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Abandon Ship!

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Acts 27:43-44 But the centurion... commanded that those who could swim should jump overboard first and get to land, and the rest, some on boards and some on parts of the ship.

When should you leave your church? Your Bible college? Your denomination? Any Christian ministry?

The accusation about rats deserting a sinking ship is not found in the Scriptures, but shouldn't you be loyal to a failing ministry? Or should you blame everything on the leader and go elsewhere? Is it your fault? Should you be a church-hopper? For the sake of your children, should you go to the best church possible, even if that means leaving your own church?

The centurion made the right decision. Can you?
 
Who you calling rats ?! :rollingpin


Why do I get the feeling that "Former Christian" is going to love this thread ? :chin


Oh well, where I live, our churches are either Catholic or non-Catholic. We care less about Protestant denominations and no church is perfect anyway.
 
When should you leave your church? Your Bible college? Your denomination? Any Christian ministry?
When it no longer represents the voice of God to minister to the needs of the body of Christ.


The accusation about rats deserting a sinking ship is not found in the Scriptures, but shouldn't you be loyal to a failing ministry?
Depends on why it's failing. If God's blessing and anointing has left it because of a rejection of the truth...so should you.


Or should you blame everything on the leader and go elsewhere?
If you yourself have a pure desire and motivation to seek God then there is no reason to resist blaming leaders who aren't following through on God's plan and purpose for churches to feed and develop the body of Christ.


Should you be a church-hopper?
If it takes 'church hopping' to find a church where the Spirit of God is ministering to his people, then so be it!


For the sake of your children, should you go to the best church possible, even if that means leaving your own church?
If you can't help in making the church you are presently attending the best possible for you, then, yes.


The centurion made the right decision. Can you?
Don't be afraid to only go where the Spirit of God is. I personally don't believe in blind allegiances to churches and ministries. God gave us discernment to know when we're hearing truth and when we're not. Use it.
 
Acts 27:43-44 But the centurion... commanded that those who could swim should jump overboard first and get to land, and the rest, some on boards and some on parts of the ship.

When should you leave your church? Your Bible college? Your denomination? Any Christian ministry?

The accusation about rats deserting a sinking ship is not found in the Scriptures, but shouldn't you be loyal to a failing ministry? Or should you blame everything on the leader and go elsewhere? Is it your fault? Should you be a church-hopper? For the sake of your children, should you go to the best church possible, even if that means leaving your own church?

The centurion made the right decision. Can you?

I think we should be free to worship wherever we wish.

Having said that, there are no perfect churches. I love my church because it is supportive. If I think my church could behave better, I think it’s better I stick around and try to set a good example for them, than to leave.
 
Tina

Why Tina, I didn't know you cared. LOL

I'm afraid you've misjudged me. This is an inner Christianity matter. Has nothing to do with me. I'm a former Christian because I realize the true nature of Christianity. This thread concerns those who still have faith in, and think of themselves as a part of, Christianity.

But thanks for thinking of me anyway.

FC
 
I'm a former Christian because I realize the true nature of Christianity. This thread concerns those who still have faith in, and think of themselves as a part of, Christianity.
You need to start hanging around real Christians. They really do exist. And they meet in churches. And they are zealous for the name 'Christian'.

I realized immediately after getting saved that there is the church of the world and there is the true Church of Jesus Christ. I grew up in the church of the world. Then I discovered and started fellowshipping with the real church after I got saved. Sadly, many people stay in the church of the world after getting saved.

You surrendered Christianity up to the world too soon. Stop measuring Christianity by those who misrepresent it and come back to your senses and find some real Christians who know the truth to hang around with and who are worthy by the grace of God to be called 'Christian'. Don't be afraid to "praise God that you bear that name (Christian)" (1 Peter 4:16 NIV1984).

Abandon a church that doesn't represent Christ properly...don't abandon Christianity!
 
Good Heavens, I hit the bull's eye with this thread.
 
