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Why Should I Be Christian?

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I wasn't raised Christian. I was never baptised, I've never set foot in a church for service. Sure, we celebrated holidays, but only the commercial aspects of them. Lately, though, I've been looking into the Bible, and reading it, among other holy books. I really like Christianity. I find it to be convincing, and a beautiful religion for the most part. But I have my doubts. I've heard quite a bit about corruption in churches, even in the one my mother was raised with.

So, this is what I'd like to know:
Can you help me resolve my doubts about this religion?
What are the things you love about Christianity?

I'm also VERY interested in different proofs of God's existence. Refer me to books or summarize arguments yourself. Thank you in advance!
 
First, welcome to the forums! :-)

zumark said:
Can you help me resolve my doubts about this religion?
We certainly can try.

One of the most important things to remember is to never judge a philosophy by its abuse. Yes, Christianity has dark periods in its history, just as there is now corruption in churches. But certain atrocities and corruption does not mean that Christianity is bad or wrong. On the contrary, it actually proves one of the major premises of Christianity--that man is in need of a Savior, outside of himself. Sin in the church, although wrong, still shows that the basic message of the gospels is true.

And I believe that you know this. You stated that you find it to be convincing and beautiful, so then you should know those times when it has not been, and is not being, practiced as it is preached. So then, corruption in certain churches shouldn't keep you from accepting Christ or attending church. What it should do is keep you wary of going to a church where corruption is being practiced, particularly by those put in charge over the congregation.

People will be people and there is nothing we can do about that. The best we can do is strive to be the people God wants us to be and keep ourselves from becoming corrupt.

zumark said:
What are the things you love about Christianity?
I've never really thought about that before. I suppose how it best corresponds with reality; the simplicity and complexity; the mysteries of God; that it is about God pursuing man and all that that entails. I don't really know. That's a good question.

As for proofs of God's existence, I would refer you to Why I Am a Christian, of which Ravi Zacharias is the editor. Anything by Ravi Zacharias is good. Check out http://www.rzim.org. Under "Resources" he has archived podcasts of his lectures and debates (you can also subscribe through iTunes). I cannot recommend those highly enough.

Don't get too caught up in looking specifically for arguments for God's existence. What I find better are books that argue why the Christian worldview as a whole makes the most sense. In doing so, it places arguments for God's existence in a proper context. For that, try not only the book above, but N.T. Wright's Simply Christian, Mere Christianity by C.S. Lewis, or The God Who Is There, Escape From Reason, and He Is There and He Is Not Silent by Francis Schaeffer (available in one book as a trilogy).

I really could recommend many books. I'm at work and my brain isn't working too well so I am forgetting some, but the ones listed above are very good. Simply Christian is the simplest read of those and might be a good starting place.
 
Christianity is to follow Christ. To be conformed to Him. To abide in Him and He in us. This is done through the divine Spirit as a gift of God. The fruit of this Spirit is faith love peace and joy. But there is a cost to be a disciple of Christ. One must surrender all to gain Christ.

It is life itself. To be out of favour with God makes life not worth living.

One can try to be a Christian, but that one will fail miserably. One does not choose to be a Christian per se. God finds those who seek Him and turn to Him. We must acknowledge our iniquities and turn to Him with our whole heart. We won't get the right answers until we get the questions right. He then enters into what is to become our life in Him; and His life in us.

What a priviledge it is to be found of the Lord. :-)

God bless you,

<><

John
 
Hey zumark,

I can only suggest one book in addition to the Holy Bible!

"Evidence That Demands A Verdict" by Josh McDowell.

Without this book I would never have been able to determine how perfect the scriptures are by myself.

If I had never found this book, I would still be lost!

In Christ,

Pogo
 
zumark said:
I wasn't raised Christian. I was never baptised, I've never set foot in a church for service. Sure, we celebrated holidays, but only the commercial aspects of them. Lately, though, I've been looking into the Bible, and reading it, among other holy books. I really like Christianity. I find it to be convincing, and a beautiful religion for the most part. But I have my doubts. I've heard quite a bit about corruption in churches, even in the one my mother was raised with.

I understand what you are saying, I had the same doubt about Christianity and stayed away just about all my life.

So, this is what I'd like to know:
Can you help me resolve my doubts about this religion?
What are the things you love about Christianity?

I suggest not to look around the churches and Christians, first of all, because you will always be disappointed.

I'm also VERY interested in different proofs of God's existence. Refer me to books or summarize arguments yourself. Thank you in advance!

