To start with, I would like to preface, that what Jesus Christ taught as well as commanded can be summed up in this:
- Love God and love people.
This is what His commandments, teachings, law, gospel, message and sayings boil down too.
I believe we all can agree on this.
Where we may tend to disagree, is what happens when we choose to live our lives in disregard or rebellion to His doctrine and Commandments.
I'd rather focus on where we agree and build on that if you don't mind. By doing so, all disagreements may just resolve themselves as we strive to live out our faith with the accordance of faith given us.
Matthew 22:37-40 Jesus said unto him,
Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind. This is the first and great commandment. And the second is like unto it, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself. On these two commandments hang all the law and the prophets.
We see that there is a hierarchy to God's commandments and all must be viewed under the lens of Loving God and Loving our neighbor.
While this seems pretty straight forward in ideology, it's quiet another to put it into practice.
There are many that do not know how to love themselves as God loves us, and with a skewed view of what love is, they justify poor behavior to their neighbor while truly believing they are justified in keeping the commandment.
I think the song Sweet Dreams by the Eurythmics can better say what I'm trying to say.
Some of them want to use you
Some of them want to get used by you
Some of them want to abuse you
Some of them want to be abused.
Again, Jesus says
Luke 6:35-36
But love ye your enemies, and do good, and lend, hoping for nothing again; and your reward shall be great, and ye shall be the children of the Highest: for he is kind unto the unthankful and to the evil. Be ye therefore merciful, as your Father also is merciful.
Again, Jesus tells us how to love each other, but we have to wrap our flesh around the commandment and live it out.
I've always liked how Paul explains love.
1 Corinthians 13:4-7 Love suffereth long, and is kind; love envieth not; love vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up, doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not its own, is not provoked, taketh not account of evil; rejoiceth not in unrighteousness, but rejoiceth with the truth; beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things.
What I am trying to say is this. We can quote scripture all day long about love, but in the end we have to put that faith in action. We have to live out that command.
Lets talk about what Paul says and build one another up in God's truth shall we?
How can we live out Godly love and what does it look like put into action?
1. Love suffereth long.
2. Love envieth not.
3. love vautheth not itself,
4. Is not puffed up.
5. Doth not behave itself unseemly,
6. Seeketh not its own.
7. is not provoked,
8. taketh not account of evil;
9. rejoiceth not in unrighteousness, but rejoiceth with the truth;
10. beareth all things,
11. believeth all things,
12. hopeth all things,
13. endureth all things.
How doe we live this type of Biblical love out toward ourelves first so we can be a light for others.
You see, if we can't love ourselves the way God loves us, then we become hypocrates and we are not able to live out the second greatest commandment.
Jesus says this...
Matthew 7:3-5
And why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy brother's eye, but considerest not the beam that is in thine own eye? Or how wilt thou say to thy brother, Let me cast out the mote out of thine eye; and lo, the beam is in thine own eye? Thou hypocrite, cast out first the beam out of thine own eye; and then shalt thou see clearly to cast out the mote out of thy brother's eye.