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So are there people who have never kissed an opposite sex before - in the name of being modest and Godly?
 
Defiantly. I know some people who won't (or didn't) even kiss until they are/were married. For them, they thought they'd not push the boundaries and tempt themselves.

For me, this isn't an issue, but for some it is, and good on them for recognising where their boundaries lie and sticking with it. To not kiss until marriage must take incredible restraint.
 
Eora said:
Defiantly. I know some people who won't (or didn't) even kiss until they are/were married. For them, they thought they'd not push the boundaries and tempt themselves.

For me, this isn't an issue, but for some it is, and good on them for recognising where their boundaries lie and sticking with it. To not kiss until marriage must take incredible restraint.
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Defiantly? Did you mean definitely? Defiantly works better actually, lol. It would be hard. An incredible amount of restraint like you say...
 
I definately can not claim to fame on this one.One thing I used to love to do and that was.......kiss :biggrin2
 
Eora said:
Defiantly. I know some people who won't (or didn't) even kiss until they are/were married. For them, they thought they'd not push the boundaries and tempt themselves.

For me, this isn't an issue, but for some it is, and good on them for recognising where their boundaries lie and sticking with it. To not kiss until marriage must take incredible restraint.
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I think that is the ultimate goal.Temptation can come in a kiss.Because then you want more.
 
Romans 14:23 But he who doubts is condemned if he eats, because he does not eat from faith; for whatever is not from faith is sin.
A person should say away from any physical contact that would make them stumble and fall or cause temptation that would lead to premarital sex.And sexual intercourse is not the only activity considered sex.
 
Kathi said:
Romans 14:23 But he who doubts is condemned if he eats, because he does not eat from faith; for whatever is not from faith is sin.
A person should say away from any physical contact that would make them stumble and fall or cause temptation that would lead to premarital sex.And sexual intercourse is not the only activity considered sex.
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Some won't agree with this
 
That'd be me. Unless you count when I was 6 and this boy was trying to annoy me.
Okay, so my family did believe in not kissing until after marriage. One of the little things I've come to slightly disagree with them on. I've never been in a relationship, though, so I've just never done it.
 
I've kissed before, and never had anything against kissing before marriage. I just hadn't done it until I was in a relationship. I dated a woman who surprised me with her stance on kissing when I tried to kiss her. She said it was to remain godly, and so we would know true love. That isn't my conviction, and the relationship did not last.
 
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