I find in all faith a problem with romanticisation of life. So God is loving, sweet and kind, never harsh or difficult. Mary is the best mum of all, and totally devoted to the Father, above any commitment to marriage and bearing children. I mean that is too human a thing, that God could be connected with sex.
Is God without favouritism or bias, righteous yet pure, loving yet condemning of sin and evil?
So a priest is exalted through ceremony to be Holy, able to bring about the blood and body of Jesus is wafer and wine.
The ceremony is Holy in its own right, even though the celebrant might be apostate or unbelieving, the church building a place where God dwelt, even if paid for and bought to earn salvation for the reprobate wealthy ruler.
I saw a series on Netflix about the cocaine drug barons who gave to missionaries to balance out their sin and debauched lifestyle. We will stand before the Father to give account, but I wonder what that will be? Of how love transformed and transcended our lives, or of religion used to cover over the life of selfishness and self indulgence.
To be a good cover you need it to be exceptional, rather than the shinning light of a life honouring the King and lived humbly before Him in all aspects.
God bless you