Hi
WhiskeyNovember and welcome to CF
I do not know of any good books, but sure there are plenty. Do you have a Christian book store near you as they might have books on Christian dating, or maybe try google and find reviews on certain books you find. I will give you some scripture that you can consider. Most important is that you pray and ask God to send you a Godly woman that is right for you and He will in His timing.
The Temple of the Living God
2Co 6:14 Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?
2Co 6:15 And what concord hath Christ with Belial? or what part hath he that believeth with an infidel?
2Co 6:16 And what agreement hath the temple of God with idols? for ye are the temple of the living God; as God hath said, I will dwell in them, and walk in them; and I will be their God, and they shall be my people.
2Co 6:17 Wherefore come out from among them, and be ye separate, saith the Lord, and touch not the unclean thing; and I will receive you,
2Co 6:18 And will be a Father unto you, and ye shall be my sons and daughters, saith the Lord Almighty.