MALACHI 2:15 And did not he make one? Yet had he the residue of the spirit. And wherefore one? That he might seek a godly seed. Therefore take heed to your spirit, and let none deal treacherously against the wife of his youth.
MALACHI 2:16 For the LORD, the God of Israel, saith that he hateth putting away: for one covereth violence with his garment, saith the LORD of hosts: therefore take heed to your spirit, that ye deal not treacherously.
God hates divorce. Period.
God is working out patience with you. If you are Christian, you are not to divorce. But if you are married to a non-Christian they can leave you. 1 Corinthians 7:15 But if the unbeliever leaves, let him do so. A believing man or woman is not bound in such circumstances; God has called us to live in peace.
If the unfaithful does leave, God will not hold you accountable of divorce. However it still does not give the right for the faithful to leave the faithless. (MATTHEW 19:7-9)
I believe the title scripture is referring more to a church then an actual wife.
EPHESIANS 5:25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;
Also note that divorce brings nothing but, trouble to a youth.