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Death where is your sting?

Wrg1405

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Today my father in law went to be with Jesus. I say father in law but to me he was my dad.

I never knew my real father. Just a few awful memories. So I could never relate to a father dad.
It took me 5 years to actually call him dad. I remember the first time I called him dad.

It was New Year's Eve and he asked me if I wanted to go for a walk.
As we were looking over the village he said to me "I'm so thankful to God, all of my children have married Christians, that has always been my prayer"

I said to him "Not sure why you are thankful for me cause I ain't a good Christian"

He looked at me and said "I never asked God for good Christians just for spouses that believe in Jesus and want to walk with him"

That was the first time I called him dad, I said thank you dad he then said "I love you son"
That was the first time he called me son, I think the reason is because he knew I would not be able to cope with being called son and until I was ready to accept him as dad.

We have had lots of messages today from people, remembering how he loved them in times of trouble, came alongside them, led them to Jesus.

By no means was he perfect, like all of us but he loved Jesus and he loved people. Never shy of telling people about his wonderful saviour.

I said the whole family yesterday as we were sat around his bed that when the appointed time came even though dad was in a coma he would see Jesus, maybe at the end of his bed or holding his hand and saying "Hey mate time to come home"

About five minutes before he went home a friend text and said "for the last 5 minutes I have been praying Jesus come"

Jesus showed up and took my dad home.

Whilst one part of me is sad along with my wife we both have a praise in our hearts that dad is with Jesus, he is at the throne of God.

Wow how amazing is that? Our dad is with God.

Dad is not dead, death today is not the end. It is the beginning.

1 Corinthians 15:50-56

I declare to you, brothers and sisters, that flesh and blood cannot inherit the kingdom of God, nor does the perishable inherit the imperishable.

Listen, I tell you a mystery: We will not all sleep, but we will all be changed— in a flash, in the twinkling of an eye, at the last trumpet. For the trumpet will sound, the dead will be raised imperishable, and we will be changed.


John 14:1-4

Jesus Comforts His Disciples
“Do not let your hearts be troubled. You believe in God; believe also in me. My Father’s house has many rooms; if that were not so, would I have told you that I am going there to prepare a place for you? And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back and take you to be with me that you also may be where I am. You know the way to the place where I am going.”


1 Thessalonians 4:13-14

Believers Who Have Died
Brothers and sisters, we do not want you to be uninformed about those who sleep in death, so that you do not grieve like the rest of mankind, who have no hope. For we believe that Jesus died and rose again, and so we believe that God will bring with Jesus those who have fallen asleep in him.

For the perishable must clothe itself with the imperishable, and the mortal with immortality. When the perishable has been clothed with the imperishable, and the mortal with immortality, then the saying that is written will come true: “Death has been swallowed up in victory.”
“Where, O death, is your victory?
Where, O death, is your sting

That's a promise that we have because of Jesus.

Oh death where is your sting? It's been removed because of Jesus.

Love you dad and I will see you again.

Your son Bill
 
Beautiful Wrigley, as usual.
My prayers will be with you and your family.
What a comfort to know that a loved one is with the Lord!
It certainly helps with the pain we feel.
God bless you all.

Wondering
 
Today my father in law went to be with Jesus. I say father in law but to me he was my dad.

I never knew my real father. Just a few awful memories. So I could never relate to a father dad.
It took me 5 years to actually call him dad. I remember the first time I called him dad.

It was New Year's Eve and he asked me if I wanted to go for a walk.
As we were looking over the village he said to me "I'm so thankful to God, all of my children have married Christians, that has always been my prayer"

I said to him "Not sure why you are thankful for me cause I ain't a good Christian"

He looked at me and said "I never asked God for good Christians just for spouses that believe in Jesus and want to walk with him"

That was the first time I called him dad, I said thank you dad he then said "I love you son"
That was the first time he called me son, I think the reason is because he knew I would not be able to cope with being called son and until I was ready to accept him as dad.

We have had lots of messages today from people, remembering how he loved them in times of trouble, came alongside them, led them to Jesus.

By no means was he perfect, like all of us but he loved Jesus and he loved people. Never shy of telling people about his wonderful saviour.

I said the whole family yesterday as we were sat around his bed that when the appointed time came even though dad was in a coma he would see Jesus, maybe at the end of his bed or holding his hand and saying "Hey mate time to come home"

About five minutes before he went home a friend text and said "for the last 5 minutes I have been praying Jesus come"

Jesus showed up and took my dad home.

Whilst one part of me is sad along with my wife we both have a praise in our hearts that dad is with Jesus, he is at the throne of God.

Wow how amazing is that? Our dad is with God.

Dad is not dead, death today is not the end. It is the beginning.

1 Corinthians 15:50-56

I declare to you, brothers and sisters, that flesh and blood cannot inherit the kingdom of God, nor does the perishable inherit the imperishable.

