Hi Brother Oz, I’ll just give my opinion of the choices you present. The grave is referred to as a sepulcher at times such as in John 12:17, and other times a place of everlasting torment such as that of Mat 5:30 when using the meanings of the word in Strong's Concordance. There are different levels of that prison such as that of 2 Pet 2:4. I believe we’re all familiar with Abraham’s boson as a place of comfort of the righteous dead such as Lazarus, whereas the rich man was in torment in Hades told us in Luke 16:23.
It appears to me that the same word hell can be translated or used from different Greek or Hebrew words depending upon the severity of the punishment. You ask the difference in Abraham’s bosom and Paradise, and my answer is nothing except its location being in heaven after Jesus made the way open by His sacrifice on the cross. Abraham’s bosom was in the lower parts of the earth and was taken to heaven. Even the thief on the cross was said to have been taken to Paradise that day which was Abraham’s bosom.
Eph 4:8 Wherefore he saith, When he ascended up on high, he led captivity captive, and gave gifts unto men.
Eph 4:9 (Now that he ascended, what is it but that he also descended first into the lower parts of the earth?
Eph 4:10 He that descended is the same also that ascended up far above all heavens, that he might fill all things.)
The Lake of Fire seems to me to be the punitive result of the judgment pronounced upon all not found in the Book of Life at the Great White Throne judgment of Rev 20:13. And the sea gave up the dead which were in it; and death and hell delivered up the dead which were in them: and they were judged every man according to their works.
Rev 20:14 And death and hell were cast into the lake of fire. This is the second death.
Rev 20:15 And whosoever was not found written in the book of life was cast into the lake of fire.
Destruction - Hebrew 11 a perishing (hades)
Hades - Greek 86 Place of departed souls – Grave, hell.
Geenna - Greek 1067 State of everlasting punishment. (Hell) Mat 5:30
Death - Hebrew 4194 their place or state, ruin (hades) 2 Sam 2:26, Isa 28:15
Tartaroo - G5020 - The deepset abyss of Hades. 2 Pet 2:4
Lowest hell – Hebrew 7585 Shehole - Lower or nether parts Hades, or world of the dead - Grave, hell, pit,
2 Sam 2:26, Psa 9:17, Ps 16:10, Psa 55:15, Isa 28:15,