Well, to make a long story short, I tested God by following Jesus' teachings to see what happens, you guessed it, Jesus proved He is right, it is just amazing how my life turned around for good. Now He got me as life long faithful servant. I always urge people to give Jesus the benefit of the doubt and try to follow Everything that Jesus teaches and see what happens. If they are truly seeking the truth and meaning of life, they will start to follow Jesus after this test.

God bless you richly in seeking the meaning of life.

in Christ
 
The reason that I am a Christian is because of what God has done in and through my life, and the lives of others.

Examples from my own life
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God predicts the future
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One morning I got up and walked into the hall and I heard a voice say to me "How would you like to be stabbed in the valley?" It made me afraid as I had planned to go down to the valley to ask people out to church. I decided to go any way. I walked up to the first person I met and asked him out to church. He said to me "I am an athiest I don't believe in God". I just said "fine", but hoped to change his mind. He then proceeded to un button his shirt and showed me scar marks up and down his body. He said to me "I was attacked by a knife wielding man in the valley some time ago and spent months recovering in hospital, that is why I don't believe in God." So I knew why God had asked me "How would I like to be stabbed?" He was letting me know he understood this man. It was a few weeks latter that this man came out to church and became a Christian.

God directs me in the right course of action
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There was a time where I considered taking a company to court over continually sending me pornographic material which I had not asked for. But I felt a bit bad about it, thinking what if it gave them the wrong picture of who God was. So I prayed about it, and asked God to give me an answer. Latter that day I opened my bible to a random verse (i.e. not looking) and it opened to "It is wrong for you to take law suits one against another, why not rather let your self be defrauded", so I knew God was saying "do not have the law suit".
 
Adullam said:
We won't get the right answers until we get the questions right.

Ain't that the truth :)

Ask God to help you in your quest. Ask Him to cause you to ask the right questions and He will.

Psa 119:10 With my whole heart have I sought thee: Oh let me not wander from thy commandments.
Psa 119:11 Thy word have I laid up in my heart, That I might not sin against thee.
Psa 119:12 Blessed art thou, O Jehovah: Teach me thy statutes.
 
zumark said:
I wasn't raised Christian. I was never baptised, I've never set foot in a church for service. Sure, we celebrated holidays, but only the commercial aspects of them. Lately, though, I've been looking into the Bible, and reading it, among other holy books. I really like Christianity. I find it to be convincing, and a beautiful religion for the most part. But I have my doubts. I've heard quite a bit about corruption in churches, even in the one my mother was raised with.

So, this is what I'd like to know:
Can you help me resolve my doubts about this religion?
What are the things you love about Christianity?

I'm also VERY interested in different proofs of God's existence. Refer me to books or summarize arguments yourself. Thank you in advance!

1. Try to answer this: Why, as of late, do you think you're looking into the Bible? What is it you're hoping to find?

2. Why, so far, do you "really like Christianity"?

3. Corruption in churches.....One of the biggest turn-offs of the newly saved and those seeking salvation. Before you get too discouraged, remember that we are ALL men and are sinners. The only perfect man was nailed to a cross. You will "get out" of the Lord's "relationship" only that which you put into it, and you cannot depend on another man to get you there (if that makes sense).

4. Your "proof" will develope with your own faith. I can "feel" God, but I don't have a picture of Him.

5. No one will truly be able to help you resolve doubts about Christianity (at least, no man will be able to). Like my Pastor says, "If I can talk you into it, I can talk you out of it, too".

What are the things you love about Christianity?
Aahh, that's an easier one!
First, I realized I was a sinner (I still am) and wanted to repent from sin. I accepted Jesus Christ as my Lord and saviour, and when baptized, I was truly also baptized with the Holy Spirit! Amen!
I cannot put into writing the awesome power of having this very real, almost tangible, fellowship and service with God through His Son, Jesus Christ. I am a living testimony to the real power of God's gracious gift of the Holy Spirit! IMO, anyone stating that there's no such thing.....well, they've never been truly re-born!
MY evidence: I no longer feel lust toward other women. I no longer curse. I read scripture most every day. I honestly see each new day as another day I've been granted to justify myself by faith in Jesus Christ....and as another day to love my neighbor, as I had neglected this for quite some time.....
 
zumark said:
I wasn't raised Christian. I was never baptised, I've never set foot in a church for service. Sure, we celebrated holidays, but only the commercial aspects of them. Lately, though, I've been looking into the Bible, and reading it, among other holy books. I really like Christianity. I find it to be convincing, and a beautiful religion for the most part. But I have my doubts. I've heard quite a bit about corruption in churches, even in the one my mother was raised with.

So, this is what I'd like to know:
Can you help me resolve my doubts about this religion?
What are the things you love about Christianity?

I'm also VERY interested in different proofs of God's existence. Refer me to books or summarize arguments yourself. Thank you in advance!