Listen, I tell you a mystery: We will not all sleep, but we will all be changed— in a flash, in the twinkling of an eye, at the last trumpet. For the trumpet will sound, the dead will be raised imperishable, and we will be changed.


John 14:1-4

Jesus Comforts His Disciples
“Do not let your hearts be troubled. You believe in God; believe also in me. My Father’s house has many rooms; if that were not so, would I have told you that I am going there to prepare a place for you? And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back and take you to be with me that you also may be where I am. You know the way to the place where I am going.”


1 Thessalonians 4:13-14

Believers Who Have Died
Brothers and sisters, we do not want you to be uninformed about those who sleep in death, so that you do not grieve like the rest of mankind, who have no hope. For we believe that Jesus died and rose again, and so we believe that God will bring with Jesus those who have fallen asleep in him.

For the perishable must clothe itself with the imperishable, and the mortal with immortality. When the perishable has been clothed with the imperishable, and the mortal with immortality, then the saying that is written will come true: “Death has been swallowed up in victory.”
“Where, O death, is your victory?
Where, O death, is your sting

That's a promise that we have because of Jesus.

Oh death where is your sting? It's been removed because of Jesus.

Love you dad and I will see you again.

Your son Bill
You are very blessed to have had that relationship.
 
another well written and meaningful post, wrg.

Life involves suffering, but at least with Christ the suffering often results in growth, maturation, depth, meaning, etc. The world just gives you pseudo-insights from Deepak Chopra and the psych drug flavor of the month to cope.

I'm glad you had this beautiful relationship with your father-in-law, and I've been blessed on a personal level by reading your posts as you and your family go through all this. This reaffirms my thoughts and feelings that Christianity is true because only in Christ do we all have genuine hope of a new life, one in which death shall be no more.

Thank you, wrg. :)
 
Today my father in law went to be with Jesus. I say father in law but to me he was my dad.

I never knew my real father. Just a few awful memories. So I could never relate to a father dad.
It took me 5 years to actually call him dad. I remember the first time I called him dad.

It was New Year's Eve and he asked me if I wanted to go for a walk.
As we were looking over the village he said to me "I'm so thankful to God, all of my children have married Christians, that has always been my prayer"

I said to him "Not sure why you are thankful for me cause I ain't a good Christian"

He looked at me and said "I never asked God for good Christians just for spouses that believe in Jesus and want to walk with him"

That was the first time I called him dad, I said thank you dad he then said "I love you son"
That was the first time he called me son, I think the reason is because he knew I would not be able to cope with being called son and until I was ready to accept him as dad.

We have had lots of messages today from people, remembering how he loved them in times of trouble, came alongside them, led them to Jesus.

By no means was he perfect, like all of us but he loved Jesus and he loved people. Never shy of telling people about his wonderful saviour.

I said the whole family yesterday as we were sat around his bed that when the appointed time came even though dad was in a coma he would see Jesus, maybe at the end of his bed or holding his hand and saying "Hey mate time to come home"


Jesus showed up and took my dad home.

Whilst one part of me is sad along with my wife we both have a praise in our hearts that dad is with Jesus, he is at the throne of God.

Wow how amazing is that? Our dad is with God.

Dad is not dead, death today is not the end. It is the beginning.

1 Corinthians 15:50-56

I declare to you, brothers and sisters, that flesh and blood cannot inherit the kingdom of God, nor does the perishable inherit the imperishable.

Listen, I tell you a mystery: We will not all sleep, but we will all be changed— in a flash, in the twinkling of an eye, at the last trumpet. For the trumpet will sound, the dead will be raised imperishable, and we will be changed.


John 14:1-4

Jesus Comforts His Disciples
“Do not let your hearts be troubled. You believe in God; believe also in me. My Father’s house has many rooms; if that were not so, would I have told you that I am going there to prepare a place for you? And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back and take you to be with me that you also may be where I am. You know the way to the place where I am going.”


1 Thessalonians 4:13-14

Believers Who Have Died
Brothers and sisters, we do not want you to be uninformed about those who sleep in death, so that you do not grieve like the rest of mankind, who have no hope. For we believe that Jesus died and rose again, and so we believe that God will bring with Jesus those who have fallen asleep in him.

For the perishable must clothe itself with the imperishable, and the mortal with immortality. When the perishable has been clothed with the imperishable, and the mortal with immortality, then the saying that is written will come true: “Death has been swallowed up in victory.”
“Where, O death, is your victory?
Where, O death, is your sting

That's a promise that we have because of Jesus.

Oh death where is your sting? It's been removed because of Jesus.

Love you dad and I will see you again.

Your son Bill

God is the God of comfort, may he bless and comfort, strengthen you and your family at this time.
 
Hi everyone.

I hope you are all well and have had a fantastic Christmas.

I'm not wishing to revive this thread but just wanted to ask you all who have responded and liked respondent posts.

