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Selfnaught

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I have been on this road since 2003 and would like to put an end.

In 2020 I came to know of the existence of God. Not believe, but know without a shadow of a doubt that God exists and it is actually impossible for him not to exist, for as long as truth exist, God exists.

I believe in Jesus and want desperately to erase all doubt that he does but I’m missing something to erase this doubt. Over 20 years I have heard all of the sources and went over all evidence, and there’s still doubt.

With God, there’s no evidence or proof, I’ve come to find. It’s simply a realization of the existence of God.

With Jesus, maybe it just seems too good to be true for me, idk. I mean yeah the evidence is overwhelming, but when we’re talking of the claims we’re talking about it needs to be beyond a shadow of a doubt. Jesus died for my sins, and if I accept him and love my neighbor I am one with him.

I feel like though, once accepting this truly there should be a drastic change in oneself. While I admit I’m more confident, less fearful, and overall in a better state of mind, I have not changed my lifestyle too much for the better, though I try to do better.

I guess for me it seems like my ego is as equally as powerful as me praying to Jesus, blasphemy not intended because I know my ego is not. I just don’t understand how if I pray in Jesus name to not do a sin and eventually commit the sin anyway.

I want to know that Jesus is, and I want to know that he died for my sins and all I need to do is believe. But I want more than to just believe this. I want to know this with all my heart in the same way I now know God exist with all my heart
 
Hi Selfnaught

You need a personal relationship with Jesus through the Spiritual rebirth and the indwelling of the Holy Spirit in order to know who Jesus is and your relationship to Him, John 3:5-7; Romans 10:9-10; Colossians 3:1-17.

Hold fast the profession of your faith that is Christ Jesus, Hebrews 10:19-25 and grow in the knowledge and understanding of His word praying and asking the Holy Spirit teach you, John 14:26.

If you have not done so yet, I would suggest you read the book of John as this will teach you all about Jesus and the relationship we have with Him, Then read the book of Acts as this will teach you about the indwelling of the Holy Spirit.
 
Selfnaught, please take a moment to read my testimony of how I became a genuine believer in Christ.

My Journey to Christ

I was raised attending a fundamental Baptist church in east Texas. Every Sunday our preacher's sermon was about accepting Jesus as savior or go to hell. I heard about sin, hell, Jesus dying on the cross, and “believing” in Jesus. At age 13 we had a weeklong revival and at the end of each of his sermons the visiting preacher would walk up and down the aisle begging people to go to the altar to accept Jesus as their savior. At the first service I remember thinking to myself “I hope he doesn't come over to me.” Well, he did, and when he put his hand on my shoulder, I found myself walking down the aisle to the altar. I was met by my SS teacher at the altar, and he asked me if I wanted to accept Jesus as my savior. Of course, I said “yes” so he had me repeat a prayer after him. I was told that I was now “saved,” and the next Sunday I was baptized in the regular church service.

By the time I was about 17-18 years old I wasn't sure if anything I had heard in church was true. I didn't care anything about going to church; I forgot about God. Later I finished high school, went to college & graduated not knowing what kind of job/career I should pursue, and finally settled into a teaching career as a math teacher, got married and started thinking about things young married couples think about.

By the time I was about 25-26 years old I stated to question myself about thinking that God was not real. I had serious doubts about all the stuff I had been taught in church as a kid being true. I wasn't convinced that the bible was true or that God existed. I did not understand how “believing in Jesus,” if he WAS real, would save anyone, and I did not understand how saying a prayer “in Jesus' name would save anyone. None of it made sense to me and I just did not get it. But, although I did not “get it,” and I wasn't convinced that any of it was true, for some reason I began to think a lot about what would happen to me if I was wrong, and the bible was true.

After several miserable years of doubting the truth of the bible, I started going to the church that I grew up in and pretend to be a Christian. Deep down inside I knew that I seriously doubted that I was a true "believer,” and many times I would try to work up a sense of "belief” then say a prayer asking God to save me. Afterwards I would have peace for maybe a day, but then the doubts would come back and again the fear & misery took hold of my life. The “believe in Jesus” part was the main thing that had me confused; I did not understand the meaning of “believe.” I began to ask people at church a lot of questions about the bible & about believing in Jesus. I still wasn't sure if any of it was true, but I wanted to know one way or the other. I talked to our SS teacher, the preacher, and other Christians. None of them could give me any answers that convinced me of the truth of the bible. No one could explain to me how saying a prayer in Jesus' name would save anyone. No one could convince me what was meant by “believing in Jesus.” I was still as confused as ever and did not know what to do about the matter. I found some books in the church library written by well known Christians authors, and I read those books over & over. Those books only repeated the stuff I had already heard in church. I still did not have any answers that convinced me that I would be “saved" if I “believed in Jesus,' and that I could know, without a doubt, that Jesus would hear me & save me. I thought that there was absolutely NO way I could ever know for sure that I believed in Jesus& was saved. By this time my life was consumed with fear; fear that I had missed something; fear that there was a missing link somewhere that I would never find. A fear that was I facing a tragic future.