Seeing this is a matter between you and God, my advice would be that you never ask a man to guide you, but go directly to the Source. Ask God these questions and wait. He is alive and He is the One calling you, so He will be the One, who will guide you. The Bible is His Word and just open the New Testament and start reading. Do not worry too much at this time about the "correct translation", just grab an easy to read like the American Standard or the KJV if you can understand the heavy English LOL and ask God to guide you into truth. Read and read and read and ask and ask and ask. :) Do not trust men and the opinions of men with your eternity. Only trust God and what is written His Word.

Men will "guide " you away from the truth as it is written and you might land up believing what they believe and you do not want that, do you? Many things you will read will seem "unreal" and men will tell you why you cannot believe it, as it is written. Just smile and go back to your reading and BELIEVE what you read. Soon God will open your eyes more and more, if you stick to this and not allow men to misguide you away from His truth.

blessings
Cornelius
 
................or you can join a denomination and believe what they believe.......or another one and believe what they believe and sink into religion .

That is the second way and the long road that you will get stuck in like most,....... and never be able to get out.

The church is "outside the church" and can be found by those who ask God to lead them to it.
 
Hi Zumark, that you are asking that question, "why should I become a Christian?" tells me immediately that God is even now whispering in your ear, "turn to Me". Why? That you may live forever, and not die. That is the bottom line. That you may be forgiven of your sins through Jesus Who died on your behalf on Calvary. And if you should accept God's offer of forgiveness through His Son, then you will be born again to a new life.

I was raised in a church and educated within the church system. I always believed in God as far back as I can remember, I have never had doubts as to His existence. But it wasn't until I was 23 years old that someone asked me, "Do you believe God would approve of your present lifestyle ?'" At that time I was heavily into the dope, alcohol, and generally living an utterly self-gratifying life with little or no thought for others, yet I was completely unsatisfied with what I was doing. That very night after being asked that question, I lay in my bed and asked God to forgive me for living such a life that wasn't in any way shape or form up to His standard. I asked Him to change it around, to change my attitude, to give me a new direction. I wasn't looking for a 'crutch' as so many people believe Christianity to be, I needed a heart transplant. And God heard me. Immediately, I sensed the presence of Jesus Himself in that room with me; I knew for the very first time in my life that Someone loved me unconditionally and accepted me just as I was.
God had introduced Himself to me and He has never left me since.
God will do the same for you. He promises in the Bible to make Himself known to any one who calls upon His name.
He says Jer 29:13 And ye shall seek me, and find me, when ye shall search for me with all your heart.

Put that promise to the test. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain.
God bless.
 
zumark said:
I wasn't raised Christian. I was never baptised, I've never set foot in a church for service. Sure, we celebrated holidays, but only the commercial aspects of them. Lately, though, I've been looking into the Bible, and reading it, among other holy books. I really like Christianity. I find it to be convincing, and a beautiful religion for the most part. But I have my doubts. I've heard quite a bit about corruption in churches, even in the one my mother was raised with.

So, this is what I'd like to know:
Can you help me resolve my doubts about this religion?
What are the things you love about Christianity?

I'm also VERY interested in different proofs of God's existence. Refer me to books or summarize arguments yourself. Thank you in advance!

Firstly, resolving your doubts either now or in the future is impossible to guarantee. Proof and persuasion are, by their very nature, person specific and subjective. Only God and you , and maybe not even you, know exactly what it might take to persuade you of a given doctrine such that your doubts are resolved.

But for any Christian, being used of God to provide information to you which eventually do help to resolve your doubts is a great honor.

I love many things about Christianity.. God the Father, Jesus the Son of God, the Holy Spirit... the written word of God, the logical consistency of the faith, how by God you can see everything, and that without Him you can't see anything, the archeological proofs for the scriptures, the way it points us to the only truth and the only way we can then actually know that truth etc etc

As far as proofs for the existence of God, here are a few of my favorite books on apologetics:
Reasonable Faith by William Lane Craig
Scaling the Secular City by JP Moreland
Apologetics to the Glory of God by John Frame
Faith and Reason by Ron Nash
Worldviews in Conflict by Ron Nash
Handbook on Christian Apologetics by Peter Kreeft and Peter Tacelli
The Analytical Theist by Alvin Plantinga
God, Reason and Theistic Proofs by Paul Helm
Classical Apologetics by RC Sproul, John Gerstner and Arthur Lindsley

perhaps an indirect argument for God is arguing for the absurdity of life without God, this can by found in the excellent book by Ravi Zacharias called "A Shattered Visage: The Real Face of Atheism"...

