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Advantages of Blaming others

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1. It can really give you a lift when you know it's not your fault
2. You don't have to change.
3. You don't have to reflect or doubt yourself
4. It can boost self confidence even if only temporary.
5. It can reinforce your belief that it's never your fault. In that way, you can sail through life, knowing that others are below par and you are way above them.
6. You don't have to suffer stress.
 
Always remember, when you point a finger at someone else, three of those fingers point back to you. Blame is a two way street as we might be part of the blame we put on others.
 
In my opinion and maybe others' society today has become more and more less about taking personal responsibility and more about passing blame. It is true that sometimes things happen through another person's negligence, carelessness, misunderstandings, or even desire but sometimes things just happen but other times things happen due to our own negligence, carelessness, misunderstandings, or even desire.

Many of the Mosaic laws were given to address responsibility toward each other when one does something either accidentally or intentionally. Most of the 10 Commandments are about how we are to treat each other. Proverbs has much to say about honor and integrity. The New Testament speaks volumes about truth and forgiveness.
 
The only way to cure neurosis is focussing blame on others.
 
Always remember, when you point a finger at someone else, three of those fingers point back to you. Blame is a two way street as we might be part of the blame we put on others.
I can see your 3 fingers pointing back at me glory.
 
The blame seems to get passed on these days, especially in the name of safety. If you don't check your surroundings and watch where your going its someone else fault, they should have had a safety cone.

Where is the self responsibility these days.
 
The blame seems to get passed on these days, especially in the name of safety. If you don't check your surroundings and watch where your going and slip over its someone else fault, they should have had a safety cone.
Don't you want to blame Ardern for something?
 
Don't you want to blame Ardern for something?

I don't blame anyone for anything because everyone has a right to there views and opinions and I have the right to my views and opinions so I just disagree.

Over the last few years I have always disagreed about open boarders in this world and I always spoke highly of bio security, and to many in this world i was just a racist, but now the boarders are locked and every single person who enters must go through bio security in the name of safety, and I guess everyone now agrees with my view that everyone who enters a country should go through security first then once in the country then they are free, so I guess im not a racist anymore and my belief was valid. I mean, the world has witnessed it's own denial of truth now.
 
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I can see your 3 fingers pointing back at me glory.
How can my three fingers point at you when they are pointing at me!!!

Is it good to blame others when you could have prevented something from happening?
 
I don't blame anyone, I mean whos going to say no to free cash. I mean big companies claiming wage subsidies and paying huge dividends to investors. I mean, that's my tax, they should give the candy back.
 
I don't blame anyone, I mean whos going to say no to free cash. I mean big companies claiming wage subsidies and paying huge dividends to investors. I mean, that's my tax, they should give the candy back.
I blame you Kiwi. You are the whole reason I'm overweight and unhappy. Don't you feel guilty,?
 
last year I was trying to explain how important bio security is and every single person should go through boarder security then they are free, I said that is what a countries boarder bio security is there for to prevent diseases that can infect other people like swine flu and bird flu and if there is a hole in the boarder you fix it, and I was called a racist for trying to protect people.
 
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I don't blame anyone , except, except, ...........everyone.
 
I don't Balme anyone. Let's take a step back in time when there was the open boarder argument, and in May last year I was trying to explain how important bio security is and every single person should go through boarder security then they are free, I said that is what a countries boarder security is there for to prevent diseases that can infect other people like swine flu and bird flu and if there is a hole in the boarder you fix it, and I was called a racist for trying to protect people.

Six months later the world has a outbreak of a disease and no one was prepared and we all get locked down because many did not take it seriously, they were too busy holding signs and welcomeing people sneaking though the boarders and if anyone disagreed they were called a racist. And I'm like no, no, no everyone should go through bio security because it prevents the spread of pest and diseases, and they cried racist racist, your just a racist. And I'm like no, no, I'm trying to keep you all safe, and they cried racist racist.


They not holding signs anymore are they.
I feel deja vu. Like I've read this same post of yours 20 times.
 
I feel deja vu. Like I've read this same post of yours 20 times.

Na, I think i said it a few times. I probably just edit them then you read it again somewhere. Lol.

Hey Humble did you watch the next game?.
 
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I don't blame anyone , except, except, ...........everyone.

I don't blame anyone because I don't think many people have bad intentions they just believe there world view is the best way when sometimes it's not, and that's why freedom of speech and opinion is a good thing and improtant, we can learn and grow, but unfortunately some people get too extreme with there views they want to silence critics. They see it as there way or no way. They go a bit insane. I will respect there freedom of speech and opinion as it's a value I believe in, even if I completely disagree , unfortunately it doesn't always go the other way.
 
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Na, I think i said it a few times. I probably just edit them then you read it again somewhere. Lol.

Hey Humble did you watch the next game?.
The ABs killed us. Again.
 
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