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Who are we to judge?

Why do we think we can judge other people as to the motives of their obedience to God?

We can't know unless they tell us themselves whether their obedience is because they have faith in God's forgiveness or because they are trying to earn a declaration of righteousness.

Shouldn't we just let them tell us themselves instead of pointing the pointy finger of condemnation at them and deciding we know why they do what they do?
 
Hello Jethro,

This will sting and I know its a touchy subject but Give it some thought please.

We will Judge if we think we can lose our salvation or if we think WE have to persevere. We have to have some sort of scale to stay saved. So we are always looking to that scale to see if we are within the bounds of that scale. The scale will inevitably change for each of us because we are imperfect creatures. Once we go out of bounds on our own personal scale(that we made up) we inevitably have to look to the other person and remake our scale to be a wee bit better then the next guy.

So in the end we have true blue(carnal) born again believers going," yeah, I don't follow the law, but He does." or "I have faith,but he doesn't."or" I don't sin like that,but he does."

Why do we think we can judge other people as to the motives of their obedience to God?.....I will bet that this question from you derives from someone who believes that if a Christian starts to follow the Law they can lose their salvation. They will fight tooth and nail, because their salvation depends on it in their own mind. No scripture, no reason and no logic from us will change it until the Spirit says," ok, Its time for this person to KNOW."
 
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Hello Jethro,

This will sting and I know its a touchy subject but Give it some thought please.

We will Judge if we think we can lose our salvation or if we think WE have to persevere. We have to have some sort of scale to stay saved. So we are always looking to that scale to see if we are within the bounds of that scale.
Hello (hey, your home is tipping to the left a little again, lol)

The Bible says the 'scale' is faith in Christ. But apparently, you, like most everybody else can only hear the argument as a scale of 'works of merit'. That's not the argument! Years of being in forums has led me to start challenging this unfair judging of people going on in the church who endorse obedience as the signature of faith. That argument, thanks to the hyper-grace movement in the church, IMO, can only be heard as 'trying to be justified on the merit of works'. That is NOT what the argument means. I'm sticking up for them instead of thinking I'm sure they are only trying to earn their salvation when they know that's not what that means.


The scale will inevitably change for each of us because we are imperfect creatures. Once we go out of bounds on our own personal scale(that we made up) we inevitably have to look to the other person and remake our scale to be a wee bit better then the next guy.
But if the scale is properly understood as faith in the blood of Christ then the scale will neither change, nor vary from person to person. And best of all end any opportunity for unfair, unreasonable, and downright sinful judging (as in judging unfairly without knowledge).


So in the end we have true blue(carnal) born again believers going," yeah, I don't follow the law, but He does." or "I have faith,but he doesn't."or" I don't sin like that,but he does."
Which is not my argument, but is the argument of the 'grace' crowd that condemns any and all 'law keeping' (for all it's varied meanings in the church, lol).


Why do we think we can judge other people as to the motives of their obedience to God?.....I will bet that this question from you derives from someone who believes that if a Christian starts to follow the Law they can lose their salvation.
Almost. Not lose their salvation..earn it.

It does primarily stem from the grace movement's belief that anyone who honors the law in some way is automatically and without exception trying to be justified by that effort, as if they can see into the heart and motives of the person doing that. It's nothing more than sinful judging. The very thing Paul said NOT to do in regard to the law.

Who are we to think we can peer into the hearts and motives of people that only God can see?



They will fight tooth and nail, because their salvation depends on it in their own mind.
I've only met one, maybe two people that said this was the motive for what they did. But some in the church make it out to be the crime of the modern church. I suggest the exact opposite is true. Not because I have an ability to look into the hearts of men, but because of what they say and teach.


No scripture, no reason and no logic from us will change it until the Spirit says," ok, Its time for this person to KNOW."
So, you agree. Unless they say what they believe, leave people alone in regard to their personal convictions about what the expression of saving faith should or shouldn't, or can or can't look like.

So you see, this isn't just a defense of literal law keepers (of which I am not). We the church love to examine others and judge the reasons why they're living the way they do when they haven't told anyone the reason why. Judging by appearances is a very dangerous, and sinful way to live.
 
Jethro,

I will Go put some air in that tire! The Possum grease was a spillen!

Have a great day Brother.(Going to go pick some huckleberries)....thats for real though!:)
 
Years of being in forums has led me to start challenging this unfair judging of people going on in the church who endorse obedience as the signature of faith.

What is the deciding factor that determines true faith from dead faith?