these will be my very humble attempts at summarizing a few of the arguments for God's existence, but please, go on to much better sources and trained teachers to make sure I get what I am saying right....

the Cosmological Argument reminds us that all around us we see contingent beings and artifacts, eg non sentient materials in the universe.... things which exist now, but did not at one time exist... but everything that does come into being MUST have had a cause.. this is a scientific principle that seems beyond question... and so as we move back in time we see eventually we must come to a first cause of all things since actual infinities are impossible (see Craig and Moreland) and thus infinite time/infinite series of events is impossible, besides it is generally agreed by most everyone that the universe came into being a finite time ago, eg the Big Bang... but something HAD to have caused the Big Bang. The Latin phrase ex nihil nihil fit means "out of nothing, nothing comes", this seems undeniably true based on our experience and science...... so it seems pretty absurd to think that the biggest "something" of all, namely "everything that exists", all came into being out of and from nothing at all. For me, it takes more faith to believe that that all that there is came from nothing, and even more amazingly, that sentient life came into being out of non-sentient life, then it does to believe that there is an intelligent design, and thus, and Intelligent Designer who caused all things to come into being. This we call God.
The Teleological Argument is an argument from design.... just as it would absurd to walk through a field and find a watch laying there, with all it's fine gears and evidence of intelligent intentionality evident within it, and then just imagine that it just "popped" into existence right there and then, complete..... so too, the more we look at the universe in general and earth in particular, we see an incredible amount of fine tuning making human life possible... we therefore feel justified in believing that an intelligent Designer is behind all this order. An important aspect of this argument is the scientific observation called the second law of thermal dynamics which says that all matter tends towards decay and that energy is winding down in the universe.... since the universe has all this design evident within it, and since the state of things now is such that nowhere do wee things tending towards more order, or more energy being produced, we feel justified in believing that there must have been a being who had originally started the universe with all its design in an original state of order..... since high order moves towards disorder and chaos, not the reverse..... this being we call God.

I guess I should have mentioned this resource earlier, CS Lewis' book "Mere Christianity" is a masterpiece of lucidity and rationality.... while he touches on other arguments he also talks about the Moral Argument for God's existence.... that since we see in all humanity, no matter the religion, no matter the culture, basic morals we must posit a Moral Law Giver. For if evolution were true, if all man really was and is, is an animal, it is hard to account for the existence of any morality at all. Of course there are differences from culture to culture on some aspects of what is right or wrong, it might be reasonable to say that at all times and in all places it is always wrong to boil new born babies in hot peanut oil. If we are merely animals, nothing more than brains and bodies, it is hard to understand why this is the case. Something from outside of us must give all human beings this inner morality. This being we call God. (Of course there are sociopaths who seem to have no conscience at all. The fact that we find these individuals to be unusual and abhorrent shows that we have a built in morality within us that makes the moral assessment on them, that their absence of ability to act morally, their lack of conscience etc proof of the rule and that they are an exception, not the norm.)

Lastly, as far as these brief and undoubtedly overly simplistic summaries go... which are the summaries of just a layperson like you, please let me remind you :) ... is the Ontological Argument, which is an argument from "being".... it seems to me a really important aspect of this argument is to remember that a state of being is superior to a state of non-being... and that
1. God is something than which nothing greater can be thought.
2. God exists in the understanding.
3. It is greater to exist in reality and in the understanding than just in understanding.
4. Therefore, God exists in reality

It is important to remember that all these arguments have their supporters and their detractors. This has do with my earlier point of "proof" being a very very complicated and subjective process, that resolving all doubt permanently and totally might not happen. That is to say, I have personally experienced long times of certitude, but there are moments when a doubt may creep in to my mind on this or that subject, and when that happens I have tried to pursue, within my very very limited ability, the answer or a reasonable answer for my doubts. At any rate, what seems perfectly obvious to you or I might not be so for someone else. I confess I do not understand this. It is very curious. Perhaps it has something to do with the nature of sin, that because of our sinful natures what evidence there is all around us for the existence of God is obscured. In fact, this is what the bible itself says:
Psalms 19:1-4a (ESV)
1 The heavens declare the glory of God, and the sky above proclaims his handiwork.
2 Day to day pours out speech, and night to night reveals knowledge.
3 There is no speech, nor are there words, whose voice is not heard.
4 Their voice goes out through all the earth, and their words to the end of the world...."
and
Romans 1:18-20 (ESV)
18 For the wrath of God is revealed from heaven against all ungodliness and unrighteousness of men, who by their unrighteousness suppress the truth. 19 For what can be known about God is plain to them, because God has shown it to them. 20 For his invisible attributes, namely, his eternal power and divine nature, have been clearly perceived, ever since the creation of the world, in the things that have been made. So they are without excuse."
Humans are kinda like radio receivers who were inherently and originally designed to receive signals/communication from God, things like He exists... that He loves us... etc.. but because of the fall of man and all humanity being cast into a state where we are by nature, sinners, our ability to properly receive these signals.... our ability to properly perceive the evidence around us..... is so askew that we fail to acknowledge and worship God as we ought. In the end, for those who do "get their heads on straight" and see the evidence for God properly, I have to think that this only happens because of God's love, grace and mercy. God had to intervene on our accounts so that we could see God, otherwise, because of our sin, we never would see God. We would continue to "suppress the truth in unrighteousness". This "intervention" is most exemplified in the person and work of Jesus Christ.

