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Growth The Warrior Woman

“Who can find a “virtuous wife”? For her worth is far above rubies. The heart of her husband safely trusts her, so he will have no lack of gain.” (Proverbs 31:10-11) NKJ

What’s God’s view of women? How does He want us to view women? The answer can always be found by going to Proverbs 31. However, what woman who compares themselves to this passage does not fall short? Most people believe this passage means that women should be meek, good, or obedient women. They problem is, that’s not what the passage means at all.

The answer to how God views women can be answered by a study of the word “virtuous.” The word virtuous in today’s society, means “moral excellence, chastity, especially among women, a form of goodness.”

However, the original Hebrew word there is the word chayil, which means powerful, or mighty woman. The Jewish translations call her a valiant woman or a worthy woman. Let’s go through some of the translations and see what the word “virtuous” has meant in many of them.

The original Hebrew word chayil, means strength, might, power, or valor. In the Septuagint which was a Greek translation in 270B.C., the word chayil is translated into andreian, which means diligent, vigorous, strong, active, bold, and worthy. The Vulgate translation which the Latin translation done in 405 A.D. translates the word chayil to fortem which means diligent, vigorous, active, strong, bold, and worthy.

Other English translations also translate the word chayil to mean strong or valiant. The Wycliffe translation which was don in 1395A.D. translated the word chayil to mean strong, and the Douay-Rheims translations of 1609A.D. translates the word chayil as valiant.

So what happened? How could the translators have changed the meaning of the word so drastically? They didn’t. The original English meaning of ‘virtue’ is mighty and strong. The reason we so often misunderstand Proverbs 31 is that our concept of the word ‘virtue’ has changed in the English language during the last 500 years. The meaning of the word ‘virtue’ when the King James was translated meant, “strength, excellence, or valor.”

This is a very important concept, because it changes the dynamic of the marriage relationship. As a culture, we have lost the concept of powerful allies. I believe that one of our biggest problems is that men and women have undercut the power of their greatest ally, each other.

Our culture teaches us to back stab the ones we love. When a woman’s power is undercut, a situation is created where men and women become enemies. Instead of supporting each other, we battle and undermine God’s call to reflect Jesus’ relationship with His bride, the Church.

A woman of power is to be valued and it is God’s call for men and women to become mighty and powerful. We need to be strong allies and not hostile enemies in order to win the battles of this world. Women it is your calling to be a strong supporter of your husband, children, and families. We are in a losing battle when we perceive our allies as enemies and waste time and energy putting each other down instead of empowering each other.

Taken from the book “A Mighty Warrior” by Dr. Frank T Seekins. Dr. Seekins and his wife Sally are marriage counselors who speak worldwide on precepts regarding faith, family, and friendship. Dr. Seekins is an expert on the Hebrew language having studied it for over 30 years.
 
Gods will for woman was to be a helpmate to the man in every way, mentally, spiritually, emotionally, socially and physically. She was also created to bare the generations to come. A woman is not greater or less than the man, but was his equal. Proverbs 31 does give what God expects of a women especially in the marriage and how to run the household.

Gen 2:20 And Adam gave names to all cattle, and to the fowl of the air, and to every beast of the field; but for Adam there was not found an help meet for him.
Gen 2:21 And the LORD God caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam, and he slept: and he took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh instead thereof;
Gen 2:22 And the rib, which the LORD God had taken from man, made he a woman, and brought her unto the man.
Gen 2:23 And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man.
Gen 2:24 Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.

 
Gods will for woman was to be a helpmate to the man in every way, mentally, spiritually, emotionally, socially and physically. She was also created to bare the generations to come. A woman is not greater or less than the man, but was his equal. Proverbs 31 does give what God expects of a women especially in the marriage and how to run the household.

Gen 2:20 And Adam gave names to all cattle, and to the fowl of the air, and to every beast of the field; but for Adam there was not found an help meet for him.
Gen 2:21 And the LORD God caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam, and he slept: and he took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh instead thereof;
Gen 2:22 And the rib, which the LORD God had taken from man, made he a woman, and brought her unto the man.
Gen 2:23 And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man.
Gen 2:24 Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.

Hi for_his_glory:

The Proverbs 31 passage also strikes me in relation to the woman strengthening her arms, and considering a field and buying it.

The Victorian caricature of women as fainting waifs with little resposibility, in floppy dresses, is clearly so wide of the Biblical mark.

Blessings.
 
Many Victorian type women exists today as they feel they are above domestic duties of the house in any way, shape or form. In our house I do the cooking, cleaning, laundry and make out all the bills that need paid. My husbands job is to work and provide for him and me and to be the Spiritual head of the household. A mans house needs to be a place of relaxation when he comes home from work. The only duties he has is to cut wood in the winter for the wood burner and take the trash to the cub on Wed. In the summer he does the trimming in the yard and I do the riding. He works hard and doesn't need to come and have to work. I'm old school, LOL
 
I kind of see it as we fill in the gaps where out husbands are weak. My husband can't add two and two and get four so I take care of the bills. He is one of those creative, ADHD types and I am the more sensible engineering type. I have to keep him from floating off the earth sometimes. He gets way out there. He shows me how to color outside the lines sometimes because I'm am creative but in an engineering kind of way. For me everything needs to be compartmentalized, structured, and in a straight line. Not him! We share everything including the house work, but we have our business at home, so neither of us need to go anywhere. When it comes to who is the spiritual head of the home, we pick Jesus and that seems to work well. We both have a good knowledge of the Bible and we have some great discussions, prayer times, and Bible studies.

The "warrior woman" is someone that makes her husband, household, and children shine. She defends them with her life and make sure that no one in the home lacks for anything. It is about not taking away the power that women have in the Lord and also making sure your husband is a powerful in the Lord and leaders in the community.
 
You sound like me Sandy. Sometimes I'm to regimental as everything has to be in it's proper place. I keep folders in the desk that shows what bills need paid every month. I told my husband that if anything ever happens to me that everything is in the folder and important papers in the safe. I'm having a hip replacement next week and when I get home I have to stay in bed for two weeks. I have prepared meals for those two weeks so all my husband has to do is heat them up and use paper plates to cut down on the dishes he hates to do. My ducks are always in a row, LOL
 
You sound like me Sandy. Sometimes I'm to regimental as everything has to be in it's proper place. I keep folders in the desk that shows what bills need paid every month. I told my husband that if anything ever happens to me that everything is in the folder and important papers in the safe. I'm having a hip replacement next week and when I get home I have to stay in bed for two weeks. I have prepared meals for those two weeks so all my husband has to do is heat them up and use paper plates to cut down on the dishes he hates to do. My ducks are always in a row, LOL
Me too, pretty much. But my husband always comes and messes them up for me. His ducks are never straight. LOL That's the joy of marriage.
 
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