If you want to beat pride, you must come to a point in your life where you realize it's not all about you. You need to be ok with coming in second or third or even last. You need to take that pedestal you use to elevate yourself above your peers and destroy it. You need to truly believe in your heart that you are no better than anyone else and that they are no better than you. Regardless of what position you hold in this life, you must put everyone else's needs before your own. No exceptions.
Losing pride takes time and a lot of effort, but when you finally shed yourself of that unsavory characteristic, you will see life as you have never seen it before. Your walk with God will take on a whole new dimension. You will actually look forward to serving others. Not just because the bible says we should, but because you actually want to.
So what's the secret? Most of you will laugh when you see it, but it's a fact, it's actually does work.
"Love your neighbor as yourself". That's it. Treat people the way you want to be treated. Put everyone, regardless of who they are, first. Don't be afraid to say "thank you" to everyone who does something for you, no matter how small or insignificant it may seem. Make a special effort to notice the people that don't usually get noticed. Put a smile on every persons face that you come in contact with.
The Gospel is the simplest doctrine known to man. God has 2 simple requirements.
Mark 12
29 Jesus answered him, “The first of all the commandments
is:‘Hear, O Israel, the Lord our God, the Lord is one.
30 And
you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your mind, and with all your strength.’ This
is the first commandment.
31 And the second, like
it, is this: ‘
You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’
There is no other commandment greater than these.”
If you follow those 2 commandments, everything will take care of itself. God will see to it that all your needs are taken care of. He said, "I will never leave nor forsake you" and He means it. He will be there 24/7, rain or shine, night or day, no matter what, He will be there. He will serve you like you've never been served before. It is such an awesome feeling to know that the Creator of all that is, is at your beck and call.
I know this sounds really arrogant, but it's true. If you truly humble yourself before God and the rest of mankind, the Lord will show you some truly wondrous things. He will also remove those nasty character issues.
Anyway, that's how I handled my issue with pride. Become a servant.
So now......