It reads
1 Tim 2:4
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Who will have all men to be saved, and to come unto the knowledge of the truth.
They suppose that Gods will here is subjected to the will of men,
No it doesn't.
There is not a hint of a suggestion that anyone thinks God's will might be subjected to the will of men.
Apparently you have not considered that, since God is completely sovereign, He is able to make the sovereign decision to allow men to exercise their free will.
It seems that your thinking is along the lines of:
God is totally sovereign.
Total sovereignty requires that everything that happens and exists is God's will
Therefore it is God's will that there are murderers, rapists, birth defects, diseases, droughts, wars, criminals, drunkards, drug addicts, pedophiles, pornography, corrupt politicians, prostitutes, etc. etc. etc......
You are suggesting that God is not able to do anything He chooses because He is limited in his actions by His sovereignty.
He cannot allow anyone to make a choice that is contrary to His will.
That means God's choices are limited by a higher authority than God.
In you view, sovereignty is a higher authority than God and God must submit to it.
That's just one more way that Calvinism makes God out to be less than the God of Scripture.