Not every one is an apologist.
And, just as not everyone is capable of being an Olympic athlete, neither is everyone is capable of learning at the PhD level.
But anyone can respond to an aggressive atheist with a simple question like, "Why is it so important to you for me to agree with your beliefs?" or "Is it OK with you if I believe in God?"
But those responses are aimed at just bringing the assault to an end and not to accomplish anything of value.
While not everyone is able to open the scriptures like the apostle Paul (who have more than the equivalent of a ThD today), but everyone can apply the teachings of Jesus to their lives and be a "living gospel" by following the instructions of the Bible.
Like: “
Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works and glorify your Father in heaven."
(Mat 5:16)
Or , as St. Francis of Assisi said, "Preach the Gospel at all times; if necessary use words."
The emphasis on apologetics is, IMO, an error. Consider Paul's words at
1Co 2:4-5 ".
.. my speech and my preaching were not with persuasive words of human wisdom, but in demonstration of the Spirit and of power, that your faith should not be in the wisdom of men but in the power of God."
Paul didn't just preach the Gospel; he demonstrated it daily by his life.
That error is compounded by the false teaching that a Christian doesn't have to do anything other than believe. If I may quote a couple of well worn sayings, "
People don't care how much you know; they want to know how much you care." and "
Actions speak louder than words."
We are to be imitators of Christ. Everything He did for mankind was based in his love for mankind and His infinite mercy.
Christians aren't called to argue with atheists.
Christians are called to love atheists.
You can argue philosophy and religion til you're blue in the face of til kingdom come, (which ever comes first) but you cannot argue with love in action. It is what it is. (<---- period)
and that's my 2 kopecks.
iakov the fool