Malachi 1:2-5 [ESV]
2 "I have loved you," says the LORD. But you say, "How have you loved us?" "Is not Esau Jacob's brother?" declares the LORD. "Yet I have loved Jacob 3 but Esau I have hated. I have laid waste his hill country and left his heritage to jackals of the desert."
4 If Edom says, "We are shattered but we will rebuild the ruins," the LORD of hosts says, "They may build, but I will tear down, and they will be called 'the wicked country,' and 'the people with whom the LORD is angry forever.'" 5 Your own eyes shall see this, and you shall say, "Great is the LORD beyond the border of Israel!"
Does God LOVE Esau?
- Does God show his love by stating "Esau I have hated"
- Does God show his love by "laying waste his hill country"?
- Does God show his love by "leaving his heritage to jackals of the desert"?
- When they rebuild the ruins, is it loving of God to "tear it down"?
- Does their reputation as "the wicked country" highlight God's great love for them?
- When God calls them "the people with whom the LORD is angry forever." was that really just a "pet name", a Divine "term of endearment"?
Why is it that YOU read Malachi 1 and could see none of this?
How can I really trust you to be MY teacher about anything?
I did make my point ...
You chose to ignore it.
That depends on how one defines "family" and "hate" ... I am a survivor of things that would get parents arrested today, so I have some less than "loving" memories. However, we both know (even if YOU will never admit) that the context of God's hate in Malachi 1 and Jesus' statement in Luke 14 are nothing alike. Even the word "hate" is not the same since one is Greek and the other is Hebrew.