JLB
 
Years of being in forums has led me to start challenging this unfair judging of people going on in the church who endorse obedience as the signature of faith.

What is the deciding factor that determines true faith from dead faith?


JLB
Obedience. A.k.a works.

"...show me your faith without the works, and I will show you my faith by my works." (James 2:18 NASB)

"14 ...What use is it, my brethren, if someone says he has faith but he has no works? Can that faith save him?" (James 2:14 NASB)
 
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Why do we think we can judge other people as to the motives of their obedience to God?

I think I know what's behind it, because I used to be that way myself. The idea behind this behavior can be summed up in one sentence:

To be saved, you have to believe exactly as I do.

I used to believe that. When I first became a Christian, I thought I knew everything there was to know about God and the Bible (I was, after all, a teenager, and teenagers know everything). If anyone disagreed with me on any doctrine, whether it was the rapture, divorce and re-marriage, wives submitting to their husbands or anything else, then I believed that their doctrines were unchristian, and therefore they could not be true Christians.That was 40 years ago. Since then, I've found out through studying the Bible that these aren't issues that should divide us. The Bible doesn't say "Believe 100% correct doctrines and you shall be saved". I've learned that other people can disagree with me on many issues, and still be my brothers and sisters in Christ. That doesn't mean I won't defend my views or that others shouldn't defend theirs, but we shouldn't let these things come between us.
The TOG
 
How about Titus 3:9-11

--Elijah

And how many times?? And James 2:8-12 says what?
[8] If ye fulfil the royal law according to the scripture, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself, ye do well:
[9] But if ye have respect to persons, ye commit sin, and are convinced of the law as transgressors.

[10] For whosoever shall keep the whole law, and yet offend in one point, he is guilty of all.

[11] For he that said, Do not commit adultery, said also, Do not kill. Now if thou commit no adultery, yet if thou kill, thou art become a transgressor of the law.
[12] So speak ye, and so do, [[as they that shall be judged by the law of liberty.]]

Sounds like Eccl. 12:13-14
 
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Why do we think we can judge other people as to the motives of their obedience to God?

I think I know what's behind it, because I used to be that way myself. The idea behind this behavior can be summed up in one sentence:

To be saved, you have to believe exactly as I do.

I used to believe that. When I first became a Christian, I thought I knew everything there was to know about God and the Bible (I was, after all, a teenager, and teenagers know everything). If anyone disagreed with me on any doctrine, whether it was the rapture, divorce and re-marriage, wives submitting to their husbands or anything else, then I believed that their doctrines were unchristian, and therefore they could not be true Christians.That was 40 years ago. Since then, I've found out through studying the Bible that these aren't issues that should divide us. The Bible doesn't say "Believe 100% correct doctrines and you shall be saved". I've learned that other people can disagree with me on many issues, and still be my brothers and sisters in Christ. That doesn't mean I won't defend my views or that others shouldn't defend theirs, but we shouldn't let these things come between us.
The TOG

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How about Titus 3:9-11

--Elijah

And how many times?? And James 2:8-12 says what?
[8] If ye fulfil the royal law according to the scripture, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself, ye do well:
[9] But if ye have respect to persons, ye commit sin, and are convinced of the law as transgressors.

[10] For whosoever shall keep the whole law, and yet offend in one point, he is guilty of all.

[11] For he that said, Do not commit adultery, said also, Do not kill. Now if thou commit no adultery, yet if thou kill, thou art become a transgressor of the law.
[12] So speak ye, and so do, [[as they that shall be judged by the law of liberty.]]

Sounds like Eccl. 12:13-14

Hey me again:
I think that Paul has INSPIRED advice! And we are talking of motives right??

So it appears to me that NO one can read ones thoughts, (save God) but when any person who is Led by the Holy Spirit and is teaching error for any length of time, then what? (see Gen. 6:3)

But once or twice? How about the complete cycle of these Rev. 17:1-5 daughters teachings and with NO change coming to view! With NO 'HOLY SPIRIT' LEADING!

But UNITY it will be! Matt. 6:24.

--Elijah
 
19My brethren, if any among you strays from the truth and one turns him back, 20let him know that he who turns a sinner from the error of his way will save his soul from death and will cover a multitude of sins. James 5:19-20 NASB
 
Years of being in forums has led me to start challenging this unfair judging of people going on in the church who endorse obedience as the signature of faith.

What is the deciding factor that determines true faith from dead faith?


JLB
Obedience. A.k.a works.

"...show me your faith without the works, and I will show you my faith by my works." (James 2:18 NASB)

"14 ...What use is it, my brethren, if someone says he has faith but he has no works? Can that faith save him?" (James 2:14 NASB)

Agreed.

