What is the best way to flatter a girl you like?

[stovebolts]

Great point JoJo, and I can tell you that my wife appreciates it when I say thank you for all the things she does!

If you want to flatter a woman using biblical principals, Then simply treat them with unconditional love. In return, they will naturally respect you back.

Put it this way, I don't remember the last time I opened a door for a guy my age or younger

Ephesians 5:33 Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she respect her husband.

Love is the natural language for women while Respect is the natural language for men.

Think about it for a moment. Men are called to love their wives and women are called to respect their husbands. Why? Is it possible that since Respect is a man's native, or primary language, that he is not commanded to respect his wife because he is already geared toward repsect? Is it also possible that since a woman's native, primary language is love, that there is no need for a command that she love her husband since she will already love him?

 

[Dave Slayer]

Do girls like it when guys pay for their meal?

 

[JoJo]

Some girls might appreciate it, while others might prefer to pay for their own. So it depends on the girl. The only way to find out is to ask her. :yes

 

[Fembot]

Doing nice things for someone is always appreciated! (If the person is an appreciative person)

 

[waitman]

In all seriousness though Dave, it depends on your relationship with the girl. If I want to sweep my wife off her feet, I clean the house. She loves that, especially because she knows how much I hate cleaning.

Women want to be appreciated most of all. If all you ever did your entire life is say "thank you" to the woman in your life for every little thing she did, you would make her so happy!

Great pieces of advice! Reminds me of one of my favorate books, The Five Love Languages. They are: Acts of Service, Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, Gifts, and Physical Touch. I would recommend learning what her primary two love languages are, and speak those to her (don't disregard the others though).

 

[heather]

I like Jojo's answer about being appreciated. Nothing irks me more than when my husband tells me I'm beautiful but doesn't say thank you for spending all day cleaning up HIS messes! "Thank you" goes an extremely long way!

 

[justvisiting]

It's been entertaining if nothing else. Thankyou all you pookie poos for your nice shoes and cleaning up the messes. :D