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Two Girls... HELP!

i find it hard for the law to punish her that hard as its not like that kid didnt volunteer to well "have fun" she isnt ugly for a forty yr and you know how the world is about teens and women that age.
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I don't have any sympathy for her. I don't care what they say about "teens and women that age" that kind of sexuality is damaging for a boy who isn't a man yet. Guys need sexually healthy relationships just as much as girls do. What this woman did was just as wrong as a 40 year old male teacher having sex with a 16 year old girl.
 
handy said:
I don't have any sympathy for her. I don't care what they say about "teens and women that age" that kind of sexuality is damaging for a boy who isn't a man yet. Guys need sexually healthy relationships just as much as girls do. What this woman did was just as wrong as a 40 year old male teacher having sex with a 16 year old girl.
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its not consistent. trust me i dont feel sorry for her but you do remember that teacher who got pregnant by a 12 yr old and carry child.she did 5 yrs! is that right?nope? and she isnt alone. another teacher got a long sentence. yet its inconsistent. trust me they should be punished but reasonably of course. either a long term for all or short term but not what ever the judges feels.

and these cases are in florida.
 
That poor guy. Can't even begin to imagine... And I thought I had it rough with our 3 year difference.
 
I know, Jason. But there is a rather large difference between the age gap with adults and with teens. 3 years is within illegal territory for me. But 13 years for you isn't.
 
Pard said:
I know, Jason. But there is a rather large difference between the age gap with adults and with teens. 3 years is within illegal territory for me. But 13 years for you isn't.
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its not as easy as you think. i was 28 when i married her. she was born in 1959 and i 1973. theres a generation there. i hate when talks of old vero. i dont recall what and where those places are as i well wasnt born:lol she graduated hs(should have)in 77. i was 4 at the time. her kids are near my age. so its ackward at first.yes it may be legal but this age difference is a barrier.

look at the sicko hefner(87) and his gf(24) legal yes but what in the world does that girl want with a wrinkly old man whose perverted at that?i couldnt date a girl that is 18 these days if i was single again. no way.
 
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That poor guy. Can't even begin to imagine... And I thought I had it rough with our 3 year difference.
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Yeah, I feel sorry for him...for both of them. It's not an easy situation and he's handling it with more grace and maturity one would expect from a 21 year old guy.

The upside to it is that if he truly wants to wait for her, he can keep himself busy by finishing school, starting his career and setting himself up in life. He'll be in a much more secure place to support a wife than he is now, that's for sure.

And, if things change and it doesn't work out between them, hey, 25 isn't exactly old.
 
So I've been on two dates with the girl.

After the first date I was approached by her brother's girlfriend and told that I should continue to pursue a relationship with her. I didn't push for a reason but instead went to her brother and asked. Turns out she is currently dating a real sleaze bag. He is a terrible influence on her. He does drugs and hangs out with the totally wrong crowd. Her brother told me he'd appreciate it if I would steer her in the right direction (ie away from him) and if I'd try to date her.

I was rather over joyed. I took it as a sign. After discovering she was dating I prayed to God for some advice and this is what I feel is what I need to do. She's a good girl but she has that kind of personality that can get her in trouble.

The other girl (the one my age) I have stopped talking to because I just felt bad. Feeling better now.

And in an interesting turn of events some girl in my EMT class has an interest in me (not sure why. This girl is drop dead gorgeous). I think I'll just ignore her advances but maybe this is the answer God was giving me and not what the brother said. So who knows but God :thumbsup
 
Something like that. She was very adamant about the friends thing but it was just driving me nuts. Bad memories and the such.
 
Something like that. She was very adamant about the friends thing but it was just driving me nuts. Bad memories and the such.
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I understand completely. I sorta ended our friendship with the girl I was talking to, but it seems she completely gave up on me so even though I sorta ended it, I am still having a very hard time getting over her. Please pray for me because I just cant get over this girl no matter what I do. I have tried friends it was driving me nuts and I tried to end it which is slightly better but still think about her alot. Probably all for the best though.
 
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