My gentleman and I were sort of discussing this recently. We're dating but its turning serious. Anyway, I was asking what his thoughts were on this very topic and he liked the fact that his mom stayed home with the children. But for us, there will be no children -- I'm already 42 -- and we're both OK with this. So we agreed we both stay working and splitting the duties at home (I like to cook, he can't; he doesn't mind doing dishes, I don't like doing dishes ... that sort of thing).
Each couple needs to weigh all the factors for themselves really.
I know one couple with two small children ... 2 and 5 now if I remember right ... where the right decision for them was the wife worked and the husband stayed home with the kids. She's high strung and is very good with finances ... he's a bit more layed back and likes to be creative (I think he's taken some wfh art gigs here and there to supplement). For them, it works. He'd be miserable in corporate america, and she'd have melted down by now trying to corral two active cutie-pies. And they still have the benefit of one of the parents there, rather than the day care system.
Anyway, just my two cents ;)
Each couple needs to weigh all the factors for themselves really.
I know one couple with two small children ... 2 and 5 now if I remember right ... where the right decision for them was the wife worked and the husband stayed home with the kids. She's high strung and is very good with finances ... he's a bit more layed back and likes to be creative (I think he's taken some wfh art gigs here and there to supplement). For them, it works. He'd be miserable in corporate america, and she'd have melted down by now trying to corral two active cutie-pies. And they still have the benefit of one of the parents there, rather than the day care system.
Anyway, just my two cents ;)