Acts 27:2 And now I urge you to take heart, for there will be no loss of life among you, but only of the ship.

When I was moderating a forum for "Battered Sheep," we had people write in that their pastor was abusive, but they could not leave the church or they would lose their salvation. Here, Paul assures the sailors that they will not perish, even though the ship itself will be destroyed.

Churches, denominations, colleges, movements, and ministries come and go, but a person who genuinely trusts Jesus Christ as Savior cannot perish. A born-again Christian will not lose his salvation if he abandons a sinking ship. Jesus promised that no man can take you out of His hand, and no man can take you out of His Father's hand. You do not need to fear the threats of men.
 
When it no longer represents the voice of God to minister to the needs of the body of Christ.



Depends on why it's failing. If God's blessing and anointing has left it because of a rejection of the truth...so should you.



If you yourself have a pure desire and motivation to seek God then there is no reason to resist blaming leaders who aren't following through on God's plan and purpose for churches to feed and develop the body of Christ.



If it takes 'church hopping' to find a church where the Spirit of God is ministering to his people, then so be it!



If you can't help in making the church you are presently attending the best possible for you, then, yes.



Don't be afraid to only go where the Spirit of God is. I personally don't believe in blind allegiances to churches and ministries. God gave us discernment to know when we're hearing truth and when we're not. Use it.

Very well put Jethro as I could not add much more to what you have already said except these are the very reasons I do not attend any Church right now where I live even though there is one on every corner.
 
Jethro Bodine

There’s no overt indication you’ll ever be open minded enough to understand the view I present. Perhaps God will see fit to change that.

FC
 
Jethro Bodine

There’s no overt indication you’ll ever be open minded enough to understand the view I present. Perhaps God will see fit to change that.

FC
You have made a very serious mistake of judgment by deciding you're abandoning 'Christianity' and, inevitably, influencing others to do the same. There are still those of us who do represent it accurately and until the last of us is gone you have no right to decide that Christianity has a new definition and can now, therefore, turn it over to the dogs. None whatsoever.

"...if you suffer as a Christian, do not be ashamed, but praise God that you bear that name." (1 Peter 4:16 NIV1984)

You are doing more harm to the cause of Christ than any good you think you may be doing. What you should be doing is helping people understand what the true defining beliefs and lifestyle of the 'Christian' is, not letting pagans have it and redefine it. You have made a very, very serious error. You're grinding an ax against those who have offended you and failed the name of Christ, but at the expense of the good name of Christ and his true followers.
 
Very well put Jethro as I could not add much more to what you have already said except these are the very reasons I do not attend any Church right now where I live even though there is one on every corner.
I live in the Bible belt and am in period of spiritual change and transition myself. Don't know what to do just yet. My church is transitioning toward a more evangelistic ministry (as opposed to a 'church' for all of God's people in their various stations of faith and development) and I'm not sure where I'm going to fit in.
 
Good Heavens, I hit the bull's eye with this thread.
Yes, I guess you did, lol.

While it's true we are indeed free to attend or not attend any one church, the decision to leave a church you have become connected to should not be made flippantly or without careful consideration.
 
What does Inspiration say??:study

John 10

[14] I am the good shepherd, and know my sheep, and am known of mine.
[15] As the Father knoweth me, even so know I the Father: and I lay down my life for the sheep.

(that seems clear? yet, the next verse tell's of another 'fold' (ship?) where Christ is not located, if He were there, why must they leave? and if He is not there, who is the 'ships captain'??)

[16] And [[other sheep I have]], which are not of this fold: them also I must bring, and they shall hear my voice; and there shall be one fold, and one shepherd.

And according to Eccl. 3:15 the Lords WORD says that there is NOTHING NEW.
And in Rev. 18 we find that Christ has His 'MY PEOPLE' who must make a DECISION that is Eternal Life threatening!

[4] And I heard another voice from heaven, saying, Come out of her, my people, that ye be not partakers of her sins, and that ye receive not of her plagues.
[5]
For her sins have reached unto heaven, and God hath remembered her iniquities.

