Edward
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- Sep 18, 2012
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It dont worry me who gives what and how much, its not my business, you could give 100%. I just have compassion some people are blind and giving to the wrong person who is really a thief.wrong
Amen Brother (and welcome!). When I was married, my wife did not like for me to give to the church. She said that we'd probably just be making a payment on the pastors Cadillac. I understand the concern about the money may be misused and go to really help the poor...but is that really our business? We're not there to judge the pastor. If the man does misuse the money...that's between him and God, isn't it? That we made the tithe or offering is the main responsibility for us and not to be distracted by the trying to find an honest church etc..
Does that make sense brother?
Nevertheless, my wife does have a good heart and wouldn't hesitate to give to people directly on the street who clearly needed it.
One time we were driving and she suddenly started to turn around. She had seen a man walking in bare feet and it was pretty cold out. She bought the man a pair of shoes and socks and he was ecstatic about it.
I saw that as just as good as putting it in the church plate.
One time I seen a girl standing with a sign so pulled over and waved a bill at her and she came over and got it. As I drove away I saw in my mirror her wave the BF over and he came scootin' up on his bike and took the money. I was slightly disgruntled at that. Where I thought I was helping a (probable) single mother, I saw the money go to a young man who looked totally capable of working. So there's no hard and fast safety in going directly to the street and giving, that might be a scam too.
So give how you are comfortable giving, but don't let the potential dishonesty in the world stop you from giving altogether.