People, including myself, have talked about how horrible it feels to have a broken heart.
BUT
There's something worse...a heart that feels nothing.
No compassion, no empathy, no love, no sorrow, no joy.
So much "coolness" that a person doesn't know how to react to life any longer. Wayyy past the point of emotional fatigue and exhaustion. Never really feeling anything anymore. So wrapped up in themselves and their own little life...they really don't have one anymore. Always trying to be happy but missing out on true joy.
And a life that includes a relationship with Christ can see the huge difference in themselves of a "before" and "after".
People take all kinds of chemicals for recreation. They engage in all kinds of sins to try and have joy. They are quick to lie to appear to have compassion and caring but really have no idea what they are truly missing out on. They are perpetually a victim and a perpetrator at the same time...they can't stop it. A type of "hell on Earth"...the walking dead...so full of apathy they don't even truly care about themselves. (Although you would think they do by their self worship)
We know the opposite of what this looks like. People who are always the "soft touch" when it comes to money... always generous...always worried about someone else...cries over the little things even if they don't wear their emotions on their sleeves. They tend to make big deals out of their favorite Holidays... going "overboard" with celebration... because they are truly celebrating... having a full life with ALL the ups and downs of having a big heart.