I was miserable, hopeless, and helpless. I did not know what I should do. One night as I lay down to try and get some sleep, I looked up at the ceiling of the bedroom and said a prayer to a God who I wasn't sure existed. I said, “God, will you show me how to believe in Jesus?” Then I went to sleep and slept better that night than I had slept in a long time.

The next night I found the big family bible, dusted it off, and turned to the Book of John, the Gospel of John. That was the first time I had ever read in the bible outside of church. I did remember someone in church saying that if anyone wants to know about Jesus to read the Book of John. As I began to read from the first verse of the Book of John, I noticed that, for some reason, I was understanding the words I was reading in a way that I had not understood them in the past when reading the bible in Sunday school class as a kid. It was as though there was something inside of me that was enabling me to understand the words. At first it was kind of like a dim light that allowed me to grasp little bits of information that got my attention. When I read the first 14 verses, I said to myself, “That is Jesus, and he is God who became a man; he created the world everything in it.

As I continued to read, the light became brighter, and I began to see the words I was reading in a different way. When I read John 3:16 it reminded me of all the things I had heard in church about Jesus dying on the cross.

Two verses that really got my attention were John 4:23-24 which said that we worship God in Spirit and in truth, and I saw that I had just found that missing link. That missing link was/is the Spirit of God, the Holy Spirit, and that light just became much brighter as I realized that I was reading my answer from God. Suddenly I knew that God is real and that He was showing me the truth that I had been searching for.

I continued to read, and found 2 other verses that got my attention, John 5:39-40, where Jesus told the Pharisees that they were searching scripture looking for eternal life and those very scripture told of him, Jesus, but they would not come to him so that he could give them eternal life. Then the light became even brighter as I saw that Jesus wanted me to come to Him so He could give me eternal life.

Next, I discovered even more convincing words in John chapter 6, verses 28-44, where Jesus told those who were questioning him about the work God the Father required of them, and he told them that the work God required of them was to believe in the one whom he has sent. IOW, to believe in Jesus. WOW, that really got my attention, and I was still unsure about the word “believe," but I kept reading because, although I wasn't sure what I was going to find, I was willing to accept whatever it would be if it convinced me how to believe in Jesus.

In the rest of verses 30-44 Jesus told those who were questioning him that they can't come to him unless God the Father teaches & draws them to him, Jesus, as they hear and learn from him, God the Father. But the verse that turned that light on to full beam for me was verse37 where Jesus said, “All that the Father giveth me shall come to me; and him that cometh to me I will in no wise cast out.”

At the moment that God's Spirit turned that light on for me, I “got it.” All the things that I had heard in church as a kid, but did not understand, suddenly made sense to me. I saw that it's all about him. God's Spirit had just convinced me that the finished work of Jesus on the cross paid the penalty for my sin, in full, and that there is nothing that I could do or had to do to make myself acceptable to God for him to save me. I knew that Jesus took care of my sin problem for me, and immediately an enormous sense of peace overwhelmed my troubled soul. I was convinced that God is real, that the bible is the truth, and that Jesus was waiting for me to come to him so he could save me and change me. I didn't have to try to believe; I couldn't help myself but to do anything except to believe. I could not have stopped myself from believing if I had wanted to. It was as though Jesus was right there in the room with me; no, I did not see a vision of Jesus, but I knew he was alive and there with me. I found myself talking to him, thanking him for dying on the cross for me, and I asked him to forgive my sin and to change me. I asked him to change me “his way.” I didn't really know what that meant, but that's what I wanted.

That night, over 50 years ago I found a peace that I still have today. It is a peace that is impossible to explain to anyone who has never found that peace for themselves.

Yes, sometimes the devil tries to discourage me by putting the doubts back into my mind. He will try to get me to question my faith by telling me "You didn't really have enough faith,” or “you didn't really commit your life to Christ,” or "you didn't really repent,” or "you didn't confess all your sin.” I remind the devil that it is not about anything I did, but it is all about what Jesus did for me on the cross. I will quote verse 3 of my favorite hymn to him.

My sin oh the bliss of this glorious thought
My sin not in part, but the whole
Is nailed to the cross and I bear it no more
Praise the Lord, Praise the Lord Oh my soul

(It Is Well with My Soul, Horatio G. Spafford)


And then I quote my favorite scripture to him: John14:6, “Jesus said I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (KJV)
 
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