Christ's Word is that there are 'His People' who [[will abandon the sinking 'c'hrist/less ship]] & will not [[be PARTAKERS of their open documented sins!]]
Even note in Isa. 5 with His very own fold, and what He tell's them!

[1] Now will I sing to my wellbeloved a song of my beloved touching his vineyard. My wellbeloved hath a vineyard in a very fruitful hill:
[2] And he fenced it, and gathered out the stones thereof, and planted it with the choicest vine, and built a tower in the midst of it, and also made a winepress therein: and he looked that it should bring forth grapes, and it brought forth wild grapes.

(Now note Christs message!:study)
[3] And now, O inhabitants of Jerusalem, and men of Judah, [[judge, I pray you, **betwixt** me and my vineyard]].

Did you get that?? So who did they choose & WHY?? This is told us in John 12:42-43. See if you can catch what the 'SINKING SHIP'S occupants CHOSE'??

[40] He hath blinded their eyes, and hardened their heart; that they should not see with their eyes, nor understand with their heart, and be converted, and I should heal them.
[41] These things said Esaias, when he saw his glory, and spake of him.


[42] Nevertheless among the chief rulers also [[many believed on him]]; but because of the Pharisees they did not confess him, lest they should be put out of the synagogue:

(the sinking ship! the Desolate HOUSE (Matt. 23:38 or Spewed out Laodicea Rev. 3:9 & verse 16 ibid, with the reason of their free/choice!)

[43] For [[they loved the praise of men more than the praise of God]].:(

--Elijah

 
Acts 27:9-10 ... Paul advised them, saying, "Men, I perceive that this voyage will end with disaster and much loss, not only of the cargo and ship, but also our lives."

One of the most painful lessons I have learned in Mexico is that when successful soul-winners won't touch a certain ministry, it is better to stay away from it. When someone starts a ministry and no local fundamental church will support it, it is better to be careful.

Sometimes, you need to abandon a ministry because you should never have gotten involved in the first place.
 
Jethro Bodine

You have made a very serious mistake of judgment by deciding you're abandoning 'Christianity' and, inevitably, influencing others to do the same. There are still those of us who do represent it accurately and until the last of us is gone you have no right to decide that Christianity has a new definition and can now, therefore, turn it over to the dogs. None whatsoever.

Thou protests too much.

You fail to see the difference between abandonment and realization. If I had said it differently, making it a distinction between true Christianity and false Christianity as you do, you would have jumped on that bandwagon. Providing I agreed with you as to the nature of true Christianity. You said, “There are still those of us who do represent it accuratelyâ€. Implying that you represent true Christianity. That remains to be seen.

You give me more credit than I deserve. I have influenced no one to do anything so far as I know. I do not, indeed, can not, bring up in real life anything I’ve said on this forum. If for no other reason than I’d have to find another Christian Church to attend. Eventually one runs out of Churches. I hope you can at least distinguish the difference between real life and a forum.

I did not decide on a new definition of Christianity.

Christianity “the religion based on the person and teachings of Jesus of Nazareth, or its beliefs and practices.†(Oxford Dictionary) “A monotheistic system of beliefs and practices based on the Old Testament and the teachings of Jesus as embodied in the New Testament and emphasizing the role of Jesus as savior; The collective body of Christians throughout the world and history (found predominantly in Europe and the Americas and Australia)â€. (WordWeb)

That seems to about cover it. I agree with the definitions of both dictionaries. You’re the one who would redefine Christianity to suit your own meaning, as one who is “accurately representing†Christianity. Christianity is far more comprehensive than your narrow definition of just those who agree with you as to who’s accurately representing Christianity. Roman Catholics claim to be the True Church. And by so doing they are saying that they are the ones who are accurately representing Christianity. You’re doing the same thing as the Catholics. And the Jehovah’s Witnesses, and the Mormons, and any other Christian denomination that thinks it’s accurately representing Christianity.