Also, realize that when we are talking about "proof" in the realm of issues like the existence of God, we will not have the kind of proof that we might have for a statement like 2+2=4, eg mathematical certainty. The existence of God is a "metaphysical" discussion, not a mathematical. There are basically 2 types of proof outside of mathematic proof, eg deductive and inductive. Deductive reasoning provides what most would call absolute certainty, though of course you can always find someone somewhere who would disagree with even this. A deductive argument says something like "All men are mortal. Socrates is a man. Therefore, Socrates is mortal.". So a Deductive argument says that If.... IF... the premise (in this case the premise is "All men are mortal") is true, then what follows (the conclusion to the syllogism) MUST NECESSARILY be true. But there precious few truths in our everyday lives that are dependent upon deductive reasoning. Inductive reasoning then, is reasoning towards what is taken to probably be true, based on statistical inference. This is basically the scientific model. We can say that if something occurs under a certain set of particular circumstances, and that repeatedly, this event continues to occur, then, more than likely, it will continue to occur. There MAY be an instance where it might not occur, one cannot with absolute certainty know whether this be the case or not, for the only way to do this would be to continue to do the same thing over and over under the exact same set of circumstances for all eternity in order to see if this is the case. Incidentally, this is a very important reason that science can never dogmatically assert the proposition "God does not exist" as being true based on some type of scientific reasoning. What experiment could one ever set up to prove, scientifically, that this is the case... that God does not exist? Science by its very nature can only speak to, well, nature. It simply cannot answer non-physical or metaphysical inquiries.
Well I hope this helps you... I certainly help this response will not be a source for further confusion!!! :) If I may help you in any other way, or try to clarify something I have already said, I will try...

blessings,
ken
 
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You say you attended church as a youngster, was it Protestant? Catholic?

Thanks,
turnorburn
 
turnorburn said:
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You say you attended church as a youngster, was it Protestant? Catholic?

Thanks,
turnorburn
Hey ummmmm, I am not sure if you are questioning me or not, because Zumark never mentioned church as a youngster but I did, so I will answer. Forgive my presumption if I am wrong.

I was raised Catholic. (I am no longer).
 
zumark said:
I wasn't raised Christian. I was never baptised, I've never set foot in a church for service. Sure, we celebrated holidays, but only the commercial aspects of them. Lately, though, I've been looking into the Bible, and reading it, among other holy books. I really like Christianity. I find it to be convincing, and a beautiful religion for the most part. But I have my doubts. I've heard quite a bit about corruption in churches, even in the one my mother was raised with.

I probably can speak for some when I say that it's a wonderful thing that you do like Christianity. What is it about Christianity that you do like personally?

As far as corruption in churches is concerned, humans are not infallible. But just as there are people with "dark" hearts, there are those that do have a light inside them and wish to impact the world positively.

zumark said:
So, this is what I'd like to know:
Can you help me resolve my doubts about this religion?

I'm not sure how much I can offer here, but I know that it really does come down to a personal choice. God doesn't need to force anyone to love Him, but we grow closer to God as we really seek a relationship with God. As you grow to understand why you personally believe in what you believe, I am more than certain your eyes will continue to open to the peace that can be found in understanding God's love.

zumark said:
What are the things you love about Christianity?
The peace and humility that goes along with it are among the things i love about Christianity. I'll have to add on more when I get a bit more time.

zumark said:
I'm also VERY interested in different proofs of God's existence. Refer me to books or summarize arguments yourself. Thank you in advance!

This is where things personally get tricky for me. As far as proving God's existence to be true, there are certain facets of that which will end up outside the realm of logic. This is especially more common depending on one's definition of God. However, I personally believe do to personal experience that unfortunately does not lend itself well to empirical, or tangible evidence that can be displayed to convince another. So, where some may see it as a strong, intuitive hunch, my own experiences make God as real to me as the monitor you're reading this response on.
 
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