I evangelize...but I make a relationship with people I come in contact with first.
I don't need to know you personally to know without a doubt that this is how you 'evangelize'. This is exactly what I'm talking about. This is what is being taught in the churches I was referring to in post #13. I have no qualms against it except, personally, that I'm not equipped with the spiritual gift to be particularly successful at it. God doesn't use me that way. But I would never tear it down as useless and ineffective. That's not my point.
My sister was saved through such a relationship with a co-worker during a difficult time in her life. I'm not big on it personally because that environment, while conducive to effective interpersonal contact, is also for that reason the very environment that fosters the highest likelihood for interpersonal conflict over religion, and because of that should not be taken on without the power of a gift to do so. Been there, done that. I know what I'm talking about.
So when I tell them about Jesus...there is no doubt that I am not a freak. Nor do they dismiss what I tell them either.
It's a vastly different form of evangelism that is much more effective than Street preaching.
I think that all Christians can do that...the street preaching? I leave that for the wackos.
Which is kind of ironic, because that's where you can be the most effective.
Being in public, and not being in an environment where you can get too personal, is actually the best place for the person with the gift of evangelism and for those who simply want to extend some grace of God to people, to operate. It's only for wackos if you want to be a wacko. Approaching people with the gospel in a public place is hardly wacko by definition. Jesus, Paul, and countless others are not wackos for doing that.
Have you ever heard the testimonies of true evangelists? The person with the true gift of evangelism can meet a stranger in an airport and two minutes later have them confessing Christ as Lord. The rest of us? We just try to be kind and gracious to them, offering to pray for them, giving them a few bucks when they need it, share a bit of Biblical knowledge, or doing whatever is in line with our particular gift, prepping them for the visit of the person who
does have the true gift of evangelism and who can, and will lead them to salvation.
I remember one woman from my church going on an evangelistic trip with a ministry team many years ago sharing how one of the evangelists approached a woman in an airport and started a conversation with her by commenting about the beauty of her earrings. The evangelist had her making a confession of Christ two minutes later. That's what the true gift of evangelism often looks like.
My pastor/mentor/father in the faith shared how he got saved because a man from a local Nazarene church he was acquainted with showed up at his door one Sunday morning unannounced to take him and his wife to church. He was rather reluctant to go, and the man was somewhat insistent, but they went anyway and ended up getting saved, water baptized and the whole nine yards. Would I or you do that? No. We don't have the gifting, and therefore, the spiritual power to do that. Instead, we would be the polite, helpful, cheerful Christian that the new convert knew for months or years that slowly nibbled away at his resistance to spiritual things
through the witness of our transformed lives, getting him ready to make a confession of faith somewhere in the future. The problem being, the church isn't focusing on the transformed life to do that! Instead, they are relying on the world's glitz and glamour to attract people to Christ.
The point is, don't knock 'in your face' street evangelism. It's not wacko. It's for the spiritually gifted. If you want to knock something, knock this ridiculous 'talent search/prosperity' mentality driving the church's evangelistic efforts these days. See, when you lack powerful evangelists like the kind I've just spoken about (because the gifts aren't being taught and aroused in God's people and are being written off as 'wacko') you end up resorting to light shows, donut and coffee bars, weak gospels, and tattooed flamboyant musicians, oh, and bouncy blowup tents, to attract people to your church by catering to some carnal interest in them in the (distant) hope of eventually bringing them to a confession of Christ. I'm guessing
Chopper , who I'm confident has the real gift of evangelism, not just a personal testimony to share with people like the rest of us have, did not need to employ those things to bring people to Christ.