Hello radium1987~ :D
Being alone is often a very difficult trial for the saved and unsaved alike. However, we Christains are newly created for fellowship with our Heavenly Father and with His kids. I believe that thou our Lord allows seasons of lonilness He desires that we would not live alone. It is the only thing He said was
not good in His creation. Genesis 2:18 (NKJV)
And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.
I praise God for the discernment he has given you, and for your willingness to keep your heart and walk in Christ safe and pure thru His quickening. May Jesus' great friendship and marvelous love be your comfort as He leads you to the group of men He desires for your fellowship in Christ.
May the Lord use those who teach the word to you to guide you to friendships in Christ.
In Isaiah 30: 20+21 God promises to bless His people with guidance. :yes
And though the Lord gives you the bread of adversity and the water of affliction, yet your teachers will not be moved into a corner anymore, but your eyes shall see your teachers. Your ears shall hear a word behind you, saying, “This is the way, walk in it,†whenever you turn to the right hand or whenever you turn to the left. (NKJV)
When Judah was prosperous and comfortable, they wouldn’t listen to God. Then, God gave them the bread of adversity and water of affliction so they could hear God and be guided by Him again. It’s always better to be uncomfortable and in tune with the Lord than to be comfortable and out of step with God.
May He grant you men to be mentored by and peers in Christ at your college, I ask this for the witness and fame of Christ Jesus among you.
In Jesus name, :amen bonnie