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Just about all Bible software sold in Christian book stores these days include the very-handy word locator known as the Strong's Concordance. The better software also includes the Englishman's Concordance too.
Here's how the Englishman's works. When you look up the word "love" in the New Testament, the Strong's will not only show you every place it's located, but also accompany the locations with a special number that indexes Strong's Greek lexicon so you can see for yourself the Greek word from which the English word was translated. In this example; there are four numbers for love: 5368, 2309, 25, and 26.
5368 is phileo (fil-eh'-o) which means to be friendly and/or fond of.
2309 is thelo (thel'-o) which simply denotes a personal preference; e.g. I love orange marmalade but hate apple butter.
25 is agapao (ag-ap-ah'-o) which goes beyond friendliness and/or personal preferences; and means to be especially devoted to someone.
26 is agape (ag-ah'-pay) which indicates an over-abundance of agape; viz: going all-out and holding nothing back.
Now supposing of those four Greek words for love the one that interests you is phileo. Well; you just plug phileo's number into the Englishman's Concordance and it will pull up every place in the New Testament where phileo is located.
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