"...if you suffer as a Christian, do not be ashamed, but praise God that you bear that name." (1 Peter 4:16 NIV1984)

1Peter 4:15 If you suffer, it should not be as a murderer or thief or any other kind of criminal, or even as a meddler.

Why is it so hard for you to understand that verse in its context? Peter was contrasting two different reasons to suffer. The contrast is between suffering for evil doing and suffering for following a name associated with Jesus of Nazareth. I agree with Peter. If one suffers as a Christian, that’s no reason to be ashamed. Not because of what Christianity is or isn’t, but because of what non-Christians think Christianity is. Not because of what being a Christian is or isn’t, but because of what non-Christians think being a Christian is. And believe you me, neither you nor I could ever live up to their ideal.

You are doing more harm to the cause of Christ than any good you think you may be doing.

I’m harming the cause of Christ because I claim that Christianity is a man-made religion and denominational in character? Or is it Christianity that’s harming the cause of Christ because it can’t change its nature? What harms the cause of Christ the most is ignorance. For whatever reason that ignorance exists. It’s THE truth that sets us free, not your truth, nor my truth.

What you should be doing is helping people understand what the true defining beliefs and lifestyle of the 'Christian' is, not letting pagans have it and redefine it.

By saying that, you obviously don’t think that I’m helping people understand what the true defining beliefs and lifestyle of the 'Christian' Based on what? What I claim Christianity to be? Or what you, as one who represents true Christianity, claims Christianity to be? My emphasis has always been that Christians, “real Christians†as you would define them, should express the supernatural they believe in, rather than the natural that they are expressing now. And on the bible being understood supernaturally, rather than naturally through a practice of biblical interpretation. And on walking by the Spirit, rather than being made perfect by the flesh. I suppose to you these don’t count because of your antipathy toward the idea that Christianity perhaps isn’t all you think it is. That Christianity is what it is because of Christians. All of them. Not just the ones who don’t agree with you. Christianity isn’t an entity of its own with its own life. The life of Christianity is what you see within it. That includes you. It also includes the gay Christians. Welcome to the real world.

By definition, Christianity is one community. One community divided into many sub-communities called denominations. And the sub-communities you approve of isn’t all there is.

You have made a very, very serious error. You're grinding an ax against those who have offended you and failed the name of Christ, but at the expense of the good name of Christ and his true followers.

No one has offended me. No one is free of offending the name of Christ. Not you, not I. Try to at least make a half an effort to understand that. I will not be defined by your terms.

I count myself one with Christians who realize that they are sinners, saved sinners, sinners that are still struggling with the sin within them. Christians who have a sense of their own sinfulness. Do you think you’re perfect now that you’re a Christian? That I should follow you? If you’re the true representative of Christianity as you claim, then you should know that the only one a “true Christian†should follow is Jesus Christ. In the view I present, that’s very basic to expressing the supernatural.

I live in the Bible belt and am in period of spiritual change and transition myself. Don't know what to do just yet. My church is transitioning toward a more evangelistic ministry (as opposed to a 'church' for all of God's people in their various stations of faith and development) and I'm not sure where I'm going to fit in

Why don’t you try fitting in where you are? Here you are judging me for abandonment, when you’re getting ready to do the same thing. What do you think that’s doing for the cause of Christ? And don’t deceive yourself into thinking your situation is nothing like mine. You’ll only hurt yourself.

While it's true we are indeed free to attend or not attend any one church, the decision to leave a church you have become connected to should not be made flippantly or without careful consideration.

Now that at least is something I can agree with. When I made the decision to become a former Christian, it wasn’t just off the top of my head. There was an important decision to make, and I eventually made it. After that I had to make a decision as to how I was going to fulfill the requirement of community, in view of the fact that the meetings of Christianity Churches are all that exist today. I eventually chose a particular Christian Church to attend for that particular purpose. It doesn’t conform to my own understanding of how things are supposed to be. Anymore than any other Christian Church. Nor am I conforming to their understanding of how things are supposed to be. But I will not leave it just because it doesn’t come up to my standards. Unless a true expression of the meetings of the ekklesia begins to exist. I see no reason to believe that will happen in my lifetime. Historically, it’s a rare occurrence for the same reason Christianity continues to exist in all its denominational splendor. Human nature.