I must have misunderstood your statement. It sounded as if you were against those who endorse obedience as the signature of faith.

Maybe you are referring to the "submission to authority" practices in some churches, which finds its motives in the doctrine of the Nicolatians.

Of course submission to authority is a good thing, as we are called to submit to one another in the fear of the Lord, however some churches step over the line into the doctrine of the Nicolatians.


JLB
 
I tend to agree. There are tons of Christian denominations, and whether we want to believe it or not...there are people in there who, right or wrong, truly think they are doing things in the most Biblical way possible. If you run in there sword in hand going, "hey, idiot, [I think] you're wrong!", it just causes more division than anything else. People are not going to listen to you if you act as if you need to dictate what they believe, that its your way, even if you happen to truly think it's God's way, or the highway.


But it can also be really hard to know where to draw the line, y'know? Merely informing people is not judging them--although there might be different opinions on when it is or is not appropriate to inform them. Like, most would agree that you don't just walk up to someone and tell them that their clothes are immodest. I wouldn't--what they wear is their choice and between then and God. IMO.


...why do I feel like I'm just stating the obvious here?
 
I tend to agree. There are tons of Christian denominations, and whether we want to believe it or not...there are people in there who, right or wrong, truly think they are doing things in the most Biblical way possible. If you run in there sword in hand going, "hey, idiot, [I think] you're wrong!", it just causes more division than anything else. People are not going to listen to you if you act as if you need to dictate what they believe, that its your way, even if you happen to truly think it's God's way, or the highway.


But it can also be really hard to know where to draw the line, y'know? Merely informing people is not judging them--although there might be different opinions on when it is or is not appropriate to inform them. Like, most would agree that you don't just walk up to someone and tell them that their clothes are immodest. I wouldn't--what they wear is their choice and between then and God. IMO.


...why do I feel like I'm just stating the obvious here?


4 Do not answer a fool according to his folly, Lest you also be like him.Proverbs 26:4

5 Answer a fool according to his folly, Lest he be wise in his own eyes. Proverbs 26:5

Two scriptures stated back to back that say exactly the opposite.

I takes wisdom to when, how, who and where to apply which one.


As many as are led by The spirit of God, these are the sons of God.


JLB
 
We are not to judge another mans servant so long as they are not living in defiant sin. Then the word gives us instructions on how to deal with it.
 
Why do we think we can judge other people as to the motives of their obedience to God?

That Question right there is good. It's one reason I don't judge other ministers, don't judge people for the bad things they do. The only judgment that is right is judgment you have authority to carry out. We have to judge employee's, and being boss have that position. I can't judge another Churches pastor because I don't have authority to carry out the judgment, so it's vain empty words if I speak against them and judgment back to me.

I don't hang with Brothers or Sisters that have no faith, or live in sin, but I don't speak about them or make them look bad. I wait on the Lord to see if I can be used to get them on the right path or else my mouth is shut.

Mike.
 
I think I know what's behind it, because I used to be that way myself. The idea behind this behavior can be summed up in one sentence: To be saved, you have to believe exactly as I do.


Excellent point TOG. I would even expound and say that many of us believe or have believed that in order for one to be right with God, a person had to know the scriptures and obey their requirements to the tee. That doesn't sound horrible until it's revealed that the person making such an assertion also believes they know the scriptures best and their understanding is the appropriate understanding that all others must adhere to or else face the wrath of God.
Makes you wonder if the right understanding is something that can be obtained and whether or not basing a foundation on "the right doctrine" is even feasible.
 
4 Do not answer a fool according to his folly, Lest you also be like him.Proverbs 26:4

5 Answer a fool according to his folly, Lest he be wise in his own eyes. Proverbs 26:5

Two scriptures stated back to back that say exactly the opposite.

I takes wisdom to when, how, who and where to apply which one.


As many as are led by The spirit of God, these are the sons of God.

I don't think they say the opposite. It has to do whether one is willing to receive the truth, and the other not.


Answer a fool.

Don't answer a fool.


It doesn't get anymore opposite than that.


JLB
 
Why do we think we can judge other people as to the motives of their obedience to God?

We can't know unless they tell us themselves whether their obedience is because they have faith in God's forgiveness or because they are trying to earn a declaration of righteousness.

Shouldn't we just let them tell us themselves instead of pointing the pointy finger of condemnation at them and deciding we know why they do what they do?

No motive reading, but when we see Lev. 19:17 we remain quiet?

--Elijah
 
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