'' what makes your religion right, and other religions wrong'' argument, I brought up basic arguments against muslims, but what do you say to that?
I honestly didn't really know what to say.
I say differing religions teach fundamentally different answers/conclusions to the “big” questions in life. Therefore they are contradictory. They cannot all be true.
The Christian view/religion/worldview is “right” (true), in my opinion, because it provides the best answers to ALL the most serious questions in life. It provides the best answers to questions like:
1. Where did I come from?
2. Where did the universe come from?
3. Is there any purpose to my life or to the life of others around me?
4. Where am I going (if anywhere) when I die?
5. Are the choices/actions I make in life objectively right or wrong? Or am I free to pretty much make any choice I’d like at the time and just say they are “right”?
Questions like that.
The methods I use to determine if Christianity is the best (versus other choices) is to see what its guidebook (Bible in Christianity’s case) says about these questions. I’d do the same for other guidebooks (Koran in the case of Islam). If the guidebook start telling me things I know to be false (and can prove it), I pretty much discount their guidebook as being inaccurate and clearly made up by error prone human(s). Take for example, a guidebook that says the Earth (planet) rests on the back of a turtle in space. It’s hard for me to just ignore that falsehood and believe anything else it’s got to say about the other, more important, things. If it cannot even get that thing right, then how could it ever get “Is there any purpose to my life?” right?
As I’ve done that for the various choices out there (including the Atheist/Humanist choice), I find they always teach so many falsehoods that it’s frankly hard to believe anything else they have to say.
However, when you read through the guidebook of Christianity (Bible), I’ve yet to find any falsehoods in it. Yet it contains so many, many verifiably true statements and predictions of real events that it made long before those things/events it predicted actually occurred, it’s hard to ignore what it says about “The Rest of the Story”.
Oh, and for me personally, I’ve got the Holy Spirit convincing me of its truth as well. But that’s not really helpful to others that don’t have that same Spirit. Some do, some don’t. Some even have another spirit teaching them things.
You said you found a “fairly open minded person”. I find that a highly unusual occurrence (not that I’m that open minded or anything). Maybe you have found someone that’s “open minded”, but I find a lot of people that say they are open minded, but very few that really are, including me. Especially the ones on the other side of two connected keyboards! I suppose it’s possible though. The real question is how did they arrive at their (our) worldview. Was (is) it based on verifiable truths or simply what we want to believe is true?
I’m going to longalready. I’d suggest a book (I’m sure there are other good ones as well) on this subject: “A World of Difference”, Kenneth Samples.
http://www.amazon.com/World-Difference-Christian-Truth-Claims-Worldview/dp/0801068223/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1383914615&sr=1-1&keywords=a+world+of+difference
You could even just browse it on Amazon and get a lot of good info just from the sample there.
Oh, and when other people (including some Christians) say things about what the Bible teaches , on this or that issue, yet when you really and fairly go check out what it really says, I find that sometimes these very well meaning and honest people just are not that accurately representing what the text itself really does say about any given subject. Including this author above.
Most of the subjects are not really that important to begin with, however. All you have to do is look at all the various denominations etc. to plainly see that there’s a lot of disagreement over various doctrines/teachings/worship styles etc. Some even over what musical instruments are “Right/wrong” or what day of the week to worship, etc.
But I don’t let that bother me as it simply points out and verifies the obvious things (and Biblically taught) about humans (we are weak and fallible). It says almost nothing about God or His Word, to look at how people act within their “religions”. Except that the Bible itself clearly talks about coming divisions/disagreements, even among Christians. Then you cannot get past Acts in the bible, till you start seeing these predicted divisions in the church come true. Sadly, looking at how Christians act toward one another is not really the best way to test whether what its Guidebook is saying is true. But I’m sure that’s true of other “religions” as well.
The difference and comparison that could be made between Christianity versus Islam, for example, is the Bible clearly predicted that sort of thing from the get go. Yet Islam likes to see itself as totally unified in its doctrines/worship because it’s guidebook says that is the way things will be. It’s ridiculous to predict humans will ever “get along” perfectly. I don’t even “get along” with myself at times.
If you wanted to jump to and just stick with discussiions with the person you mentioned on the most important things the Bible teaches about those most important questions I listed, I’d just stick with what it teaches about Jesus. Kind of hard to go wrong with that. You are much less likely to get taken off into tangents and unimportant “stuff”, but still possible (JW, LDS, etc.)