Very well said W. While I don't think we have the right to judge in what way God may choose to communicate with an individual, we can discern the content of this message, using the Bible as the measuring rod. However I do feel quite certain that He no longer speaks to us with an audible voice. I address this also to Not Now Soon' s comment on Paul's being healed of blindness by a Believer who received these instructions in a vision, not from the Bible.
Hebrews 1: 1,2
"In the past God spoke to our forefathers through the prophets many times and in various ways, but in these days He has spoken to us by His Son----"
The situation with Paul, was an entirely different situation than we are in after the NT was was available, or the writings distributed.
Paul was being appointed by Jesus as an Apostle. This was at the very beginning of the Apostles mission of establishing the foundation of the Church. The miracle healing and the manner in which God instructed Ananias, were a mark, so to speak, a visible verification that Paul had been appointed by God and that his words carried Jesus's authority.
Now God primarily speaks to us in His Word. The Book is closed. We no longer need prophets, or the spoken out loud voice of God. Now He speaks to us through Jesus, that is His words contained in Scripture.
But God will do whatever He wants or needs to do in an individual's life. However our feelings about something is not a reliable thing to depend on. God will see to it, through whatever means, that we get where He wants us to go. That does not mean we are passive. Personally, when I have a decision to make, a big one, not a day by day type of decision, that's what He gave us brains for, but a big one I pray that He would open a way to go in the direction He desires or me, and stop me from going a wrong way. And then I do whatever due diligence is necessary on my part. It has played out ok so far.
And W that is the problem with all the God told mes, and God said we hear. It makes us sometimes feel like less loved by God, or that we are doing something wrong. Sometimes it hits us that way, even when we know better. You have it right. Live your life loving God and knowing and loving His Word. That is God speaking to you always.