Why do men always stare....?

[Kathi]

Don't know about the Swedish women, but I can assure you that in Germany most women do shave their legs and arm pits and their private parts. Maybe what you say was true 20 years ago but it's completely different now.

Maybe so

 

[agua.]

I spent time in Germany.......Jason's right.
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Das ist eine sehr haarige Frau ?

 

[Gary]

Das ist eine sehr haarige Frau ?

I didn't spend that much time there.
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[jasonc]

What makes you think German women don't shave? Because most of us do.

soldiers that were there most of their lives, and also married them german girls.

 

[jasonc]

Ewwww. Hairy chest. Needs some waxing.

besides even today, a man would be like unto Justin beiber if shave his chest. while many Asians do wax, most men don't. my wife loves the grey hairs. death would occur if I shaved that. she already hates that I shave my head.

 

[Claudya]

soldiers that were there most of their lives, and also married them german girls.

I guess your information is outdated. Most young women (say, younger than 45) do shave.
I know men that shave their armpits and their personal parts, too.

 

[jasonc]

I guess your information is outdated. Most young women (say, younger than 45) do shave.
I know men that shave their armpits and their personal parts, too.

im close to that age. 41. and you are east german right? remember when that was told to me, there was still that divide and the berlin wall had barely been taken down. I will ask those that did a tour in Germany back in 2006 in my unit.

 

[Mike S]

I guess your information is outdated. Most young women (say, younger than 45) do shave.
I know men that shave their armpits and their personal parts, too.

Say it ain't so!!!

 

[Claudya]

There are a few younger women who still don't shave, because of personal preference, or belonging to some hippie or radical feminist movement. Interstingly I know a number of christian women that don't shave for religious reasons, either because they want to look the way God made them, or because they think being shaved is a sign of sexual immorality or so. I got cussed out by a woman about my age last summer when she saw (in a change room in a public bath we went with a group of church people) that I'm shaved "down there". She blamed me of conforming to the values of the world and looking like a porn star and so on.

 

[Claudya]

Say it ain't so!!!

It is. A while ago I had an affair with a guy (before I became a Christian) that shaved his body hair. I actually liked it.
Real hairy chests aren't attractive. A little hair is fine, but if his chest or belly is covered in fur that's ewww.

 

[Mike S]

It is. A while ago I had an affair with a guy (before I became a Christian) that shaved his body hair. I actually liked it.
Real hairy chests aren't attractive. A little hair is fine, but if his chest or belly is covered in fur that's ewww.

I understand, most women, I think, don't like a lot of body hair on a man

As far as women shaving though, it's never bothered me that some women don't shave their legs and pits, it hasn't made them less attractive to me.

 

[jeff77]

I heard that many times, a woman will look at the mans shoes...is that true? What's up with that?

Anyone ever notice that when two couple walk past each other on the street, the men will look at the other women...and the women will look at the other woman also?

I think that when the wife notices her husband is staring at another women, the wife will take a stare at the woman to see what's so attractive about her that made her husband want to stare. We know that if a nice looking women walks into a business meeting room full of men, that all the men's attention will immediately shift towards her and become distracted. Someone told me that if a handsome man walks into the room full of women that it doesn't have near the same effect. Is this true?

 

[jasonc]

lol. George the animal steele.

 

[Classik]

Someone as attractive as David Villa?

 

[evenifigoalone]

Don't know about the Swedish women, but I can assure you that in Germany most women do shave their legs and arm pits and their private parts. Maybe what you say was true 20 years ago but it's completely different now.

I'm American and I rarely shave. I'll shave my legs when I go swimming, that's about it. (And my legs are super hairy for a girl, sheesh. Even during my childhood.) I wear pants most of the time, so I just don't bother most of the time.

 

[evenifigoalone]

To be fair, women stare at men, too. Maybe they just don't get caught as often as men get caught staring, but I can tell you we have our lustful eyes issues, too.

True, true. Though, I don't really "stare" at people in public. Just doesn't seem respectful to their person to me. I'm much more likely to "check out" a guy in a photograph.

Also, men do have a higher libido in general. According to WebMD, anyway. (I like reading articles there, human biology has always been fascinating to me.) And I heard men are more visually stimulated than women. That kinda makes sense, because the vast majority of the lust issues I have had come from reading specific types of stories (that I don't and cannot commend)...as opposed to looking at the opposite sex.

 

[evenifigoalone]

I do not look at different body parts of a man.I just don't.....but If I see a very attractive man with a nice square chin and nice profile I will look.But I can not say that I have lustful thoughts.I just think OH BOY God sure Blessed you.But that is only the outter looks.For all I know he could be a jerk.

Yeah. I think there's a pretty big difference between finding someone attractive and looking at them in a sexual light.

 

[Edward]

Das ist eine sehr haarige Frau ?

nicht mehr. Ich unterrichtete sie über Rasierer und jetzt so glatt wie Seide ist sie

I think that when the wife notices her husband is staring at another women, the wife will take a stare at the woman to see what's so attractive about her that made her husband want to stare. We know that if a nice looking women walks into a business meeting room full of men, that all the men's attention will immediately shift towards her and become distracted. Someone told me that if a handsome man walks into the room full of women that it doesn't have near the same effect. Is this true?

I think that's exactly why they do it. if the affect upon her was great enough, then the other woman could even tweak her style in an effort to get back to one above, to stand out just a little more. Then the next week, you see 28 women with blue hair, lol. Women want to stand out in a crowd and be more attractive than the rest. A natural inclination i suppose.

I read something eons ago and it stuck with me in curiosity and over the years I have asked many many women if this is true, and have confirmed it to perhaps 95%. It's not absolute, because some women have their priorities in order, but for the most part, it stands true. I doubt it would ring very true on this board because of the high presence of God seeking women here, but tell me what you think of this statement. It goes like this:

"All women, want all men, to desire them. Whether they desire the man or not"

Be gentle with me ladies. This is a secular thing.

 

[Classik]

Run for your precious life....these women here are gonna launch an attack. Hehehehe

 

[Edward]