Mt 7:2 For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.

I’ve seen you use that verse on others. Can you apply it to yourself?

FC
 
Jethro Bodine



Thou protests too much.

You fail to see the difference between abandonment and realization. If I had said it differently, making it a distinction between true Christianity and false Christianity as you do, you would have jumped on that bandwagon. Providing I agreed with you as to the nature of true Christianity. You said, “There are still those of us who do represent it accuratelyâ€. Implying that you represent true Christianity. That remains to be seen.

You give me more credit than I deserve. I have influenced no one to do anything so far as I know. I do not, indeed, can not, bring up in real life anything I’ve said on this forum. If for no other reason than I’d have to find another Christian Church to attend. Eventually one runs out of Churches. I hope you can at least distinguish the difference between real life and a forum.

I did not decide on a new definition of Christianity.

Christianity “the religion based on the person and teachings of Jesus of Nazareth, or its beliefs and practices.†(Oxford Dictionary) “A monotheistic system of beliefs and practices based on the Old Testament and the teachings of Jesus as embodied in the New Testament and emphasizing the role of Jesus as savior; The collective body of Christians throughout the world and history (found predominantly in Europe and the Americas and Australia)â€. (WordWeb)

That seems to about cover it. I agree with the definitions of both dictionaries. You’re the one who would redefine Christianity to suit your own meaning, as one who is “accurately representing†Christianity. Christianity is far more comprehensive than your narrow definition of just those who agree with you as to who’s accurately representing Christianity. Roman Catholics claim to be the True Church. And by so doing they are saying that they are the ones who are accurately representing Christianity. You’re doing the same thing as the Catholics. And the Jehovah’s Witnesses, and the Mormons, and any other Christian denomination that thinks it’s accurately representing Christianity.


1Peter 4:15 If you suffer, it should not be as a murderer or thief or any other kind of criminal, or even as a meddler.

Why is it so hard for you to understand that verse in its context? Peter was contrasting two different reasons to suffer. The contrast is between suffering for evil doing and suffering for following a name associated with Jesus of Nazareth. I agree with Peter. If one suffers as a Christian, that’s no reason to be ashamed. Not because of what Christianity is or isn’t, but because of what non-Christians think Christianity is. Not because of what being a Christian is or isn’t, but because of what non-Christians think being a Christian is. And believe you me, neither you nor I could ever live up to their ideal.


I’m harming the cause of Christ because I claim that Christianity is a man-made religion and denominational in character? Or is it Christianity that’s harming the cause of Christ because it can’t change its nature? What harms the cause of Christ the most is ignorance. For whatever reason that ignorance exists. It’s THE truth that sets us free, not your truth, nor my truth.


By saying that, you obviously don’t think that I’m helping people understand what the true defining beliefs and lifestyle of the 'Christian' Based on what? What I claim Christianity to be? Or what you, as one who represents true Christianity, claims Christianity to be? My emphasis has always been that Christians, “real Christians†as you would define them, should express the supernatural they believe in, rather than the natural that they are expressing now. And on the bible being understood supernaturally, rather than naturally through a practice of biblical interpretation. And on walking by the Spirit, rather than being made perfect by the flesh. I suppose to you these don’t count because of your antipathy toward the idea that Christianity perhaps isn’t all you think it is. That Christianity is what it is because of Christians. All of them. Not just the ones who don’t agree with you. Christianity isn’t an entity of its own with its own life. The life of Christianity is what you see within it. That includes you. It also includes the gay Christians. Welcome to the real world.

By definition, Christianity is one community. One community divided into many sub-communities called denominations. And the sub-communities you approve of isn’t all there is.