Can I ask you that if you remember that you pray for the immediate family.
As you know it was two weeks ago tomorrow this great man died.

The shock of what happened is now being replaced by the reality of what has happened.

My mother in law, my wife and brother and sister in law are walking round in a daze but feel thneed to be strong for each other without allowing each other to support each other and grieve.

Preparation for the funeral on Wednesday start tomorrow. It is a family only burial, about 40 people.
I am sure on Wednesday at the graveside reality will really hit home.

So my request is if you remember is to pray for the following.

When the coffin is lowered into the ground, the reality of death, that the peace of God will come upon us all.
When it's time to walk away that it's not goodbye but an interlude to being together one day.
That the family will start to be able to grieve, that they know it's not wrong to grieve and be sad and cry.
That each member feels free to grieve as they know how and each support one another.

One final thing.

The whole family will walk to the burial (about 15 minute walk). I am driving to take the flowers.
I have said to my kids that if they do not want to not be by the graveside for the actual burial, then they can sit in my car. I really do not think kids should be made to attend burials/cremations.

So I have given my kids the choice. I'm not sure how the rest of the will react but I'm happy with my thoughts.

So,if I'm wrong ask God to reveal it me, if others think I'm wrong ask God for understanding of my thoughts.

Sorry if this comes accross as burdening you, it's not meant to be so. That is why I always say "If you remember"

God bless you all.
 
Prayers for strength will continue.
I agree about the kids.
Their choice. Not good to force.
God bless you all with His comfort.
 
Thank you

Hi everyone.

I hope you are all well and have had a fantastic Christmas.

I'm not wishing to revive this thread but just wanted to ask you all who have responded and liked respondent posts.

Can I ask you that if you remember that you pray for the immediate family.
As you know it was two weeks ago tomorrow this great man died.

The shock of what happened is now being replaced by the reality of what has happened.

My mother in law, my wife and brother and sister in law are walking round in a daze but feel thneed to be strong for each other without allowing each other to support each other and grieve.

Preparation for the funeral on Wednesday start tomorrow. It is a family only burial, about 40 people.
I am sure on Wednesday at the graveside reality will really hit home.

So my request is if you remember is to pray for the following.

When the coffin is lowered into the ground, the reality of death, that the peace of God will come upon us all.
When it's time to walk away that it's not goodbye but an interlude to being together one day.
That the family will start to be able to grieve, that they know it's not wrong to grieve and be sad and cry.
That each member feels free to grieve as they know how and each support one another.

One final thing.

The whole family will walk to the burial (about 15 minute walk). I am driving to take the flowers.
I have said to my kids that if they do not want to not be by the graveside for the actual burial, then they can sit in my car. I really do not think kids should be made to attend burials/cremations.

So I have given my kids the choice. I'm not sure how the rest of the will react but I'm happy with my thoughts.

So,if I'm wrong ask God to reveal it me, if others think I'm wrong ask God for understanding of my thoughts.

Sorry if this comes accross as burdening you, it's not meant to be so. That is why I always say "If you remember"

God bless you all.

I think you made the right choice with the children. Will continue to pray that God will give you and your family the strength that they need at this time. Death is really an enemy and it is good to know that one day it will be destroyed. Peace.
 
I think you made the right choice with the children. Will continue to pray that God will give you and your family the strength that they need at this time. Death is really an enemy and it is good to know that one day it will be destroyed. Peace.
Amen
 
Hi everyone.

I hope you are all well and have had a fantastic Christmas.

I'm not wishing to revive this thread but just wanted to ask you all who have responded and liked respondent posts.

Can I ask you that if you remember that you pray for the immediate family.
As you know it was two weeks ago tomorrow this great man died.

The shock of what happened is now being replaced by the reality of what has happened.

My mother in law, my wife and brother and sister in law are walking round in a daze but feel thneed to be strong for each other without allowing each other to support each other and grieve.

Preparation for the funeral on Wednesday start tomorrow. It is a family only burial, about 40 people.
I am sure on Wednesday at the graveside reality will really hit home.

So my request is if you remember is to pray for the following.

When the coffin is lowered into the ground, the reality of death, that the peace of God will come upon us all.
When it's time to walk away that it's not goodbye but an interlude to being together one day.
That the family will start to be able to grieve, that they know it's not wrong to grieve and be sad and cry.
That each member feels free to grieve as they know how and each support one another.

One final thing.

The whole family will walk to the burial (about 15 minute walk). I am driving to take the flowers.
I have said to my kids that if they do not want to not be by the graveside for the actual burial, then they can sit in my car. I really do not think kids should be made to attend burials/cremations.

So I have given my kids the choice. I'm not sure how the rest of the will react but I'm happy with my thoughts.

So,if I'm wrong ask God to reveal it me, if others think I'm wrong ask God for understanding of my thoughts.

Sorry if this comes accross as burdening you, it's not meant to be so. That is why I always say "If you remember"

God bless you all.
Will pray.
 
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