SteveBolts,
The problem I have with rituals is that most of the time it seems to become more important than God or His Word. Tradition gets placed very high in many religions, and I know for the Catholic church, this is true. It just left me with a bad taste in my mouth.
As far as my parents, yes they are great people but to tell you the truth, they don't know much about the bible. In fact, my dad even in a sense "brags" that he knows none of it. He is full of pride. And as my pastor would say, religious pride is the deadliest pride there is. I would have to agree with him. As far as my mom, she is so brainwashed that she has felt guilty picking up a bible. Over the years things have come up where my sisters and I have pointed out things in the bible to her and we have seen her sitting there reading some of it. I think she feels some convictions but I think she needs to stay "comfortable." So, she ignores. If she were to even consider the possibility that they could be wrong, I know my dad would blow his stack! If you try to talk to him about God, he starts to swear at us. Not saying that makes him a bad person but I just want to point out that even though I feel they are good people, they definately have their faults. Without getting in too much detail, as I was growing up, one of them abused alcohol. That isn't fun for a child to deal with. They also instilled in us children that it was ok to dislike or even hate certain races. It took a while for me to break that ugly cycle, and sometimes still rears it's ugly head. It was no big deal in our family to use the "n" word.
I don't remember the last time I used that word. 8-)
They also aren't very generous unless it's their own immediate family. I am just the opposite and when my mom sees me being so generous to people, she simply can't understand this. She tells me I shouldn't be obligated to do this or that or give this or that.
You must think I paint an ugly picture of my parents now. And there are parts that are ugly but we
all have our demons.
I've only scratched the surface but my main point is that
my parents don't know what it really means to be a Christian. They think if they are "good" God won't deny them entrance into heaven. They are extremely devout Catholics but they don't know Jesus!
My parents are loving and caring and are definately better people now than when I was a child but they are as blind as can be. I don't think they realize how bad of sinners they really are. I never knew I was that bad until after I became a Christian. And I was a pretty good kid/teen.
She focuses on sins such as throwing away food or missing church. If she only knew what harm she was doing by praying to Mary or believing the eucharist is really Christs body! :-?
I ask all of you Christians who read this board to take a minute and pray for my parents. I (along with my sisters) have tried to witness to them for over 20 years now. It's in God's hands and I realize my time is not His time and He does things His way. My #1 desire in my life is for my parents salvation. My brother also (who I believe has been questioning some things now).
Thank you. :D