No one has offended me. No one is free of offending the name of Christ. Not you, not I. Try to at least make a half an effort to understand that. I will not be defined by your terms.

I count myself one with Christians who realize that they are sinners, saved sinners, sinners that are still struggling with the sin within them. Christians who have a sense of their own sinfulness. Do you think you’re perfect now that you’re a Christian? That I should follow you? If you’re the true representative of Christianity as you claim, then you should know that the only one a “true Christian†should follow is Jesus Christ. In the view I present, that’s very basic to expressing the supernatural.


Why don’t you try fitting in where you are? Here you are judging me for abandonment, when you’re getting ready to do the same thing. What do you think that’s doing for the cause of Christ? And don’t deceive yourself into thinking your situation is nothing like mine. You’ll only hurt yourself.


Now that at least is something I can agree with. When I made the decision to become a former Christian, it wasn’t just off the top of my head. There was an important decision to make, and I eventually made it. After that I had to make a decision as to how I was going to fulfill the requirement of community, in view of the fact that the meetings of Christianity Churches are all that exist today. I eventually chose a particular Christian Church to attend for that particular purpose. It doesn’t conform to my own understanding of how things are supposed to be. Anymore than any other Christian Church. Nor am I conforming to their understanding of how things are supposed to be. But I will not leave it just because it doesn’t come up to my standards. Unless a true expression of the meetings of the ekklesia begins to exist. I see no reason to believe that will happen in my lifetime. Historically, it’s a rare occurrence for the same reason Christianity continues to exist in all its denominational splendor. Human nature.


Mt 7:2 For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.

I’ve seen you use that verse on others. Can you apply it to yourself?

FC



These ones tire me out!;)
If one could read even on the surface of Matt. 10:5-6 they would find that the only ones that were saved from Chris'st ex/ship {{{FOLD]] were the ones that followed Him [[[OUT!]]] (Matt. 25) And it were these ones from Matt. 10:5-6 on to verse 15 who STARTED UP THE EXTENDED VIRGIN FOLD OF ACTS!

Still friend these cannot understand what has been said of Christ! Try it this way??? When Christ was put out of His ex/fold, who took over as their leader? OK: Whose church was it now??? In other words, who was Christs extended Church in ACTS made up of, the ones who left, or the ones who stayed put to become the synagogue of satan?? Rev. 3:9

And surely the Eternal WORD of GOD has meaning for a 'remnant few'!
Rev. 12:17

--Elijah
 
Acts 27:13 When the south wind blew softly, supposing that they had obtained their desire, putting out to sea, they sailed close by Crete.

They never should have boarded that ship, and yet things went well. The fact that a ministry has a great past does not mean that it has a great present. I have seen Christians defend failed leaders because years ago, they had been used by God. But we're not living in the past. God will reward them for what they did in the past, but if they are out of His will in the present, it's time to abandon ship.

It is not a good idea to stay in a failed ministry because it was successful in the past.
 
Acts 27:13 When the south wind blew softly, supposing that they had obtained their desire, putting out to sea, they sailed close by Crete.

They never should have boarded that ship, and yet things went well. The fact that a ministry has a great past does not mean that it has a great present. I have seen Christians defend failed leaders because years ago, they had been used by God. But we're not living in the past. God will reward them for what they did in the past, but if they are out of His will in the present, it's time to abandon ship.

It is not a good idea to stay in a failed ministry because it was successful in the past.

Being Rev, 18:4 PARTAKERS by being yoked in membership will be FATAL if one will not leave. And the abomination of the earth ones leaves little left out. And support it with Gods tithe is nothing less than known robbery. And the Lord tells us which will suffer in hell the longest before they become ashes.

Luke 12
[47] And that servant, which knew his lord's will, and prepared not himself, neither did according to his will, shall be beaten with many stripes.
[48] But he that knew not, and did commit things worthy of stripes, shall be beaten with few stripes. For unto whomsoever much is given, of him shall be much required: ..'
 
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