God. You can sacrifice your faith to "be polite" but I sure the heck won't. What if the world starts to view drugs and alcohol as a good thing? Will you just follow along because it's customary? The worldly view of sin... well the world is primarily sin. It's irrelevant... if you sa drinking's bad, and I say "My friend (assuming he's not christian) says that drinking's good for you." It's not valid, unless you take the word of man over the word of God.
But all this is semantic. I don't think God would want us to refrain from pointing out the flaws of others when the aim is to rectify those flaws.
You seem to be ignoring the fact that I've agreed with you on this point many times now, but how is blatantly insulting someone pointing out their flaws? So you insult him with the aim to rectify his flaws? Something tells me that you'll have a difficult time with that.
If someone I know emotionally abuses his wife, I shouldn't ignore it under the guise of not wanting to step on God's toes. I should tell the guy to stop being a tool, I should tell the wife that she should leave this jerk, and I should tell my children that when they grow up, they must never behave like this. If we remain silent, we do nobody any good. If we publicly decry such actions, we help prevent them from happening in the future.
Firstly, telling the guy that he's a tool will NOT accomplish anything... guaranteed. It will make him mad, and perhaps he'll even take a round out of you. Also, you have no business telling her to leave him, you should pray for their marriage... for God's will to be done, it's none of your business whether their marriage fails or gets stronger. That being said, calling the police would be an honorable thing to do because you know her and care about her and THAT would prevent it from happening in the future, not calling him a tool. And yes, tell your children that... as a parent you would be morally obligated to.
Secondly, about calling the guy a tool... it has no bearing in this debate. That would be different, walking up to a man... insulting him, and walking away (or attempting to before he deals out a beating.) In Pat Robertson's case... you insulted him behind his back, you're not standing up to him, you're posting about him in an insulting manner. There's a difference.
You may see no difference between yourself and Pat Robertson, or Mother Theresa and Adolf Hitler, but that doesn't mean that no differences exist. And it's certainly not a bad thing to point out that perhaps wanting to pelt people with rocks, or exterminate an entire race, is maybe not such a hot idea.
I never said that there wasn't a difference between me and Pat Robertson... I said that through God's eyes... his sins will be judged as ours would be. And YES, say that exterminating a race is insanely stupid! Explain why, post facts. THAT would make a difference long before calling Adolf Hitler a moron would.
Besides, if you feel you really
need to point out that exterminating an entire race is bad... well it really makes you think about the kind of world we live in doesn't it?
Btw, I'm not trying to "boss you around" or get you to change you mind. I simply posted my thoughts, and have since been replying to you.