Veritas said:
I just don't think this parable is teaching our path to salvation.
It's not.
John 3:16
For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
John 3:17
For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved.
John 3:18
He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God.
John 14:6
Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.
I seriously doubt anyone can love their neighbor as themselves without fail, the heart just won't allow that to happen. Somewhere, someplace one will mess up, maybe not in deed but in heart.
Matthew 16:24 Then said Jesus unto his disciples,
If any man will come after me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross, and follow me.
And how do I deny myself?
Romans 7:18 For I know that in me (that is, in my flesh,) dwelleth no good thing: for to will is present with me; but how to perform that which is good I find not.
Romans 7:19 For the good that I would I do not: but the evil which I would not, that I do.
Romans 7:20 Now if I do that I would not, it is no more I that do it, but sin that dwelleth in me.
Romans 7:21 I find then a law, that, when I would do good, evil is present with me.
Romans 7:22 For I delight in the law of God after the inward man:
Romans 7:23 But I see another law in my members, warring against the law of my mind, and bringing me into captivity to the law of sin which is in my members.
Romans 7:24 O wretched man that I am! who shall deliver me from the body of this death?
Romans 7:25 I thank God through Jesus Christ our Lord. So then with the mind I myself serve the law of God; but with the flesh the law of sin.
So, can I really love my neighbor as I love myself for the rest of my life without err? I seriously doubt that.
1Corinthians 15:31 I protest by your rejoicing which I have in Christ Jesus our Lord, I die daily.
As the Jews could not follow the law nor can we. Even Paul struggled with sin. If we could truly and absolutely love our neighbors as ourselves then indeed we become like Him but that's not going to happen while we are still in the body.
Does that mean I should toss the command to love my neighbor simply because I can't do it always? Of course not. I can absolutely allow the principle to help guide my ways. Will I fail? Yes. Will I abandon the principle? No. Can I learn from the mistakes? I'd be a fool if I don't.
If we look to ourselves, inwardly, for guidance then our focus is in the wrong direction. We need to focus outside ourselves toward Christ and what He did on the cross. As Peter walked on water focusing on Christ but sank when he took His eyes from Him and "saw the wind boisterous, he was afraid" so shall we sink if we do the same.