Well ezra, I agree with much you are saying, but the believer is "two" men. Old man of flesh which has the element and source of sin. New man, spirit, "New Creation" created in Christ Jesus in righteousness and true holiness.
Much of our debates and conflicts come because I see myself and other believers as this New Spiritual Man. I feed this truth and those that worship God in spirit, and have no confidence in the flesh. Not all can relate to what I am saying or teaching, thats ok! I am speaking not to those who see themselves as fleshly, but to those who see themselves as spiritual IN CHRIST.
Now I believe you are a honest and sincere man, I believe God has many rewards for your service and His love for you cannot be challenged. But just as Paul withstood Peter I know what I believe, why I believe it and that I was taught by the Spirit of truth. I do not yield nor can I be moved. I would like to find as much common ground with you as I can, but that is up to you. { I see myself and other believers as this New Spiritual Man.} i am a spiritual man/ new creation in Christ.. but the old man has tendencies to show up and act up God gave us a choice and he given us that power to make that choice of RIGHT and live the RIGHT WAY. when the no no button is pushed anger temptation etc... i must make the Choice the use the power given me to live a sanctified life. but like every one else at times i fail to make the right Choice.. as Paul wrote o wretched man am i .. declare the whole council ..not pick the part we like....:yes
Point blank John said IN HIM, WE HAVE NO SIN AND CANNOT SIN, BECUASE HIS SEED REMAINS IN US.
now only I have ever explained to you this truth, you may not like that it comes from me? But be humble as you teach and ask of others.l