Can sexual sin scar you mentally?

[SailorWriter]

I just want to know

 

[jasonc]

I just want to know

Porn

 

[SailorWriter]

Porn

Unfortunately, yes. It ruined my mind totally, and I can't even enjoy some games in fear I might do something weird or creepy.

 

[Riven]

I just want to know

Porn can have a negative effect on your normal sexual function. Like any addiction, you always need more of it over time to get the same hit of dopamine. It becomes a vicious cycle with fetishes and other stuff. That leads to normal sex with a woman to be seen as too normal and not exciting enough.

 

[Hidden In Him]

I just want to know

Once Satan gets his hooks in you, it can and will affect future marriage(s), and even who you choose as a marriage partner.

You'll either choose:
1. Someone just as dirty as you are, which if you do so means you can pretty much kiss purity in the marriage bed goodbye, or

2. You can try to choose someone pure, but even here, often your past can morally corrupt the pure types as well. Even if she is a virgin and has never done anything perverse in her life, it's not long before your past will have you sending the marriage bed into the moral gutter, and for some women this creates a tremendous problem, because they want to please you, but inside they're saying, "yuck!"

It can be the other way around as well. If your partner has been around the world, so to speak, and has become rather nasty in bed, you can find out after the fact that you've married a freak, which likewise presents a delicate situation for the husband if he's not ready for that sort of thing. If he feels convictions about it yet she wants to get into various kinks, he can try and direct her towards purity. But if she's the demanding type and has no convictions about it, now he's in a situation where his wife may not be pleased with their sex life even if she doesn't tell him, which is not a good place for any man to be in.

If you can stay pure and God brings you someone who has remained pure herself, sure, the two of you may venture into getting naughty together, but at least it is more of a consensus thing where you choose to make the decision together, rather than one being so predisposed to immortality in bed that it actually turns the other person off.

That's the long way of saying, yes. It can scar you up pretty badly.

 

[Hidden In Him]

That's the long way of saying, yes. It can scar you up pretty badly.

That said, however, God can restore even two people who have been down the road if they give themselves to Him, especially if there is a strong spiritual and romantic connection. If two people are VERY into each other on those levels, there's no need for perversity. They're way too busy already, if you know what I mean.

 

[Zeth4500]

i believe .. i think i have the quote from bible actually.
"He hath made him to be sin for us, who knew no sin" this kinda entails that god would force someone who never sinned- to sin? repent means a transformation, a decision- your word to god to not do wrong. and it makes great sense to me that you must do wrong to know right. as i see it your intention to not do wrong is the most important
casual sex and hookups give women issues in terms of bonding. meaning your partner might have to put more effort in to bettering himself or pleasing you - which, in case he simply cannot will cause disastrous issues where you will feel as if hes not good enough.

its explained that prior marriage couples should abstain from anything sexually stimulating as its tempting and could lead to the sin of full on penetration before marriage- which is generally accepted as the real issue, while many other believe that theres loop.. holes.

i think porn is fair in case you want to test your own ability to abstain, but only if youre mentally strong in the first place. much like some exorcists would summon a demon just to banish it right away - as an exercise

 

[for_his_glory]

You are very young and as a Christian who has accepted Jesus as Lord and Savior you have been made new again in Christ as old things are past away and your hope now is in Christ Jesus who has wiped the slate clean from past sins.

Colossians 3:1 If ye then be risen with Christ, seek those things which are above, where Christ sitteth on the right hand of God.
Colossians 3:2 Set your affection on things above, not on things on the earth.
Colossians 3:3 For ye are dead, and your life is hid with Christ in God.
Colossians 3:4 When Christ, who is our life, shall appear, then shall ye also appear with him in glory.

Read all of Colossians Chapter 13.

i think porn is fair in case you want to test your own ability to abstain, but only if youre mentally strong in the first place. much like some exorcists would summon a demon just to banish it right away - as an exercise

Never allow yourself to fall to temptations as that is Satan's playground messing with your mind. It's like a parent telling their child do not touch the hot stove or you will get burned, but they do anyways tempting fate and then paying the consequences for their action.

Best to stay away from those types of games that would tempt you sexually.